Are men sexier than women? This is not necessarily true. In some aspects, women are more lustful than men. Let’s take a look at who has the greater lust for sex between men and women.

It has always been believed that men are more passionate about sex than women. But there is one data in which women are far ahead of men.

According to a survey conducted by British Internet giant Last Minute, women spend more time thinking about sex every day than men.

This conventional wisdom-shaking survey was conducted among 4,000 UK residents. Surveys show that everyone, regardless of gender, spends most of the day thinking about work-related matters. However, in comparison, men are more career-oriented. They spend 10 hours a day thinking about work-related matters and only 150 minutes thinking about sex-related issues; women spend an average of 8.5 minutes a day thinking about work. hours, and 180 minutes spent thinking about sex-related issues.

After carefully analyzing the survey results, many andrologists pointed out that this is obviously not a change in the nature of men and women. Women are "emotional animals", and their thoughts on sex are directly derived from the experience of love. They think more about how to spend quality leisure time with their partner throughout the day than just about sex.

And men have become less "sexual" and erect, mainly as a result of fierce competition. Experts have given men specific suggestions on how to properly reduce stress: Men should balance the relationship between career and family, and learn to enjoy missing their families during work breaks like women do. Putting a family photo on the desk and setting up a loved one's profile picture on the computer screen is not only a distraction for their work, but also a great help for family harmony.

Men should take the initiative to share their feelings with their families. When you get home, try to relax and immerse yourself in the warmth of your loved one's company. Men should also establish their own same-sex social circle, enjoy mutual support among friends, and reduce career pressure, which is very helpful for them to restore their enthusiasm for family.

How to grasp the "degree" of jealousy

Today, jealousy has become one of the symbols of love. Many times, people often judge the occurrence of a love based on jealousy. If two people are together and one person is never jealous, the other person may even feel that "he/she doesn't really love me." But if one party is too jealous, it will also make the other party feel very troubled and not know what to do. Do you understand why you are jealous? As an indispensable condiment in love, how should we control the "degree" of jealousy? Let us explore the real psychology behind jealousy.

Why has jealousy become one of the "iconic symbols" of love?

In love, you have to have all kinds of flavors. There is an old saying in Chinese tradition to describe couples, which is to respect each other as guests. But if you and your partner really "respect each other as guests" together, it will be a very painful life. Love is a part of life, it always needs some sweet and bitter seasoning before you find it interesting. Jealousy is one of the adjustments, just don't overdo it. As soon as some people see their wife or husband dressed up nicely or handsomely, they are always worried that she/he will do something outside, keep asking questions, and become jealous for no reason, or they get jealous whenever they have the opportunity. If you don't let others handle it, everyone will be under a lot of pressure.

So how should we grasp the "degree" of jealousy?

First of all, you need to know your own bottom line and what kind of behavior will make you jealous. Sometimes there is a slight quarrel, and it is over, and it is quite fun; but if it exceeds your ability to bear, the jealousy becomes too big, and the two of you fight to a mess, it will not be good; or things have calmed down and the scars But it stayed in my heart. Therefore, couples have something to say openly to each other. ……