My friend told me that she was married!

Me: Congratulations!

Friend: Congratulations, I’m not happy! We just didn't get along.

Me: Why should we get married if we can’t get along?

Friend: You are already so old, why don’t you just give an explanation to your family!

I am at a loss: Do I risk my life just for an explanation?

How many people are getting married now just for the sake of getting married? Sometimes others are more anxious about love and marriage than you are. Especially under the influence of thousands of years of traditional thinking, it seems that you should get married and have children at a certain age. Therefore, many modern versions of ancient blind dates have been performed, where you get married first and fall in love later! For them, getting married sometimes just completes a task, but the only thing they don't think about is how to face their marriage after getting married? If you are lucky enough to meet someone you like, then it’s not a bad idea to cultivate your relationship slowly! The most terrifying thing is when two people with different personalities come together, conflicts will naturally arise. After all, modern society is not the old society. With the development of society, women no longer only play the role of husband and childcare at home. Just imagine, if two people with independent ideas live together but have no emotional basis, then such a marriage will be worrying! Especially those who get married for the sake of getting married, the first thought after getting married is to rush to have a baby. With the arrival of the baby, it will not be so easy to escape from the city of marriage.

Let us calm down and think about it carefully: Is marriage for ourselves or for others? In fact, for most men, the reason for falling in love is often to get married. For most women, they basically get married for the sake of love. Therefore, some men will try their best to conquer a woman even when they are not very in love. Women who are carried away by sweet words gradually fall into this trap. As a result, there have been many strange phenomena that puzzle women after marriage: Why is he so different before marriage and after marriage?

So, in the face of the urging of relatives and friends, let us think about it and think about it again, and do not treat marriage with an attitude of fulfilling our obligations. After all, marriage is a major event in life, not a game! Although divorce is much easier now than before, a failed marriage will affect us throughout our lives!