To love, you must love a virgin. Women always like to ask men "What do you like about me?" It's very simple, it is that they like women to be virgins. In fact, virginity is no longer just a virgin, virginity has become a plot.

What do men love about women? What is there about women that men should cherish? Men love women, they love their cuteness, they love their beauty. What attracts men most to women, the excitement a woman feels when she receives a love letter for the first time, the nervousness of looking left and right for fear of being discovered when dating a boy for the first time, the shyness of a woman when she holds a man’s hand for the first time, the first time a woman The implicit feeling when leaning on a man's shoulder, the uneasiness of a woman when she kisses for the first time, the half-hearted caress of a woman for the first time, the desire and uneasiness of a woman when she becomes a bride for the first time, the first time a woman meets a man. The romantic feelings of a woman and her beloved being together for the first time. A woman blushes shyly when she is with her boyfriend, a woman raises her lips because of jealousy for her sweetheart, and a woman smiles when a man surprises her.

For many women, not being a virgin before marriage is not unusual, nor is it important. What is important is that the man can accept it. It's not that women lose their virginity to others because they have no morals. Free love forces men and women to have room for free play, and mature bodies trigger sexual impulses. So, how do men view the issue of virginity, and how do women view the issue of virginity?

Men view virginity

1. Men are in urgent need of virginity, and every man wants it His wife has never had sexual intercourse, which not only means chastity, but also fidelity in love.

2. Men have no choice but to find virgins, as long as women can still have children and don’t let loose. Imagine that there are so many divorces and so many people living together. It is impossible for two people to stay together after they start to fall in love. If they have sexual relations, it means they are no longer virgins. Think more tolerantly and learn from Western countries. I don't think so.

3. It doesn’t matter, as long as you are a woman. It's a bit unreasonable to ask others to be virgins when they are no longer a virgin. Most of these people are imaginative human beings who believe that love can conquer traditional concepts. Virginity is just a way of saying it, and it does not represent love.

To summarize, Chinese men have a very serious obsession with virginity. They don’t say it with their mouths, but they care about it in their hearts. But society has become like this, and there is no way to be picky. However, there are still some women who encounter tragedies everywhere. , it is often not virgins who cause relationships to break down.

Women look at virgins

1. They care very much. Since you are loyal to love, you must give the other person your first time. If you are not a virgin, it is betrayal. If you can betray others, you can betray yourself.

2. There is no way to determine whether you are a virgin or not. Although I care about virgins, I can't tell them apart and they don't have obvious characteristics like virgins. Once they know that the other person is not a virgin, they will suspect many things, and may even suspect that he has had sexual relations with prostitutes, and think that this kind of man is unreliable.

3. It doesn’t matter, as long as you are sincere to yourself. A good man is not necessarily a virgin. It is usually said that a second-hand man is a good man. Therefore, many women do not care about the virginity issue. They think that as long as they have a safe family and shoulders, as for what sexual history a man has before, That's not her business.

To sum up, most women in China cannot establish their status. They think that men have the right to choose, just take off their pants and wear pants, but women have too many worries, and once they have a bad reputation Will affect the whole life.