A male teacher taught a high school girl who repeatedly violated disciplines. The girl raised her eyebrows and said, "Why do you care so much? After I graduate, I will make more money as a lady than you do as a teacher. What are you proud of?" "The girl's eyes were full of disdain and contempt. The teacher was stunned. His student could actually say such disrespectful words in front of the teacher. What can a teacher say? I don’t know if this is a tragedy for education or a tragedy for society.

There was another high school girl who always liked to go to a drugstore to buy condoms. When the young female shopkeeper asked who she was buying for, the girl prevaricated and said that she was buying condoms for her classmates. Later, the girl was going to work in a certain city before graduating from high school, and she went to that store to buy some before leaving. I don't know if I was being honest or showing off my ability or my own value, so I said to the female shopkeeper: "Guess who I bought it for?" The female shopkeeper asked doubtfully, didn't you say you bought it for a classmate? The girl smiled: "Actually, I bought it for myself. Although my face is not very beautiful, my figure is still first-class." The girl also said a lot of things later, many of which are difficult for us as adults to say, but she said Be natural and generous, with no shame on your face. The girl said that she had already had relationships with three members of the opposite sex, and many girls in the class were like that. The girl also said that she was leaving and wanted to buy more. She looked so proud and excited that you would not believe that she was just a high school student. s student.

This is not a fabrication, nor is it hearsay, nor is it a scene from a TV movie. This is a real story in life. When you hear this, you may not only be surprised and ashamed, but also confused and sad. How can today's children be like this? But it’s really like this. Maybe my thoughts have failed to keep up with the trend and seem a bit outdated, but I always think that no matter how avant-garde I am, I won't be so avant-garde that I don't have self-respect, and I will be avant-garde to such a liberating point, right? The hazy feelings between middle school students are beautiful, but if the feelings develop to the point where they don’t know self-respect and self-love, but just squander their youth or so-called value, is that love?

As an educator, you naturally deal with students, so you often face students making trouble, often see many bad behaviors of students, and often hear the curse words uttered by students, especially It's because today's girls spit out dirty words that are dirtier and more poisonous than boys, and they still have no sense of shame. They spoke dirty words and had bright and even innocent smiles on their faces. Seeing this made people feel chilled and heartbroken. Is the pursuit of individual liberation reaching this point? I have always felt that it is not important for students to be naughty or do not have good academic performance. What is important is to learn to be a good person and learn to respect and love themselves. But now many girls seem to have forgotten what self-esteem and self-love are, and blindly pursue their so-called personality. Sometimes I feel that notes of love passed between students are nothing, but at least they should respect themselves and follow their own trajectory, especially girls. It’s not that I have a problem with gender bias, but I always feel that girls should look like girls. Girls can play around, be in the limelight, and make noises, but they must never lose their self-esteem.

With the progress of society and the improvement of people's living standards, people's material life is also improving, and maybe their thoughts are also evolving rapidly. Although equality between men and women is now advocated, although girls now no longer have to smile without showing their teeth, and women no longer have to wear three-inch golden lotuses like women in the past, although girls can do things that boys can do now, as a girl , self-esteem is still the most important, at least you should love yourself and respect yourself.

As educators, faced with students’ rebellion, girls’ overly assertive personalities, or lack of self-esteem, we have to reflect: What should we teach students? Although many teachers have seen that those girls who are very annoying in school and whose behavior is very bad and are often criticized by teachers, after graduating from junior high school, they wear very fashionable clothes and walk down the street very seductively, and they can't shake it off their faces. With a smile on his face, he could not help but murmur in his heart: Why did she come to this place in the first place? It’s really a waste of time to worry about others if they don’t shine as brightly as before. But as an educator, you have to worry about it blindly. At least within your own responsibilities, you have to ignore the "blind worry" in the future. Within their own responsibilities, they should not only teach them knowledge, but also teach them the principles of life, and also teach them self-esteem and self-love.

As a girl, you may not be beautiful, you may not dress beautifully, and you may not have excellent grades, but you must remember to love yourself.

No matter how society progresses, no matter how avant-garde you are, no matter what you do in the future, no matter whether you are poor or rich in the future, girls, please respect yourself.

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