Where does women's sexiness come from?
Who said that only beautiful, plump and wild women can be sexy? The most thought-provoking sexiness has always transcended vision. It is formed from the inside and formed from the outside. It is not only innate but also depends on the management and liberation of the day after tomorrow. The question is instead, wouldn’t pursuing and expressing sexiness go against today’s new female values? Take a look at the following new sexy ideas, and you will have a new perspective on sexiness, and be infected with the sexy charm that can arouse people's imagination.
The reason why sexy is sexy is that it can trigger a sexual attraction. Sexiness will naturally emit different flavors or produce different effects when applied to different women. It really depends on whether the way it is distributed is clever and artistic (Zhu Yin's sexy, Zhou Haimei's sexy and Gong's) Snowflake sexy gives people completely different perceptions.) For example, sexy to look at and sexy in itself, sexy to arouse human impulses and seductive reverie, kitsch sexy and elegant sexy are naturally two different levels.
In addition, many women mistake voluptuousness for sexy, or they are too anxious to show off their sexy or overly showy coquettishness. Little do they know that a higher level of sexiness with a rich sense of beauty is the invisible killer. "Sexy in the Bone".
By the end of the 1990s, more and more women were looking to be sexy just to please themselves and not just to please men. Just like today's women like to dress up just to "feel good about themselves" rather than to "please themselves". What's more, sexiness is a natural talent possessed by every female animal. Can't the formerly innocent Zhu Yin become like a sexy little wild cat after doing some "little tricks" in her image? A pair of sleepy eyes when a woman wakes up, a faint feeling after drinking, and a blushing face are not sexy. These are the elements that constitute beauty, so why should sexiness be suppressed? !
After reading the following new sexy ideas, you will know how to discover, release and express your hidden sexy charm from the inside out, from head to toe.
1. Small acts of self-touching:
The new sexy index of the millennium has transcended issues of vision, body shape or exposure. It is an expression and enjoyment of all senses. A bright smile, an innocent or flirtatious eye movement (Julia Roberts or Cameron Diaz style), a melancholic or trance-like attitude when indulging in thinking or imagining, and even a half-coquettish and half-soft tone of voice are all restrained and sexy. Among them, the French are a nation that knows how to reveal their sexy side. Firstly, French is recognized as the sexiest language in the world, and secondly, the French are good at using body language. Such as throwing phoenix eyes, raising eyebrows and pouting in times of helplessness or exclamation. Among all kinds of body language, inadvertent self-touch is the most ecstatic little gesture. Such as inadvertently biting your fingers, holding your chin, inadvertently brushing your hair back, gently holding your face with your hands, shrugging your shoulders when helpless, crossing your hands and caressing your shoulders or the back of your neck, and reaching into your sweater. Some charming little moves. Juliette Lewis, who has acted in "The Cape" and "Natural Born Killers", is the best at this. No wonder she is regarded by many directors as a hot new sexy actress.
2. Add a little exotic atmosphere:
Exotic atmosphere does not necessarily only attract Westerners. Many people will be attracted by the remoteness, wildness and mystery of exotic atmosphere. With. The management method can be to wear some ethnic-colored clothes and grow straight and waist-length hair (you might as well make it a little messy). And allowing yourself to travel more and spend more time wandering is the best way to cultivate an exotic mood.
3. Sensibility and sexyness:
Sexiness and sensibility have always been complementary to each other. A woman with sensibility and gentleness will be more delicate and contagious in her thinking, tone of voice, and every move.
4. Add a little drunkenness:
A little drunkenness not only adds blush to the cheeks, but also adds a hazy beauty and soft beauty to the eyes. Time-locked sensibility and magnanimous beauty. But remember not to drink too much.
5. Wear accessories in sexy special area:
There are many sexy areas on a woman’s body, such as ankles, ear beads, shoulders, nape of neck, arms, choke points, etc. Therefore, wear a small rope or small anklet on the ankle area, and hang a large earring on the ear beads. Or a small circle, wearing an armband or a small tattoo on the arm, wearing a delicate choker or necklace in the choke position can significantly increase a woman's sexiness index.
6. Wearing high-heeled sandals:
Women’s ankles and feet have long been considered important sexual characteristics by sexologists. Sandals and high heels have always been weapons used by women to show off their sexy legs. Men like to stare at women's bare ankles when wearing sandals and their more graceful posture when wearing low-heeled high heels. This is a public behavior that women don't mind being peeped at. By the way, according to research by Eastern and Western sexology researchers, it turns out that wearing high heels regularly (high heels that are healthy for the feet, of course) will make the muscles on the inner side of the legs stronger, thus having the magical effect of improving women's sexual performance!
7. Jeans fit close to the body:
Nine out of ten jeans advertisements are about selling sex appeal, which shows the role of jeans in selling sex appeal. In addition to the models selling jeans themselves, jeans advertisements often project an image of being uninhibited and going their own way, which actually has a subtle relationship with sexiness to a certain extent. Models who sell jeans ads for Guess and Diesel, and even Zhong Chuhong, who was lying on the floor selling jeans ads for Levi’s, all wear perfectly tailored jeans to double their sex appeal!
8. Cultivate a wild heart:
If you are not wild on the outside, cultivating a wild heart can actually make you feel exciting and even mysterious. The so-called inner wildness can mean being frivolous, adventurous, loving to try new things, fond of fantasy, and willing to go out and realize dreams at any time.
9. Know how to play or dance:
People who know how to play musical instruments and dance will always reveal a sensibility and tenderness mixed with sexiness, and this idea is actually more sexy than sexiness. Tempting. Especially when men play the piano or saxophone, women play the violin or cello, and women dance Spanish dance or tango, the euphemistic or cold eyes they reveal are even more potent in killing people.
10. Good use of eye movement:
Qiu Shui Jian pupils and micro-thin eyes actually have their own expressions of sexy eyes. Whether it is melancholic, confused (such as Jinbi Xinga), ethereal, lazy (such as Marlene Derich, Elizabeth Holly), innocent and smiling (such as Brigitte Bardot, Maggie Ryan) or those with fire hidden in their eyes (such as Liv Taylor), as long as they are charming and full of hope, eye circles are the birthplace of sex appeal.
11. Whispers ringing in the ears:
The reason why the French are known as the sexiest nation is precisely because the French are full of sensibility and ups and downs in their expressions, and the French It is also like a soft whisper, pausing at appropriate places to enhance the sense of rhythm, and using the beauty of rhythm to lead the listener to roam in your thoughts. This speaking style, which is like asking people to dance with your thoughts, is not also a kind of speaking style. Sexy experience?
12. Immerse yourself in boundless thoughts:
Although many people are plain in appearance, once they are immersed in boundless thoughts, their faces will unexpectedly gain a charm. Those expressions that cast their eyes far away, pouting their lips, or tilting their faces slightly to one side or holding their chins are even more inviting to look at.
13. Sunshine complexion:
Although Ningjishengxue’s skin color is like a ripe peach on a fresh tree, it is coveted, but a sunny complexion is matched with a slender figure. , why can't it exude wild sexiness.
14. Let children live in your heart:
In the past, cold sexiness was popular in the West, but the sexiness embraced by the general trend of anti-simple and return to authenticity is angelic sexiness. . First let your heart be as curious, innocent and enthusiastic as a child, and then you can reveal the alternative sexiness mixed with innocence and childishness in your eyes. In fact, Brigitte Bardot, Marilyn Monroe, Liv Taylor, etc. are all childish and have childish faces. Coupled with their devilish figures, they look angelic and sexy together.
15. Keep sexy moles:
If there are small moles on your face, please don’t take them off quickly. Place them in appropriate places, such as ear beads and near the lips (especially around the lips). It is the right side of the upper lip) and the small moles near the corners of the eyes can be beauty moles! Strangely enough, people who are sexy themselves, such as supermodel Cindy Crawford, famous writer Yanni Lin, etc., all have small moles in these parts, which makes them look even more ecstatic.
16. Act spontaneously:
Unless you are born to be incomparably cool or aloof, there is nothing wrong with not daring or unwilling to reveal your true personality. No, a woman who is lukewarm and lukewarm in everything, and who restrains her emotions at all times, may have extremely limited sex appeal. And women who dare to love and hate, do things when they want, cry loudly when they want, and are passionate and sensitive about life, their hearts are like a fire with its head turned upside down. And they themselves are a ball of flame, even if they don't make people burn with desire, they still make people feel itchy and unbearable.
17. Add a little bit of red to your body:
A well-matched black can certainly add a bit of mysterious charm, but a little red in moderation can also make people think you are an adventurous person. For people who like challenges and are passionate, as the writer Tao Jie said, a beautiful woman applying lipstick in public, especially a moist red lipstick, may immediately create a charming image and make men fascinated.
18. Spray some fragrance gently:
If you have body odor, please don't get rid of it quickly. It's strange that a certain degree of body odor often constitutes a masculine or feminine smell that makes people feel sexy. If you don't have a fragrant or [feminine] scent, you can also choose some fragrances specially prepared to arouse other people's thoughts or feelings of love.
19. Open sexual attitude:
No matter how sexy a woman [seems] to be, but if people make sexually explicit jokes in casual situations, she has no imagination at all. Or even keep a straight face and remain rigid in bed, never taking the initiative or willing to try new [things]. Aren’t they just like Barbie dolls? !
20. Maintain a sense of mystery:
According to sexual psychology research, in addition to the important signs of sexiness in women, such as self-confidence, understanding of humor, and love of romance, sexiness in men’s minds , excitement and adventure, it turns out there are some more nihilistic and abstract elements, among which mystery is another sexy element. Stars known as sexy in film history, such as Marlene Dietrich, Brigitte Bardot, etc., all of them do not have unfathomable and mysterious eyes.
In front of the man you like, when you tell your personal life experience and reveal your personal emotions, please remember not to tell everything in your heart like a treasure trove. Only say 70%, leaving 30% for the other party to figure out and imagine. Leaving the lingering flavor is also a clever way to create a sense of mystery! In short, don't completely satisfy the other person's curiosity.
21. Showing laziness at the right time:
Why are Chinese Tang and Song dynasties considered by historians to have produced the most sexy beauties like Concubine Yang who captivated the country and the city? In addition to being related to the gauzy and graceful clothing at that time, women who lived in that prosperous era were generally addicted to a kind of slow beauty, and their faces and limbs always had a seductive laziness.
Yes, the concentration and slowness with which ancient women took off their clothes, the eager eyes of Shi Shiran, and the speed with which they spoke are enough to create a sexy style. If you have become "jerky" or "nervous" in your speech or behavior, learn and appreciate the subtle beauty and sexiness of slowness and laziness today!
22. Ruth’s artistic conception:
Achieving sex appeal through exposure is a subtle art. One of the general principles is to be hidden, and the other is to be very selective. If you have a beautiful belly button, small waist, skinny shoulders, and slender neck, you might as well let them show off. If not, it’s still the same saying: It’s better to hide one’s ugliness than to show one’s ugliness.
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