Unless your first love is your first marriage, there is always a chance that you will be someone's ex-girlfriend or even an ex-ex-girlfriend or even an ex-ex-girlfriend. No matter which one it is, you may one day be either You will meet him in the elevator of the shopping mall with his current girlfriend, or you will see his profile picture after unblocking him on MSN and replace the group photo of you with the current family portrait of him, his current girlfriend, or even his wife and children. , or you will receive threatening blog messages from strange women telling you to give up on you and he has become hers...

In short, you will always end up falling out of your original relationship. What should you do if you encounter all kinds of things that make you want to hit a wall or die of anger in the near future or a long time, and they are all about him?

Although it is possible that he is already your ex-boyfriend or that you no longer have any feelings for him, and his name will no longer affect your emotions at all, but you You will still sigh in your heart: "What a life! Where can we not meet each other?" In fact, you also want to be friends with him generously and calmly, and even pat him on the shoulder and say: "Brother, your wife is very beautiful. !", but when you look at your buddy's new wife, her legs are longer than yours, her hair is brighter than yours, and even her eyes that you are most proud of are not as big as others, you may be able to squeeze out five words: "Congratulations. "You are happy." But when you see that someone else's wife's cooking skills are no worse than yours, you can only be speechless. When you find out that her daughter-in-law can also paint Chinese paintings and play the pipa, you can only curse fiercely in your heart: "Hmph, a couple of bitches..."

Actually, I understand you. You can't wait to immediately lure the handsome and talented male neighbor next door to pretend to be your boyfriend. This is not a question of love or not, this is a question of face.

His current taste is directly compared with the level of his old taste. You actually wish that he could never find a woman as good as you in his life, right? Admit it, this is a woman. If you don't even have this jealousy, then you are the Virgin Mary.

If you don’t love him, the problem is easy to solve. This kind of stimulation is more effective than the boss’s teachings, encouragement, and mother’s nagging. I believe you will go home with a positive stimulation. Immediately start cultivating your mind from the inside and your body from the outside. Maybe three years later, maybe it won't take three years. When you meet me again by chance, you will definitely be proud and avenge your shame.

The terrible thing is that if you still love him, the stimulation you receive will not only be positive. You will start from doubting your own charm, then doubting your previous relationship, then doubting the men in this world, and finally doubting the entire human love. Either they become decadent from then on, or they have poisonous thoughts in their hearts and want to turn into snakes and scorpions to harm other men. Only a few women who know themselves suddenly realize from the narrow hole of darkness that the essence of love is to not care whether the man is dead or alive. My girlfriend is a human being or a ghost, and the most important thing is to be happy. From then on, even if a woman who has had an epiphany encounters a similar dilemma like the above, she will just laugh it off and not even care about the person. Do she still care about other things about that person? If you want face, you have to lose face. When he opens your face to see the inside one day, you won't have what he wants to see, and you will have more of what he doesn't want to see. That thing is your confidence and happiness.

So, when my ex-boyfriend invited me out for a drink one day, he asked me cautiously: "If I have a bad life, will you take pleasure in my misfortune?"

I asked back: "Why should I gloat about my misfortune?"

He stopped talking, and then I realized that it seemed that he was really having a bad life! Oh yeah!

"I finally felt relieved when I learned that you and him were not having a good time abroad. ..." This is a sentence I saw on the Internet one day. Don't think this is a vicious remark. People who eat too much grains will avoid getting cancer if they are honest. After all, as I said above, a woman who never cares about the identity of her ex-girlfriend is either the Virgin Mary or she has never truly loved. After all, there are very few women who suddenly realize the essence of love, and there are also very few normal women who can truly lose their memory.

What about you? Which one is it? …

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