A woman with knowledge and taste will understand her husband and handle small misunderstandings with her husband, using subtle words and actions to communicate. A good relationship between husband and wife should be especially important for intellectual women.

Recall whether you have had this experience:

You have found in your life that when those beautiful and smart girls come to your home, your husband is always more friendly than usual with you. When you are together, you are more excited, more expressive, and more graceful... At this time, you often feel left out, depressed and depressed, but on the surface you are still calm as usual.

Sometimes you may even think about whether your husband doesn’t love you anymore, so you deliberately express an unhappiness or complaint after the girls leave, leaving your husband confused and asking: “Why are you doing this? ?” But you felt that he was asking knowingly.

If you accuse your husband of being "immoral" on the spot, he may get very angry about it.

Actually, the fault is yours

In fact, if your husband is just more enthusiastic and chatty with you than usual in front of other women, then this is completely normal. It's your own fault.

Because, at that time, the husband might just want to show off his talents and wisdom. It is reasonable that a girl's admiring and eager eyes and approval may make him have more desire to express himself.

Especially men are obsessed with saving face. If you don’t look good to him in public, he will not be able to get off the stage and will be annoyed by your “boring”.

Also, have you ever had this kind of situation:

Going home one day, you suddenly saw your husband had brought a bunch of uninvited guests, and he bought a lot of tobacco, wine, meat and vegetables, which made him very full. The house is in a mess. You felt quite unhappy, and hurried into the bedroom with a forced smile, because it was obvious that you knew nothing about their arrival. Isn’t this because her husband looks down on her and disrespects her?

If you think this way, you may be wrong again. It is conceivable that when your husband's colleagues or old friends meet and they all propose to get together, your husband generously says: "Come to my house." But others pretend to be mysterious and say: "Do you need to say hello to your wife?" After such a move, the man's self-esteem naturally increased, and he patted his chest: "We don't have such rules in our family."

The wife should understand her husband's psychology. He just doesn't want to be thought to be afraid of his wife. In fact, he is really honest in his heart. I'm a little sorry. Give men some opportunities to make their own decisions, even if it is temporary or superficial.

You need to understand men

There are many similar things. If you don’t pay attention, it is likely to cause trouble over nothing. Therefore, you must understand your husband's words, and do not make random guesses, so that you get angry with him, causing trouble to your husband who doesn't know why you are angry, and making your peaceful days restless.

Some wives like to study health issues. She constantly emphasizes to her husband the importance of exercise, diet, and regular medical examinations. Moreover, no matter what the husband eats or drinks, the wife will always explain the toxicity of various foods. However, what she couldn't understand was that the more she spoke, the less he listened. The reason is that he feels that he is being treated like a child, which is too humiliating.

Excessive consideration can make people breathless. Sometimes, not being considerate is actually considerate. For example, when a few friends go to a coffee shop together, you silently add milk and sugar cubes for them. Maybe you think this is a kind of consideration, but some men don't like to accept overly considerate expressions in full view of the public. As long as you push the milk and sugar cubes in front of him as if nothing happened, he will naturally understand.

In public situations, even if you understand the other person's thoughts and needs very well, when you want to do something for him, you should first consider the other person's self-esteem before acting.

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