When does a man love his girlfriend the most? - The answer is, when his girlfriend decides to leave him. Maybe only at this time will the girlfriend hear the words she once dreamed of from the man's mouth, "You are my favorite", "I can't live without you", "Let's get married".

But ordinary men are not like this. They are careless and absent-minded, turning a deaf ear to their girlfriend's complaints. They would rather spend time in Internet cafes or on the court than go shopping with their girlfriends. Once they faced a breakup, they were all shocked. They usually kept saying: "As long as we have it once, why should it last forever?" They began to swear to love forever.

This change in their relationship caught the girlfriend by surprise. She thought she could leave this careless man easily, but she didn’t expect that he suddenly turned into a sentimental love saint, who was simply more fragile and sentimental than a woman.

He is not strong

Living together means for a woman to be aware of the other person's thoughts at all times. But for men, being together is the greatest happiness, and everything will be fine. Therefore, men often lack observation of the delicate psychological changes of their girlfriends. When the small resentment accumulates and becomes the reason for breaking up, the man still doesn’t know that a huge change has taken place.

My girlfriend said: "Let's break up." Then we get down to the practical issues: who owns the TV and what to do with the cat. This means that the breakup is irreversible. In a woman's mind, a man is strong and he will quickly accept this reality. Wrong, the man who heard the news began to have an unnatural facial expression. He lit a cigarette and tried to hide his emotions. I smoked one cigarette after another, but I didn't open my mouth. When he opened his mouth, the question came out: "Is it because I'm not good, or do you have someone else?" He tried his best to keep his voice calm, but the trembling ending made people guess that he was in deep trouble in his heart.

Case: Arnold’s wife left with another man. Whenever he thought of this incident, he felt like he was suffering in hell. "I will never forget those sleepless nights, imagining her lying in someone else's arms. She said she wanted to give birth to that person's child, but she always used birth control when she was with me... I reflected on myself, what was wrong with me? . Why is she bored with me?" His silence made his wife feel that breaking up would not be a disaster for him. But she didn’t know that Arnold would only dare to date a girl again after 3 years.

When the girlfriend's resentment deepened, she began to think about breaking up. In order to prevent the other party's reaction from being too intense, she often starts with a painful tone: "Should we separate for a while and think about it carefully?" The man is dumbfounded. Well, let's separate for a while. Remember, it's just a period of time, not a breakup. From then on, men began to suffer. He stayed by the phone all night, waiting for news of his girlfriend's return. He paced anxiously in the empty room, repeatedly watching photo albums from the past, smoking harder than ever, and curled up in a ball when sleeping. Finally he flew into a rage, but his behavior disappointed his girlfriend even more. "When I hope he is strong, he is so weak."

Regaining strength

Self-esteem defeated the lovelorn complex. Finally, the man wiped away his tears of self-pity. The girlfriend who left him felt relieved and moved on with her new life. A proud man temporarily puts aside the pain of broken love. For a long time, a wife's fidelity has been a man's glory. This statement is somewhat outdated nowadays, but it cannot be denied that abandoned men often feel humiliated. If his girlfriend leaves him, it's because he's not attractive enough to keep her. Others tend to think more about his skills in bed... Even men will ask: "That girlfriend of yours, what did you do to make her leave you?" All this cannot help but make men feel that their self-esteem has been trampled on.

A sad man said: "I loved her so much at that time that I could bear whatever she said, as long as she would come back. I prepared a candlelight dinner for her, and she said she would come but she never stopped. Didn't come. I was so angry that I even threw away the tablecloth. The next day, I wiped away my tears and went to her office with a bouquet of flowers. I also thought about saying to her: A world without love is hell. But she didn't come out to see me, and her colleagues collected the flowers for her." Another injured man said: "Haier is missing, and I have been looking for her for fifteen days. She hid in her grandmother's house. When I saw her, I was overjoyed and thankful that nothing happened to her. But after holding it in for a long time, I only said one sentence: Hai'er, I'm really worried about you."

Case: Ning Bing was waiting for his girlfriend’s new lover downstairs. Not for fighting, "I just want to take her to the beach. She said many times that she wanted to go to the beach, but I always didn't take her there because of other things. Now that she has left me, I only have one wish, to take her there." A weekend at the beach. I bought her a beautiful suitcase and a complete set of travel equipment. But in the end, I left with tears in her eyes, but why didn’t I understand?”

In the empty house, the man shouted at the wall: "I love you, come back soon." But when I really saw my girlfriend, my words turned into: "In what way is he better than me?" Then we broke up unhappy. He became passionate, but it was too late

No one would have believed it unless they saw it with their own eyes. This unromantic man who never bought flowers suddenly became passionate. His girlfriend's distance made him realize his past carelessness. The clothes that the woman had not yet had time to take away were neatly folded by him. He wandered like a ghost in the places we had walked together in the past, wandering in places where he might encounter her. He didn't dare to step into the room where he used to live together, and he didn't dare to look at the empty wardrobe. There was only one toothbrush left in the cup... "In order to escape from all this, I squeezed into his dormitory with my buddies every day."

He started promiscuity

If the old ones don’t go away, the new ones don’t come in? The injured man lost the courage to conquer. Out of revenge, he will immediately think: I am going to start playing games. Just do it. As a result, various women appeared around him, tall, short, fat, and thin. He wanted to use this method to forget one woman, the only woman in his eyes. This is different from a woman’s mentality. A lovelorn woman always thinks: She no longer needs a man in this life. And a man who is lovelorn needs to prove that he is still attractive. But facing other women, he couldn't get into the mood. He even forgot about the taboo of not talking about another woman in front of one woman. As you can imagine, no woman wants to play the role of a substitute.

He remained silent to no one. Not to mention others, men are unwilling to admit their pain to themselves, let alone show their pain to others. The talk shows on radio stations are all for women. If he called a friend, it was never to report the bad news. He suggested going out for a drink or dancing in the wildest nightclub. He wanted to vent, but he said nothing. Friends don't have any bright ideas, "Don't give in, she will come back", or "Be nicer to her, she will come back", men are at a loss what to do.

Until the pain subsided, he tried his best to avoid watching romantic movies, let alone couples in love on the street. Revenge Instinct

Men are obsessed with revenge. Killing is not an issue, but fighting is inevitable. The lovelorn woman only wants to cut up the other person's expensive suit and throw the other person's Rolex watch out of the window. But a man who is lovelorn wants to duel, box, or fight with his love rival... This sounds ridiculous, but this is what men have done for centuries. Society has progressed, but men have not. They knocked out two of his rival's teeth. What's the use? But it made him feel better.

Finally, let us end with a song by Rene Liu. "Later, I finally learned how to love. Unfortunately, you had already disappeared into the sea of ​​​​people. Later, I finally understood through tears that some people will no longer be there once they are missed..." I would like to give this advice to men, please don't wait until you lose to know how to cherish.

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