If you were asked to choose between a friend and a lover, which one would you choose? In fact, this question is redundant. Friends or lovers who really understand you will understand your behavior. If they don't understand you, don't worry too much about losing them. Friends or lovers should help each other, not be forced to accommodate.

How should couples get along?

1. Learn to listen to each other’s conversations

Most of the respondents spoke enthusiastically about their spouse, saying that he or she was a very good person who listened to me attentively. He or she does this not out of politeness but out of genuine interest.

2. Be cautious

Happiness is like glass that breaks easily.

So, behave like this every day - as if you have just made the decision to trust him or her with your future. You should show him or her how happy your relationship makes you.

3. Skin contact

Pietro Pinto said: "One day without warmth will shorten the marriage relationship by two days." Couples do not need to hug often. But a loving touch is soothing to the soul.

4. Show your emotions

For marriage, feelings are the water that flowers need.

Without feelings, the relationship between husband and wife will break down. But couples must also learn to express their feelings and should encourage each other to do the same, show their feelings.

5. Be patient

Relationships must continue to deepen and develop. But trust cannot be generated overnight, and must be patient. Many couples make the mistake of expecting too much and too quickly from each other in the first few years. You should be clear: you have plenty of time to get to know and understand the other person, so you have to take your time.

6. Be sincere

If the other person does something that you don’t like, then you should talk to him or her and open things up. Maybe you don't have to talk to the other person right away, let alone talk in a quarrel. Instead, you can love the other person twice as much, talk to each other calmly, and talk about everything. Otherwise, how can the other party know what you like and what you don't like?

Doing 5 details well can make the relationship stronger

1. Don’t be too gossipy

When you are chatting with relatives and friends, you should try your best not to pry into other people's privacy like a gossip, nor to make insinuations, nor to be so full of complaints that gossip news spreads on the street because others do not I will definitely appreciate and envy those women who seem to make irresponsible remarks but actually love to slander and slander others;

2. Show shame at the right time

No woman should forget: a woman's shyness is actually more precious than her boldness. When the right "coy" appears in front of your lover, isn't such a delicate demeanor more feminine than the verbal "I love you"?

3. Give your husband cute titles

When your marriage has gone through the turbulent running-in period and returned to the lifeless and calm period, it is your opportunity to fully demonstrate your femininity. If you can give your husband cute titles from the bottom of your heart, and surprise him with different "nicknames" on different occasions, then the man who loves you will definitely look at you with admiration, because sweet titles will make extremely rich women The taste brings you closer to him;

4. Cultivate courage calmly

Women who are fearless or calm in the face of danger will often exude a unique courage and beauty from the inside out, and will be praised unanimously. Calmness and composure pay attention to a woman's ability to cope with various sudden difficulties and the test of marital embarrassment. Therefore, how to use an unswerving heart to solve problems in the face of difficulties will reveal your temperament of both strength and softness. Of course, the more critical the moment, the more this rare femininity will be highlighted;

5. Occasionally being vulnerable awakens your partner

Don't think that all your wishes and dreams can come true with just one word: "strong". Women always have the intention of showing weakness. Occasionally let your husband play the role of a punching bag who can accept coquettishness at any time, then the most tearful and fragile look in femininity will definitely be exchanged for her husband's heroic rescue and careful care;