Men are visual animals and like new things, so extramarital affairs are relatively common. So what are the tricks that men often use to cover up cheating? Smart female friends, come and take a look!

When one party in a marriage has an affair or cheats, he or she will often try his best to cover it up sarcastically, while the other party is unaware of it under the surface calm cover, thus missing the best communication and resolution of the marriage. The timing of the problem resulted in a broken marriage and lifelong tragedy.

1. Friends testify, brotherly alliance;

As for "friends testify, brotherly alliance", it has actually been wonderfully interpreted in many film and television literary works. For example: the movie "Diary of a Man", the sketch "One Word", etc. They are all vivid manifestations of men covering themselves up to "witness friends and form an alliance of brothers".

In fact, these things are not far away from us. In real life, a considerable number of men like to ask their friends to testify to prove their "innocence". Friends, on the other hand, are motivated by self-interest, leaving a way out for themselves, and being good friends and not destroying other people's families, and they will often accompany them to tell lies.

2. Be furious and refuse to admit the blame;

When I was a child, there was a man in my hometown who had an affair with another woman. But when faced with his wife's cross-examination, he could pretend to have been greatly wronged. Before his wife could finish her words, he flew into a rage, swore poisonous oaths to God, and refused to admit his guilt from the beginning to the end. If he and the widow hadn't given birth to a son later, he would still be convinced of his "injustice".

This kind of man is usually quite autocratic at home, very proud of himself, and looks sanctimonious. He will never shed tears until he sees the coffin. If you don't want to get divorced, you can only find out as early as possible, pretend to be blind, and give him a step up. If you can look back, everything will be over and you won't mention anything.

3. "Work hard" without giving your wife time to mention it;

There is a kind of man who, after having an affair, will continue to increase his work pressure, from morning to night. From the perspective of The Sky Is Always Blue, they should have two psychological purposes in this situation.

First, atone for your sins with good performance. They feel quite uneasy after cheating and feel sorry for the women at home, so they want to vent themselves through heavy work and relieve their guilt; secondly, working hard can greatly reduce the time they spend alone with their wives. , so that you don’t have to face the cross-examination and investigation of your wife all the time. In reality, relatively more people have this second type of psychology.

4. Be attentive and weaken your wife’s vigilance;

A female netizen said that she simply could not believe that her husband would have other women outside, because he was very good to her, bought her jewelry, and helped her sign up for travel. When I lost money playing cards recently, I not only didn't tell her, but said it didn't matter. Instead, I gave her money to make up for it.

In a situation like this, this female netizen is not vigilant enough. When a man suddenly treats you very well for no reason, there are probably other deep-seated reasons. Although there may be many reasons, to a large extent it may be that he has other women outside, and is trying to balance himself mentally with her attentiveness. At the same time, the most important thing is that he also wants to weaken his wife's vigilance in this way.

5. Being glib and confusing the truth with falsehood;

Some men are naturally glib, and they can often misrepresent the truth when it comes to the issue of cheating. Just think about it, he usually likes to joke, saying something here and there, true and false. As his wife, she is naturally used to it, and she will always be used to thinking that everything he says is a joke. He may even think that only what he says is false, and only what he doesn't say may be true.

Exactly like this, such men often seize on this characteristic of their wives at home and simply make fun of the "bad things" they have done in the form of jokes. Such a trick can, on the one hand, provide a preventive measure in advance so that it will not be too embarrassing when the incident comes to light; on the other hand, it can also "cover up the obvious" to achieve the purpose of confusing the fake with the real one.

6. Stage a bitter plot and cover it up with sadness;

Men don't often complain, but when they do, they are often more powerful than women. Therefore, in real life, there are many men who cover up their sorrow by resorting to hardships when their bad deeds are about to be revealed. He will tell his wife how hard he has worked to support this family. There are leaders above and clients below, and they are not human beings in the middle...and so on. There will be tears interspersed in the words. Woman, listen. , the motherly nature is in full swing, and no matter how big his mistakes are, they seem to be small.

With such a trick, half of the real and fake scenes are mixed. As a man, he naturally has his own hardships that are unknown to others. If he is just using the trick to cover up his cheating. The sky is always blue seems to have impure motives, which is quite ridiculous. Just like a person likes to cry when he is drunk, half sober and half drunk.

7. Zhu Bajie beat him backwards and turned defense into offense;

A man who uses this method has the demeanor of a strategist. No matter in terms of psychology, momentum, or practical effectiveness, their strategy of "beating Zhu Bajie and turning defense into offense" can indeed scare and shock some women.

Especially when some women don't know the truth of the matter and have no psychological preparation, they will probably be confused by their rake. Not to mention "settling the blame for cheating" with him, I'm afraid it won't even be possible to clear myself of the crime. But with all due respect, although such a man has "strategy", he is definitely the most corrupt type of moral character.

8. Make up stories with strict logic and no leaks;

If such men do not become screenwriters and directors, it would be an absolute waste of talent. Often before they cheat, they have a long-term preparation process. Their sexual desire arises and they start writing the script. Such a man is particularly difficult to deal with. In order to cover up his crime of cheating, he can make up a series of stories and edit the story with strict logic and no leaks.

9. The golden cicada sheds its shell and looks for someone to be the scapegoat;

In the movie "Diary of a Real Man" mentioned above, "Chow Yun-fat" in the movie used the method of covering for each other and acting as scapegoats for each other to cover up his affair. Such tactics are mostly the product of an affair alliance. A said in front of his wife that he was with a certain woman to help B; and B also said in front of his wife that he was with a certain woman to help A. .

And this method mostly responds to women's mentality of "it has nothing to do with other people's husbands cheating" and "secret fun". But this trick is very risky. I believe that many men still remember Chow Yun-fat's fate in the play.

10. Find trouble when nothing happens, and don’t give your wife the energy to solve the case.

This last method is roughly the same as trick seven. The only difference is that the scope of trick seven is not very wide, because not all women can give people the opportunity to accuse them of cheating. In this case, you can only trouble him in other ways. Anyway, the man's purpose is not to hesitate to exchange a small quarrel for a big quarrel that may be caused by cheating. These two crimes are completely different. One is stealing, the other is murder and arson. In the final analysis, these tactics are still trying to avoid the important issues and not give the wife too much energy to solve the case.