My son is not at home during the summer vacation. My friends in QQ said to me with a smile, your two husbands and wives can enjoy the "two -person world", smiling slightly, the old husband and wife, where is it? There are also those leisurely and elegant things. I don’t know when it started. We talked less and less during the day. We were busy with our own things during the day. At night, we would play his games on each computer, and I would go to my forum. Although they fell asleep hugging each other every night, they could never find a topic of common interest.

I know this is the so-called "silence syndrome after marriage". Some people only have simple greetings, but no heart-warming words of love. In fact, most women are emotional. I hope that no matter how many years I have been married, I can still be bright and charming in the eyes of my husband and be loved by him.

But it turns out that after being married for a long time, lovers will really become relatives, and the love between the left hand and the right hand is as pale as white water. He only asked me to support my husband and raise children, and after arguing N times, I gradually got used to it. Maybe marriage is like this, plain and simple.

I once asked why I had nothing to talk about, and the answer was: I already know the things in life, and I don’t want to pass on the troubles at work to me. Maybe every man is like this, thinking that taking on the pressure is a form of love. My husband is a very realistic man. He believes that marriage is about living a real life. He also believes that couples do not need to please each other. When you are in a bad mood, you will feel very desperate. How can such a man stay together for a lifetime? But thinking back, there was nothing wrong with him. He didn't smoke or drink, and he didn't spend time out like those rich men. He was just a little more realistic and silent.

There was a couple who often fought and said hurtful words during the fight. Some people advised them to divorce, but neither of them was willing because they thought it was normal for couples to quarrel. Maybe it's like the saying "marriage is like shoes". Some people are happy on the surface, but they are only happy in people's eyes, while some people fight and fight but stay together all their lives. So having nothing to say is actually more hurtful than silence. Post-marital silence is actually a kind of cold violence, but the people who use it never know that it can hurt people invisibly.

Some people say that once mutism appears in a marriage, it should arouse alarm, but the problem is that it is useless for only one party to think that there is a problem. They have complained before, but the husband feels that the current life is pretty good. Maybe he likes a quieter life. , and I am not satisfied with the status quo. I also know that marital conflicts are by no means a one-sided problem. I have always understood this. So when faced with marital silence syndrome, I also reflected on myself. Maybe I am really too greedy. There is really no need for an old couple. There are too many clichés, but when you are in a bad mood and sulky alone, you feel that life is really boring.

Maybe I am a stronger woman, so when conflicts arise, I am not willing to take the initiative to show weakness. In fact, some people say that women should learn to take the initiative to show weakness, which not only gives men face, but also allows men to take care of themselves. After being married for a long time, you will really get tired of each other, so some people suggest living apart during marriage, or sharing a room with different beds, or they just hope to use spatial distance to keep the couple fresh. There are also people who have adopted "trial divorce." Earlier, a young couple signed a "trial divorce agreement" because their children were too young, which caused a big discussion. They retained their marital status while not interfering with each other. But even so, some people say that this is not looking for a legitimate reason for extramarital affairs?

Happy families are all similar, but unhappy families have their own reasons. They always envy couples who talk and laugh, but they are helpless about their current situation. Maybe this is what marriage is like. , after the three-year itch, the seven-year itch, what we have to face is the "post-marital silence syndrome" year after year. In the dead of night, I feel that the man next to me who has been with me for ten years is so strange. I remember reading a post saying that middle-aged women do not have the capital to divorce. Although I am not yet middle-aged, I feel that I am used to a comfortable life. There is only room for compromise on marriage. Besides, this man didn’t have an affair, and according to his own feelings, he was relatively good to me, so everything was just my own dissatisfaction.

I don’t know how many couples feel like they have nothing to say. For my husband and I, our emotional experiences before marriage were relatively simple, so when faced with conflicts, most of them would choose to remain silent. . Although it can solve the ongoing anger conflict, it makes people feel uninteresting in the long run. Some people may think that I am insatiable. What more can I ask for from a man who is loyal to me and has no bad habits? In fact, I don’t know. I only know that “post-marital silence syndrome” can harm a couple’s relationship far more seriously than quarrels.

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