When lovers fall in love and their emotions reach a certain level, their affectionate behavior will become more and more bold and unbridled, and may even develop into requiring sexual intercourse. From the physiological and psychological point of view of men and women, this is an inevitable trend in the process of normal sexual behavior. However, from a traditional social perspective and a sense of responsibility for love, doing so is immoral and imprudent. Therefore: When in love, you should not be like a tiger when it comes to undue sexual demands from the opposite sex, but you cannot let them go.

Some girls in love are afraid of being kissed by men, thinking that once they are kissed, they are possessed by the other party; some men see the woman taking the initiative to embrace him, and they suspect her frivolous style. These thoughts are extremely harmful and tend to make love pale and feeble. However, behavior that is too open will weaken the mystery of love and prevent love from reaching a higher level. And because it exceeds the moral norms of society, it will also be condemned by public opinion to varying degrees.

So, when your lover's affectionate behavior exceeds the scope of their relationship, how to prevent it from happening?

Push the other person away like you do, or yell and slap him like some people do, unless he is not your lover, but a scoundrel, otherwise, this will greatly hurt the other person's self-esteem and cause an embarrassing situation. , and even lead to relationship breakdown. And you love him, and you never want to hurt the other person, let alone make the relationship tense. However, the fact cannot be avoided, and silence is obviously powerless. Therefore, you can only face reality and use your unique feminine tenderness and understanding to help the other person regain their sanity. You can tell him clearly that you understand his mood at this moment. You must not be sarcastic or sarcastic, but your attitude must be sincere. And, boldly admit that you also want to do this - because you also love him. However, now is not the time. The relationship between one and the two has not yet matured, and the relationship has not yet been finalized. If the two become pregnant, it will be detrimental to both parties. Therefore: let’s put this beautiful moment on the wedding night. Don't let your emotions spoil the big thing. If the other person is a reasonable person, you will be able to wake up and understand based on your repeated good words.

If he doesn't listen to the advice and insists on doing that, then you can say to him sternly: "Please respect yourself!" At the same time, tell him that love is a voluntary fusion of emotions between both parties. The behavior that any one party imposes on the other party is a blasphemy against love. I hope he can stay rational: don't let emotional impulses overflow. While these impulses are understandable, his actions are regrettable. If he does not respect others, then he himself cannot be respected. In this way - if you are gentle but strong, you will have to make the other person give up his thoughts, even if he is very unhappy at the time; but many people will often respect you for it afterwards. So, you don’t have to be afraid of his attitude at that time. Sometimes he will walk away, just let him go and don’t chase him. Within 36 hours, he will lower his head and come to see you. If some people never come back, then there is no need to regret it. It doesn’t matter that such people never look back.

If after all your efforts mentioned above, he still insists on doing things you don’t want to do, or uses various means to treat you softly and hard, or swears to each other, talks sweetly, or even uses hands and feet to arouse your sexual desire, then, You must be wary. Such men are often sensualists, and most of them have no love at all. Try to leave him as soon as possible. Getting along with this kind of person is an adventure in itself. Even after marriage, you will still be looking for flowers and flowers.

However, if you have sex with your lover because of a mistake, either actively or passively, then there is no need to blame yourself and complain too much afterwards, but you need to calmly recall the experience of losing your virginity and learn from it. Learn a lesson, no longer knowingly and deliberately, do not indulge yourself because "you are his person anyway", and do not feel that you have lost your virginity and develop various inferiority complexes. Whether a person is pure or not does not depend on whether she is a virgin, but on her thoughts and outlook on life.

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