This incident happened on the wedding day of the National Day, but I am still very sad. I don’t know how to face my wife or my ex-girlfriend. Let me talk about my relationship with my ex-girlfriend. We separated because of the strong opposition from her parents. However, my ex-girlfriend has always been obsessed with me. She messed up dozens of blind dates arranged by her parents. She later told me that she had never forgotten me and asked me if I might come back. However, I had already dated my girlfriend at that time, who is now my wife. Our personalities were very compatible with each other. Although we could not talk about a deep relationship, we were suitable for living together.

On the day of the wedding, my ex-girlfriend also came. My wife didn’t know she was my ex-girlfriend yet, so she even smiled and took a photo with her, while my ex-girlfriend had an indifferent expression on her face. During the dinner, my girlfriend went to change her dress. My ex-girlfriend asked me to go to Room XX in the wedding hotel. I went there and found out that she wanted to be with me. She cried while talking, saying that she was about to die when she saw me getting married. She has not forgotten me for so long, and she also said that her parents have agreed to us being together. In that tense environment, I couldn't help seeing her talk about our past, and the old relationship rekindled, and we had that kind of relationship. Halfway through, the best man called me to ask where I was. Hey, I was in my ex-girlfriend's bed, so I didn't dare to answer the phone. Afterwards, I went down and pretended to be calm and went to toast my friends with my wife. Hey, emotional things are so annoying, I haven't been able to sleep well for many days.

My ex-girlfriend hasn’t contacted me these days, and my wife doesn’t know that I had sex with my ex-girlfriend on the wedding day. What should I do? Should he live his life without moving or should he divorce his wife? What to do if your ex-girlfriend is pregnant? She said she wanted to give me a baby. I was really scared and felt so ridiculous. I didn't dare to call my ex-girlfriend because it was difficult to divorce my wife. Her family wouldn't let me go. I really want to escape, how can I live this kind of life? Are you going to elope with your ex-girlfriend?

Expert reply:

I really think you are very irresponsible. Since we are married, we are a legal couple. No matter how good your ex-girlfriend is, she is still a mistress. Besides, what were you doing earlier? You may be free before marriage, but after marriage you must at least take on the responsibilities of a husband. If something like that happened on the wedding day, would you be worthy of your wife? Even if you get divorced, will you and your ex-girlfriend be happy?

It’s better not to be confused and love your wife well. Your ex-girlfriend is already in the past, so let all these things end that shouldn’t be. In this way, it will be good for everyone. When you get married, you should find someone who is suitable for living at home. Since your wife is such a person, you should cherish her.