Before we confirmed our relationship, he took me back to meet his parents. His parents reacted lightly, not opposing but not happy either. Relatives are also quite reticent. The boyfriend explained that his relatives were all in the countryside and had little knowledge and could not speak.

After we held the engagement ceremony, by chance, I heard from a friend of my boyfriend that he seemed to be married. After my repeated questioning, my boyfriend admitted that he had had two short-lived marriages before because he was young and immature. I can't accept my boyfriend's deception and want to break up with him, but thinking about it, my boyfriend has been really good to me since we started dating. My boyfriend asked me to forgive him. He said that he was sincere and that he tried very hard to spend a lifetime with me. He had concealed it before just because he was afraid that I would not be able to accept him, so he never thought about how to open his mouth.

Analysis: When faced with a man with a "hidden marriage", you have to understand that his behavior of concealing his marriage history implies that he cannot accept the absurd mentality of the past and attempts to achieve temporary psychological relief through escape. relief. You can openly and honestly talk to him about your concerns, and further understand and communicate the two people's views on marriage. If two people have a lifelong view on marriage, then the next step of the conversation can take place. And if the other party starts to take the attitude of not being serious about the marriage because of the failure of the marriage, and if there are problems, divorce is the worst, then you have to be cautious - people who habitually divorce will continue to use divorce to relieve their pain, and they will always lack tolerance. Always like to assume the worst. Therefore, we often see two situations: people who are not divorced can continue to tolerate each other for a lifetime; people who are divorced continue to divorce and remarry, and the price they pay is very high.

Women who fall in love with men in secret marriages don’t need to panic. Although it is difficult to forget his past, nothing is perfect in the world. There is absolutely nothing wrong with caring about this moment and building love for each other. Psychologically, you should pay attention to and help the opponent's psychological growth, and tactically, you can maintain a relaxed and comfortable attitude, and even give him some impression that "you don't care much about his past" would be better. Use practical actions to prove that you can tolerate his dark side and that no external force can separate you. Many things are not a problem when you don't regard them as problems. The most important thing about marriage is the feeling between two people. Don't lose your patience because of other people's hints, bring bad expectations, and ruin your own happiness with your own hands.

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