What should the husband do if his wife is having an affair?
How should a man deal with the unexpected admirers around his beautiful wife? Of course, this premise is the unilateral love of other men. If a woman doesn't love you anymore, even if you have Pan An's appearance and Zijian's talent, it will be in vain. Women are animals that rely entirely on their emotions to decide things. Once they have something else in mind, even a hundred cows can't get it back. What I want to talk about today is how you should respond in most cases when you suspect that your wife is having an affair, or when you find that a man is showing great attentiveness to your woman.
The best strategy:
Bring out the kingly style of a man, look at the overall situation, and use your true feelings to penetrate into the realm of moistening things in silence. Even if you don't have the demeanor of a king, you still need to have the tolerance of a prime minister. It doesn't matter whether you can hold the boat or not. What matters is that you can tolerate a woman's distraction for a while.
It is actually not easy for a man to do this. It requires considerable self-confidence and courage, as well as enough wit to subtly consolidate your position in her mind. Do things just right without leaving any traces. For example: when you find that a man gave her flowers on her birthday, don’t ask who sent them, and even say jokingly: These flowers are really beautiful, but if you can give her something more valuable, things are even better. When the woman celebrates her birthday next year, send a large bouquet of flowers early, which are more valuable than what the man sent, and also include a beautiful little card: "Your favorite husband."
One night my wife came home late, tired and lazy, and refused to be intimate. Even though he was turbulent in his heart, he didn't show any trace on the surface. He brought a cup of hot water and put it in his wife's hand: drink a cup of water first, forget it if you don't want to, and save some for your wife. The woman must be so moved that she will definitely feel guilty the next time something similar happens. A good woman will never make the same mistake again.
Pushing open the bedroom door, I saw my wife wearing very few clothes and videotaping. Even though her heart was erupting, she still gently put her pajamas on her wife: "It's late at night, be careful of catching a cold." Faced with such a husband, a normal woman would never continue that boring game.
Zhongce:
Express your care for her in the most exaggerated tone at the first time, tell her how much you love her and can't live without her!
Maybe you are not a very dignified man, maybe you don’t have enough self-confidence, maybe you are worried that she has met a better man. Then it doesn't matter, just tell her directly and let her know that although I can't give you the most abundant material enjoyment, I can give you more love than anyone else. Sometimes women like men to be jealous of them. Life is full of flavors, and jealousy is an essential seasoning. Telling her directly how hurt you are is expressing your love for her, and women will generally understand. Even women sometimes enjoy the misunderstanding caused by love. Women will never feel troubled by it, but will never tire of it.
When you ask nervously, what's going on? I love you so much, you shouldn't accept flowers from others, shouldn't wear so few clothes in front of the man on the other end of the network, shouldn't come home late tired outside...
If you could say a few more words Sweet words such as "You make me feel sorry for you" would be even more perfect.
Maybe you are not steady enough, too excited, or even a little reckless, but your enthusiasm and sincerity can easily touch a woman's heart. If it is just a momentary passion, she will explain to you or even apologize. For no other reason than for your deep love, she will not hurt your feelings again.
Last choice:
Be patient and keep quiet. But this kind of thing is always difficult to bear, and one day, at the most inappropriate time, resentment will come flooding back.
Most of these men are timid and have no self-confidence. They are worried that they will not be able to bear the truth if they speak out, so they choose to endure it. But the so-called forbearance is exactly the same as being forbearing, because few men can really swallow this breath, and one day you will still explode:
Do you think I don’t know? Half a year ago you accepted someone's flowers, last week you wore very few clothes to chat with someone, and today you came home late again... I just don't want to talk about you, I've known about it for the past six months.
God, no wonder you have been so indifferent to me these past six months. A woman will definitely run out of the door crying and throw herself into the arms of another man, even if she doesn't really love that man. Doing so is tantamount to fulfilling that man.
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