Therefore, women will complain after getting married: "Marriage is a great destruction to men. Why is there such a big difference between married men and pre-marriage men?" Because men are peacocks...

In fact, this is normal. Men are like peacocks. When they are in love, they will open their tails in different ways to win a woman's heart; when they get married, they will put away their tails. A man's passion comes and goes quickly. Be it love or passion, no matter how beautiful these things are, they cannot replace jobs, money and dignity. Therefore, responsibility is a man’s number one command. Except for a very small number of men, the vast majority of men in the world have the consciousness of striving to run a family, so naturally all men have a sense of responsibility to gain wealth and status. A man’s heart is in society rather than his family. Family is a haven for his struggling life, but it is by no means a stage for his life.

In order to have a woman, a man is a fiery vajra, full of passion, and pursues her with all his strength. However, once you have it, you have nothing else to ask for, and your psychology of falling in love immediately changes, and the responsibility in your heart comes first. He left the honeymoon, walked out of the courtyard, and began the struggle of life... As a result, the man changed and became taciturn and unsmiling. The process of love began to be shortened, and even the good things about men having sex with women began to cut corners and reduce links. The more stressed you are, the more obvious this phenomenon is. In this case, the vast majority of men have no sense of empathy, let alone the patience to continue to make women happy, and their tendency to deal with errands becomes more and more obvious.

Many women cannot stand this change in men. For this reason, they first feel uncomfortable, then doubtful, then intolerable, and finally end up quarreling, or even getting divorced and looking for a new love. In most cases during this process, the woman thinks that her husband no longer loves her as much as before, and suspects that she has lost her charm in his mind. In fact, women don’t have to worry. As long as you understand a man's psychology and use appropriate methods, a man can still "open up" and maintain romance after marriage.

　1. Keep your personality intact

A woman with personality is like an olive, leaving an aftertaste after tasting, filling your teeth with fragrance. Men are often tempted by the things that women naturally reveal without even realizing it.

2. Privacy is not a bad thing

Please keep a little privacy, which will enhance the other party's desire to understand you. There will be more freshness and curiosity in marriage. Invisibly, there is a sense of movement that makes men come alive. A woman with privacy is a "suspense", she makes men voluntarily step into the "tenderness trap".

　3. Keep your own interests

Too much in common often lacks vitality and vitality. Different interests and hobbies can allow people to experience different experiences, and can also bring each other into a new world. realm. A man wants to have a thorough grasp of his woman, so he goes to great lengths to invade her area of ​​interest.

4. Give men more unexpected surprises

After marriage, a woman must not settle for mediocrity, but should disguise herself as a rich "treasure" so that men can dig out it from time to time. When he sees the unexpected surprise of the baby, he will willingly adopt some romantic means to "win" the woman's heart.

　5. Create insecurity

Women are uncharacteristically uncharacteristic for a period of time, so a kind of dangerous information makes men sharply prick up their ears and look around vigilantly. At the same time, I had to look at myself, and finally remembered the long-lost roses and cafe seats, as well as those forgotten romantic feelings.

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