Modern society has developed transportation and convenient communications, allowing people to communicate with each other without barriers. Barrier-free communication originally gave men and women more choices for getting to know each other and falling in love, but the fact is that there are more men than women.

This may be what Fromm said in "Escape from Freedom": there is too much freedom and too many objects to choose from, so people become obsessed with choosing and find it difficult to choose. Reality is often so funny. People's physical distance can't be any closer, but their psychological distance can't be any further. As netizens said, the carousel is the cruelest game in the world. They chase each other but are always separated by a sad distance.

With the belief of "leftover women" that "one day your name will appear on my family's household registration book", "waiting for your care, but waiting until I close my heart", in the end I waited for something like this Ending: "I planted a lot of boyfriends in the spring, and now autumn is here, but no harvest..."; So "it is inevitable to blame the hand of time, and write love as love"; "The greatest sorrow in life is the absence of youth. , the acne is still there"; all that is "left" are memories, and "memory is a bridge, but it is a prison leading to loneliness"...

The higher the standard, the harder it is to choose, and the higher the vision, the harder it is to find. According to the love-seeking principle of men looking downwards and women looking upwards, the woman in the highest position and the man in the lowest position, the former is a short-sighted love angle, and the latter is a lost love blind spot, both have difficulty getting married. This is what Romanian female writer Bibesko said: "Free love is sometimes indeed in love, but it is never free."

It is a common phenomenon to fall in love because of vagueness and break up because of understanding. In the past, people had a limited vision of choice. They listened to their parents' orders and the matchmaker's words, and got married before they knew the truth. Modern people begin to teach each other through words and deeds before getting married. As time goes by, they will notice how smelly their feet are, how loud their snoring is, and their habits. How bad they were, how much they were thinking, etc. were all exposed, and the remaining feelings were no longer able to drive the two of them towards marriage. Therefore, the French writer Chamfort said: "Falling is more gratifying than marriage, because fictional stories are more pleasant than historical facts."

Chinese netizens said: "The back wheel falls in love with the front wheel, because they can never be together." It was together, so it kissed every inch of land it rolled over."

Modern men and women have a wide range of knowledge about the opposite sex. Seeing so many people wandering around, they have lost confidence in marriage. Treat love as a pastime and marriage as an adventure. At the same time, men care about the happiness of the lower body, while women care about the happiness of the second half of their lives; women do not dare to easily entrust their lives to men, which makes the phenomenon of "leftover women" more common.

If there are "leftover women", there must be "leftover men", but why is the topic of "leftover women" so eye-catching, but the existence of leftover men seems so bleak? The obvious reason is that "leftover women" are mostly high-end white-collar workers and attract attention, while "leftover men" are mostly low-level blue-collar workers and are ignored.

It is conceivable that there are many "leftover women" in Shanghai because there are many "winners" in Shanghai; that there are many "leftover women" in Guangzhou, is it because the women in Guangzhou are too down-to-earth? It is said that you should open your eyes wide before getting married, and turn a blind eye after getting married. However, if your eyes are too wide open, it will be difficult for the opposite sex to enter the "Dharma Eye". Therefore, whether you are too competitive or too down-to-earth, they are both obstacles to marriage and the embryo of "leftover women".

Whether she is a "leftover girl", a "saint girl" or a "winner girl", it doesn't matter what you call her, what matters is your own feelings. As far as marriage is concerned, some people only leave the form, while others are better than the essence. But when you make up your mind to get married, don't be picky. Take action when it's time to do it. Otherwise, hesitation will bring melancholy, and you will often be hit by what Shakespeare said. : "Love that comes too late is like a pardon sent after a death sentence has been executed. No matter how much you regret it, it cannot be undone."

Internet ridicules the fourth level of "leftover women"

1. Those between 25 and 27 years old are the "junior leftovers". These people still have the courage to continue to struggle to find a partner, so they are called "leftover fighters"

2. Those between 28 and 30 years old are the "intermediate leftovers" "The remaining guests", at this time, there are not many opportunities for them, and they have no time to look for them because of their careers, so they are nicknamed "the remaining guests"

3. Those aged 31 to 35 are high-level leftovers. They have survived the cruel workplace struggle and are still single, and are respected as "Fighting Leftover Buddhas"

4. Those aged 35 and above are "special-level leftovers" "Leftover guests" should be respected as "Qi Tian Da leftover".

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