What kind of woman should a 30-year-old man marry?
I met an old cultural man a few days ago. He was also a powerful idol in the publishing industry in Hong Kong back then. Although he is nearly fifty years old now, he still has long hair and elegant style. I think such a man must have read all the books. He is a man who loves men and women, so as a junior, I asked him about his views on women.
"Actually, men like good-looking women. Although kindness and good heart are the most important, men are definitely animals whose vision controls the brain." - Even at the age of "not exceeding the rules", you cannot ignore your body measurements. lure. He continued, "But when it comes to the ultimate woman's dream, I think it has something to do with age."
This is indeed the case. We all know that first love is extremely beautiful, but it can hardly be achieved. The reason is: It comes down to the fact that boys at that time didn't know what kind of women they wanted - even the standards of beauty and ugliness were vague. Here is an example: At a class reunion a few days ago, I discovered that the "class beauty" we were so popular with back then had no beauty at all, and was reduced to being married to the ugliest girl in the class. This shows our aesthetic ignorance back then.
When a man finally knows how to distinguish beauty, he starts to make mistakes in his outlook on life. Super male chauvinists think that as long as they like it, everything is OK. Family environment and educational background are not considered at all. Therefore, many love tragedies occur when a beautiful couple enters the society. If the male chauvinist cannot bear the burden of life, he can only break up with sadness. Personally, I think that men are often hurt more in this kind of thing - it is really tragic to have to do it all over again after carrying it for many years.
I remember a boss said to me: "A twenty-year-old man has nothing, but a twenty-year-old girl has everything; a forty-year-old man has everything, but a forty-year-old girl has everything." Women have nothing.” So he advised me to put my energy into trying to have everything at the age of forty instead of playing with my feelings at the age of twenty. So some good people have summed up the following definition. According to the current development situation of our society, a man--excluding the young master with a huge wealth, the playboy who regards love as a game, and other men who do not regard marriage as the end of love-- The most suitable partners for love are:
Women who are self-reliant - women who are financially independent generally have a good mentality and the ability to think rationally;
Women who are better looking than themselves - - This can satisfy a man's vanity, but not too much, otherwise a woman will feel that she has failed in marriage and will bully you for the rest of her life;
A woman who has the same aesthetics as her - If you like to watch science fiction movies, then Don't find a woman who likes watching literary movies; if you like Faye Wong, don't find a girl who likes Li Yapeng. Even though Wang and Li are married, that won't work.
The above three suggestions are for men around thirty years old - this is the best time for men to talk about marriage. The women they are looking for are probably around twenty-five years old, because according to scientific analysis, men and women A difference of 3 to 5 years can make the aging process of men and women's faces consistent, so that there will be no problem of men aging slower than women, and two people can enjoy the romance of "growing old together" in peace and contentment.
But having said this plan, realizing a man’s ultimate dream about a woman is still full of dangers. The Hong Kong cultural senior said: “Just like me, today I can only use one principle to find the right woman. A woman, that is, 'I will like whoever likes me'."
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