For such people, the most important thing is not to complain about the other person or blindly learn sexual skills, but to first work hard to improve their own personality.

Since childhood, they have been pampered and have always been self-centered. Such people tend to be demanding of each other in their sexual life

The most common situation is, Some people have been pampered since childhood and have always been self-centered. Therefore, they lack the ability to understand others, let alone life. They should try their best to consider the weaknesses and shortcomings of others, and should be "forgiving to others." Such people tend to be demanding of each other in their sexual life. Once a conflict occurs, they will only fight cruelly and will not take the initiative to give in and compromise, and it is also difficult to learn in a short period of time. Due to the increasing number of self-centered only children, this situation may become a common and serious problem in the near future.

I have lived in a repressive family or environment since childhood. They will have two extreme performances in their sexual life

The second common situation is that some people have lived in a repressive family or social environment since childhood, and are full of psychological gloom. color. They will have two extreme performances in their sexual life. On the one hand, out of a deep sense of inferiority that is difficult for others to detect, they will be overly sensitive to all the other person's performance, and they often think that they have been psychologically harmed. But they are never willing to reveal it to the other party, because they often think that it is a kind of "begging". On the other hand, in order to protect their low self-esteem, they often use offense as defense in sexual matters, blaming all the unhappiness and discomfort in their sexual life on the other party, and even launch a "holy war" against the other party because of this. The common characteristic of these people is that they often use competitiveness to cover up their inferiority complex, or use indifference to maintain their self-esteem.

Due to various setbacks they have encountered, some people also lack a sense of security in their sexual life

The third common situation Yes, because they have encountered various setbacks on the road of life, some people still lack a sense of security even in their sexual life as a couple. They always seem to be worried about something, which often leaves the other person at a loss and they really don’t know how to be considerate. and care. Although such people may not necessarily have low self-esteem, they are often suspicious. In today's social environment, they often watch each other's every move in social interactions with a hundredfold vigilance, fearing that a "third party" will fly from the sky. Once they think they have discovered clues, they will warn each other with indifference or quarrel. But if they really get divorced because of this, they will have many worries and are unwilling to lose the little sense of security they currently have.

The above-mentioned personality defects are extremely detrimental to a happy sexual life, and the more persistent they are, the more detrimental they become. For the parties concerned, self-recognition and self-improvement are needed, while the other party needs to fully understand the current situation they are facing, or go all out to help, or "the long-term pain is not as good as the short-term pain" and decide to break up.

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