This is a season of getting married. The air is the taste of marriage, and those who do not get married are "shameful". Is every woman willing to get rid of herself like this? Every unmarried woman, without exception, will look forward to meeting a man who is gentle, affectionate, considerate, generous and calm, and emotionally dedicated. Of course, it is best to have a financial foundation and be handsome. This should be the so-called "best quality" in a woman's mind. Standards for a "man":

Good temper but not too good

Perhaps you have never seen him lose his temper at you, nor have you ever seen him scold you for being deeply dissatisfied with something. I take good care of you in every possible way, even to the point of being meticulous. He is also a hard-working person in the work unit. When colleagues need to do errands, he is asked to do them. He is assigned to do the hard work that no one wants to do. In every year-end evaluation, there are always praises such as being good at teamwork, hard-working, and willing to endure hardships. However, his colleagues are better than others. He has a promising career, but he is still being dispatched at will, and there is no sign of "progress", but he is not annoyed or anxious.

"I thought he was a talent, but he turned out to be a waste. He doesn't know how to smoke, drink or do anything, and he has no future in officialdom. The thin guy next door, Xiao Li, has no diploma or demeanor. He learned to do business the year before last and already has a car. Villa, I think he is a working-class person, and it is difficult to get rich in the short term. "It is rare to have a non-impetuous mentality, but he is too temperamental, lacks enterprising spirit, and has no fighting spirit. Although he can live a peaceful and stable life with his wife and children in the future, he will. There are fewer twists and turns, but we women are afraid that this "Ninja Turtle" temper will be transmitted to us during our long-term life together, making us like the women of our mother's generation, becoming "robots" to support our families.

Be rich but not too rich

If a man is a pauper, without a house or a car, he has to fiddle with his money bag for a long time and think for a long time when going out to buy groceries. Struggling in poverty, the stinginess index is hundreds of times higher than that of ordinary people. If you marry such a person, you will be exhausted or angry to death! It must have been a difficult time. In this day and age, a man should have money, be cool on his own, and have a good wife with him. Love is like clothing, it must be supported by money.

However, the most unfortunate thing is this. You can change your clothes at will. If this man is carefree all the way and forgets the way home, wouldn't it make you look at the cold window with a lonely moon and a pool of astringent tears? Hard work? In the real world, being rich is almost equal to having ability and luck. If a man has excellent ability and luck, he will definitely pamper himself in many aspects, including choosing a wife and a mate. Marrying such a man will make you wary all the time in your life. There is a crisis of being laid off every minute!

“Men become bad when they are rich.” People who have been poor for a long time but suddenly become rich cannot marry. Therefore, a good man should be like this: he should have enough food and clothing, but he should not be extremely rich.

Be responsible but not too responsible

I once saw a joke: A boy and a girl sleep in the same room, and the girl draws a line: Anyone who crosses the line is a beast! The woman woke up and found that the man had really missed the line. The woman slapped the man hard: You are worse than a beast! Haha, it seems that men who are too conscientious will also be dismissed.

Responsible men live for a belief. They only do what they should do, not what they want to do. Most conscientious men will have too many rules and regulations. If you love If your love is too deep, he will make you sad; if your love is too shallow, the two of you can be together, but this kind of love is either raw or lifeless.

In addition, as soon as the dutiful man walked into the office and started working, he was like a game machine with coins inserted into it, exerting super energy in a short period of time. If the console suddenly stopped, then a coin called cowardice must have been thrown in by mistake.

Men who are timid, fearful, and hide in corners will only attract contempt from their leaders and colleagues. Even if some sympathy would be given, no one would ever put in a coin for him again. Although women are wary of men who are overly responsible, it reveals their petty nature, and most women like the way men add more passion to their lives. Although women do want everything to go according to procedure and life to be stable and comfortable, women are also willing to be "passionate" occasionally.

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Being enterprising is not a workaholic

Career is an important element of a truly perfect family. Men should be enterprising in order to make their families happy. life is effectively guaranteed. A man who is ambitious does not look around, does not look towards Qin Muchu, and is tied to his career wholeheartedly. He feels distressed when he looks at him, and loves him when he thinks about him. However, there may be unforeseen consequences when getting married, and the problems are not small. He was stingy and refused to walk a few steps along the street with you. He kept asking you to go shopping with you, but at most he only waited under the shade of a tree outside the mall. What's more important is that he is the hands-off shopkeeper, forcing you to take care of everything in the house and annoying you.

But if he is too career-minded, he will spend very little time on his family and you. If you ask him to go shopping with you, he will say it is boring; if you ask him to watch a movie with you, he will say Do not have time. He has achieved success in his career, and you have followed suit, but that is what others see. What others cannot see is your loneliness in the long years. And those men who are not overly ambitious will know how to be considerate and pampering to you.

Men who are too obsessed with their careers mostly have the desire to command others (including women). The biggest harm from getting along with a man who is too ambitious is mentally. In addition, most "enterprising" men are overworked, and their bodies are not only at the peak of comprehensive quality development, but also facing the most unstable and fragile state. Cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases are lurking on the sidelines, taking advantage of the slightest opportunity.

Petitious but not too petty

Petitious men usually follow fashion closely. It is avant-garde to date AA or ask women to pay the bill. But if you really date such a man, he is simply not a man.

In addition, male petty bourgeoisie are always the seeds of passion, and they are very familiar with all kinds of tricks in the love scene. The daily life of male petty bourgeoisie is very stereotyped and has a deliberate color. For example, regardless of the weight of their hair, they all shave their faces every day - please note that it is "shaving", not shaving. I have a complete set of picture albums and Oscar DVDs at home, and I often go to the small hall to watch European movies and American blockbusters.

The male petty bourgeoisie has its own specific scope of activities. These areas have very strong and obvious signs, making it clear at a glance that they are indeed places where the petty bourgeoisie hangs out.

It goes without saying about office buildings. If they leave the office building, their behavior is generally somewhere between bars, coffee shops and star-rated hotels. When you are with a man who is described as a "petty bourgeoisie", it is especially easy to feel the frustration of "it is easy to fall in love but difficult to get along with" and the frustration of not being loved. It is better for women to provoke them less, so as not to love in vain. Of course, if you have the conditions to match his beauty and his superiority, it may still be possible.

There is nothing wrong with being petty bourgeoisie, but it is just a bit pretentious. It is okay to do it occasionally, but if you really live like that, you will be tired.

You can't be too handsome

You can't marry someone from "Wuda University". He is ugly and useless, and has no future. But if you have Pan An's beauty, that's not possible either.

With a man who is too handsome, women will be easily satisfied and content with the status quo. Therefore, they do not seek to make progress, so they often have little achievements in life. If she doesn't get it right, her husband won't stay with her until the end, and that's the end of it. Secondly, the woman naturally cherishes the handsome man and obeys him, but in the end she loses her own opinion and becomes a puppet. Thirdly, thinking about the handsome man all day makes it difficult to concentrate on work, and there is always a sense of uneasiness. Subconsciously, I am always afraid that the handsome man will run away or that someone else will seduce me. If she doesn't do it right, she will be in panic all day long, wishing she could be by the handsome man's side all the time. She loses a lot of things that belong to women, and can't do many things.

"Children are your own good, and your husband and wife are other people's good." If there is a handsome man, it will cause even more trouble.

Romantic but not too romantic

A person who is too romantic may only grow love but not rice. The head says that the head is willing to become a small bench for you to rest your feet, and the heart says that the heart is willing to become A small cloth bag can insert needles into you, but it will not turn into food on the table to fill your stomach. It is full of poetry but not enough food and grass. It is elegant but poor, and you will fall in love but not marry.

Other people are not born romantic. A man who is too romantic shows that he has rich experience in love, and such a man is more suitable to be friends. If a man waits downstairs for half an hour to send you flowers, and he buys roses by mistake, it doesn't matter, he is sending you roses in his heart. Although a man who is too affectionate and too sensitive is very affectionate and gentle to you, he will also ask you to be tender and sweet to him, and ask you to devote all your mind, energy and even time to his feelings, otherwise it will be you. If you don't understand his feelings, can you bear it?

In addition, people such as Jia Baoyu and Duan Yu, modern and fashionable versions of Prince Charles and John F. Kennedy, etc., have brilliant families, passionate people, and elegant demeanor. Unfortunately, such people are rare by nature. Crush them into powder, and all the idiots and resentful women in the world won't be able to give them a cent, so it's okay not to say anything about it.

The connotation of a "moderate" good man is so rich, and there is always a real copy in everyone's heart that is different from others. Taiwanese cartoonist Zhu Deyong talks about women: If a woman is not sexy, she must be emotional; if she is not emotional, she must be rational.

There are too many men who cannot marry, and too few men who can marry. Some things seem to have to be settled on the second best. If you really can't find a man to marry, then the conditions for marrying should be changed from "and" to "or". Love what you love, marry what you love - as long as there is love, as long as two hearts join together, through the ups and downs of the years you will understand something: love is not acting in a movie, love with taste, the true meaning is In it.

After lingering for a long time, many women still fall in love and get married. Tomorrow is theirs. Happiness is a choice. What are you waiting for?

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