Introduction: In the comic "Desire", when a male reporter interviewed a female star, he asked: "What role do you most want to play now?" The female star replied: "I most want to play a bad woman."

It seems that under the tight spell of "good", there are actually many unhappy women's hearts. "Bad" women have always been men's favorites, but everyone has their own interpretation of "bad". No matter how you understand it, at least the following "bad things" are the "software" that new women should have in the field of love.

1. So “good” that I don’t know how to love

My cousin has always presented herself as a good daughter, a good student, and a good friend. When she was a graduate student in science and engineering, someone complimented her as a "big girl." She almost fainted. She is a very "upright" lady. How could she be like this? Indecent nickname? As a result, no one chased her.

Later, my cousin stopped trying to be "good" and accidentally used the nickname "Red Nails" to chat on the Internet. The result was a happy scene that attracted bees and butterflies. She finally understood that she used to be so "good" that even men didn't dare to "reach high". Men need something very sensual and "bad", such as red nails. When a man sees the woman he likes painting her nails, he has a wonderful association, which is very sexy and full of fox-fairy sentiment.

In fact, men in essence love bad women more. Naked men need naked seduction, temptation, teasing, and even slight abuse, such as pinching him with red nails... "Red nails" mobilize men's animal nature , like alcohol, makes men as happy as immortals.

With the "bad" practice in the virtual world, my cousin finally walked into the bar that she despised in the past, became a "Queen of the Bar", and quickly caught a "right man". In the past, she always waited tenderly, even foolishly and innocently, but she got nothing. And the man who attracted her heart actually easily married her cousin just because he praised her, "You look sexy when you eat ice cream."

Ms. Ye Ying, the global vice president of Kodak, is the idol of countless boys. She has a famous saying that is popular among college students: "My skirt is very short and my high heels are very high!" Indeed, a seductive woman is confident. , is healthy, decent, and a female model of our time. If "good" means being autistic, not daring to show off feminine charms, and being incompetent in love, then what's the point of such a "good" "weak woman"?

2. Women should be spoiled in love

Guzi, who is eccentric but also very smart, almost never does anything when having dinner with her boyfriend. The reason is: "I spent a whole morning painting ten nails. You can serve me!" In fact, feeding her is the most important thing in the world. From a boyfriend's point of view, it is the lightest form of all love tortures.

Failed love makes women stupid and men bad. Guzi believes that if you are "too good" to your boyfriend, your IQ will easily decrease. Gu Zi believes that in a relationship with high emotional intelligence and interest, it is best for a man to chase a woman, use "distance" to make a fuss, and shape himself into a "target" that is always visible and intangible. Don't fall in love with your ears, as it will make your heart too soft; Don't fall in love with your body, as that can easily end a man's fighting spirit.

Therefore, she packaged herself as a naughty, naughty, and wild image, and under the golden name of "girlfriend", she did all kinds of petty crimes and evil things under the aura of love. On the one hand, she tested her boyfriend's sincerity; on the other hand, she tested her boyfriend's sincerity. In terms of adding interest and personal charm. Eventually she succeeded. Guzi is a woman who enjoys herself. Her mantra is: If you love me, spoil me rotten!

More and more girls find that being a traditional "good woman" will often lead to disadvantages, so they put forward this slogan: Don't be a "good woman". "Virtuous women" only try to please men, but don't know how to love themselves. What's even more hateful is that men may call "bad women" but they actually like "bad women" in their hearts. Of course, the so-called "bad" does not mean committing crimes, but when most women cannot find their emotional position and dare not speak up for their own rights and interests in love, those women who are very willing to speak up for their rights and interests It will look very special and a bit "bad".

The conditions for a "bad" woman are: pursuit of self-realization, sobriety, the courage to realize dreams, independence, and love for oneself... Ms. Zheng, a business manager in a company, believes that women who often make men feel frustrated are "bad" women. A "bad" woman can push a bad man to become a good man.

Ms. Zheng admires the Hollywood star Barbara Streisand. Streisand, who has always been shrewd, has not lowered her IQ because of love. She once drafted a prenuptial agreement with her boyfriend Brolin to protect her property rights from infringement.

Miss Zheng recently fell in love again, and this time she no longer "buried herself in love". She said that both people are equal and rational. She said that she must be a smart woman first, and then she is qualified to judge which one. Which man is good and which man is bad? Only in this way can we not suffer any loss and have true dignity and true love.

3. The “badness” of good women in the bedroom

Many professional women have had the illusion of split personality. On the one hand, they have to play the role of a good wife and mother, and on the other hand, they have work pressure. Therefore, when both ends are burned, they will be physically and mentally exhausted, which naturally affects their personal desires. The sexual interaction with my husband also became negative. This is a real issue.

The husband on the other side often ignores the awkward role of his wife, and only requires his wife to be passionate and wild, which is commonly known as "bad". It is better to be a happy "bad" woman than to be an unhappy good woman.

It is undeniable that there are still many virtuous women who do not know how to develop "gender resources", let alone understand the beauty of "femininity". Of course, they cannot talk about enjoying "sexual" blessings. They think that an independent professional woman needs It is "intellectual" and "rational", but they don't know that there is also "emotion", and they even learn "sexy" lessons. How to transform from a worm into a beautiful butterfly is a question that every woman should consider.

The seemingly pure and noble relationship between husband and wife is cold and lacks a sensual atmosphere and appeal. It turns out that women can be "bad" enough to make men take it orally; it turns out that femininity can be learned and sexy can be trained...

Some "good" women are not rewarded and marry a substandard or mediocre husband, but some "bad" women who seem to be arrogant can marry a good husband. It is really a good thing and a bad thing. Of course, this "good" woman may be cowardly, conservative, and rigid, and dare not pursue true love, while the "bad" woman may be shrewd, shrewd, cheerful, and dare to pursue true love...

The two women who best illustrate this problem are the two women in "The Legend of the Condor Heroes". The cunning and eccentric Huang Rong, who can talk and do what she says, finally wins the perfect love of the good man Jing Gege, while the gentle and virtuous Mu Nianci... I can only live a miserable and lonely life in Yang Kang's shadow! Is Mu Nianci not good enough? No, Mu Nianci is very filial and kind! Is it fate, or has Mr. Jin Yong already seen through everything with his superhuman wisdom and designed this situation?

Love: How should a woman be "bad" to love a man

In the contemporary entertainment industry, it seems that "beautiful girls" are no longer popular, while "desire girls" and "evil girls" can control the wind and rain, bringing flowers and songs of triumph. In fact, the problem still lies with you. The so-called "good" women are often better at or accustomed to waiting, instead of being able or afraid to take the initiative, watching helplessly as good men are picked away by "bad" women. There is no queue to pursue love. This is an era of competition. If you are too polite, then I'm sorry, only the early bird catches the worm!

Psychologists have found that people can be divided into many categories, but there is a certain kind of people who have a unique "happy personality". They seem to be close to water and always get the moon first, while many seemingly "bad" women in life often get what they sow. Guadi has such a "happy personality", he is proactive, enthusiastic, strong, dares to love and hate, quick to respond, broad-minded, and of course loves himself, even a little selfish.

A woman with a "happiness IQ" will quickly activate her sense of smell and offensive touch, which men use. The "woman in the window" may be virtuous or full of tears, but if she doesn't run away, she will never run away. Can't fly.