Nowadays, more and more young men and women like to live together, which can not only reduce the rent burden, but also increase the intimacy between the two of them. However, don't take it easy when living together, otherwise various conflicts and problems will easily arise.

Confirm whether you can live together:

Before living together, you must first confirm whether two people can reach the emotional state of living together. If you are only in love for a few months, it is not recommended to live together. Couples who have no long-term plans for the future are also advised not to live together.

If two people have long-term plans for the future, are emotionally stable, have been dating for more than half a year, and their parents are slightly aware of it, they can consider living together before marriage to get to know each other more deeply.

Tolerate each other’s shortcomings:

After living together, you will find that the other person is different from what you thought. It turns out that the goddess can also pick her nose and have stinky feet. It turns out that the male idol went to bed without washing his feet. It turns out that the male idol at home is still a sloppy guy. It turns out that her room can be so messy, it turns out that girls' cosmetics can really be placed on a table, etc. Life is when you see a person's true self.

Learn to be considerate:

Be considerate of the male god who sometimes works overtime and cannot be with you in time, and be considerate of the goddess who puts on makeup for half an hour every day in order to look beautiful. The goddess of understanding makes a pot of soup for you even though it is not delicious. Be considerate of the other person's clumsiness when making changes and giving.

Learn to consider each other:

Know the little habits of your other half. Knowing that he loves cleanliness, he will get up and mop the floor when he sees it is dirty. I know she likes pink, but it doesn’t matter to me anyway, and it doesn’t matter if the whole room is girly. Knowing that he has a bad stomach, he always remembers to boil some water so that he can drink hot water at any time. Wait and slowly learn to consider the other person.

The economy must be independent but also arranged together:

Financial independence means that I have a salary and so do you. No matter who doesn’t want to do it one day. The other party can say, "It's okay, just have fun for a while and I'll take care of you." Arrangement together means that when living together, many things must be purchased together. Girls must not buy willfully at this time. Only by arranging common assets reasonably will life be better.

Get to know each other’s friends and openly announce their world:

Now that we live together, friends around us will surely know about it gradually. The right thing to do is to tell your friends generously. If you find that one party is deliberately concealing the fact that you are living together, you should consider whether this person is really suitable for being together.

It is considered a kind of trial marriage:

If you have already made plans to get married, then living together is the best way to test whether two people are suitable for marriage.