Some people say that love will not come to a woman who has no masculine atmosphere at all. Therefore, even if you are heartbroken, you should pick up your mood and find a man to love or even indulge. Because riding a "donkey" is more conducive to finding a "horse".

However, how much true love should be given to the "donkey" is the best bottom line for a woman's indulgence, and is it most conducive to the arrival of the right man? Some people say: It is 30% love! Is this kind of limited love really the most advantageous bottom line for women to indulge, or should they choose other ways to find a "horse"?

Sitting with Su Mei on the swing chair in the Fairy Forest, rocking gently, I tried my best to pretend to be very content and relaxed, using a straw to select the purple pearls in the milk tea, but I was knocked down by her words: "Your eyes are full of loneliness.

Little K, it’s been half a year since you broke up, why are you still holding on to your old love? A woman without a man is like a stray dog. More and more no one wants to take her in. You see, your skin is rusty. Don't expect to fall in love with someone right away. At least, start dating first. Even if it is indulgence, as long as it is not excessive, it will be good for you. ”

I know what she said makes sense, and it’s not that there are no “indulgent” candidates around me. It’s just that I’m afraid that it won’t end. I’m afraid that if I get along with a man for real and fake, the one I really want to love will suddenly appear over there. People, but they themselves are trapped in a relationship that they are unwilling to get out of. Su Mei found a solution for me: "I know Alan likes you, and I also know that you don't like him.

Why don't you and him get vaccinated in advance? Instead of cheating and indulgence, you should invest a little affection in getting along with each other. If love lasts for a long time, he will have hope. If your Mr. Right suddenly appears, he will be willing to admit defeat.

For him, having love and being able to get along with him is better than your 100% rejection leaving him with no hope. For you, if you fall in love with him, just like Amitabha, if you can't fall in love, indulge yourself. , there is nothing to lose when love appears. "Her words almost hit my heart. I was speechless and made an appointment with Alan that night.

Su Mei was right. From "zero hope" to "30% hope", it was almost a gift from the sky to Alan. And I, 30% of my emotional investment, in exchange for his 100% Pampering also makes me exude the charm of a loved woman all day long. We went on dates, watched movies, sang karaoke, and had big meals. With almost no preparation, we moved in together.

What Su Mei said is true. A woman who is not loved by a man will have fewer chances of meeting a man. I have been alone for half a year, but I haven't met a man I like. One month after I moved in with Alan, I met him, which was so fast that I was caught off guard.

It was a party, and Alan and I attended it together. Of course, we were not as "boyfriends and boyfriends," but just "friends who came together on the same road." Even when we sat down, I deliberately talked to him. Sit apart. Halfway through the meal, a new friend arrived belatedly. When he opened the box door and sat directly opposite the box door, chatting and laughing with his neighbor, I suddenly became speechless. A voice echoed in my mind: "He is yours, he is yours!"

Yes, he is the kind of man I want. When he enters the door, he greets everyone one by one, takes off his coat and hangs it on the rack, asks the waiter to add a seat, sits down, takes out his mobile phone and puts it on the table. Come on, give business cards to everyone here one by one...

His every move, the tone of his speech, the occasional joke or two, the green stubble on his beard, the expression when he smiles, the movement of his Adam's apple after drinking a glass of wine... I know, I feel " "Nymphomaniac", this is the man I want. He is not a very handsome type, but every expression matches my definition of a man, as if he is customized according to my ideal!