When men and women have sex, verbal communication can bring intimacy and help stimulate sexual desire. Especially some love words that are usually too shy to say can make sex life full of passion and make the sex experience more wonderful. However, it is not easy to speak good love words. If you are too vulgar, your partner will be disgusted, and if you are too subtle, you will not be able to understand it. Let’s take a look at these suggestions below.

What’s the best way to talk about love when a young couple is having sex

1. Step by step, from "vegetarian" to "vegetarian"

Your partner should not say very explicit love words right from the beginning. Experts say that when making out, you can start with a small, short sound, such as a gasp during a kiss, or a simple "yes" or "I like it." Then slowly say some "nasty" words based on the progress of your sex. Of course, don't talk dirty all night long. Normal praise and affirmation are also necessary.

2. Be straightforward and avoid organ names

When referring to the other person's private parts, concise and clear statements work best, such as "I want you to enter me." It is important to note that it is best not to use very formal organ names, such as penis, testicles, uterus etc., because overly technical terms will make people think of medical treatment, thereby extinguishing desire. If you want to make it more interesting, you can give each other a nickname for each other's body parts that only two people will know.

3. Lower your tone

No matter what love words you say, be sure to make your voice lower, softer, and hoarse than normal. Studies have shown that men are more attracted to female partners whose voices sound like this.

4. Give clear instructions

The instructions are simple and easy to understand, and can improve the other party's sexual skills. For example, when men and women are making out, you might as well try the following instructive words: caress me here, kiss me there, take off your clothes, close your eyes, turn around, put your hands here, etc.

5. Ask appropriate questions

Another way to talk about love is to ask questions, such as "How does that feel?" "What do you want me to do next?" "What would turn you on?"

6. Praise your partner

Everyone likes to be praised. Since you are attracted to your partner in bed, you might as well praise them more. You can praise the other person's body, praise the other person's charming appearance, seductive body odor and unique voice, etc. You can also like the wonderful feelings both parties have together.

7. Tell the truth

You must speak your truth, and you must not say false words just to show your grace. The body tells the truth, and if what you say is inconsistent with what your body expresses, your partner will realize that you are lying.

8. The more specific the compliment, the better

Specific compliments will show you are attentive. For example, instead of saying generically "You are beautiful," say "Your eyes are beautiful."

Things to note when young couples have sex

1. A new gel condom must be used before each sexual intercourse.

2. Condoms come in different specifications. The appropriate model should be selected according to the size of the penis when it is erect. If it is too big, it will fall off in the vagina; if it is too small, it will be squeezed and the semen will flow into the vagina.

3. Check the production date and expiry date before use. Expired condoms have deteriorated and are easy to break and should not be used.

4. Condoms must be kept in a cool, dry environment and not exposed to acids, alkalis, and oils. If it becomes sticky or brittle after exposure to the above conditions, it should not be used even within the shelf life.

5. Carefully tear open the individually sealed packaging bag and avoid using sharp tools such as scissors.

6. It must be put on before sexual intercourse begins.

7. Before putting on the glans, the small air bag at the top of the condom for storing semen should be deflated to prevent the air in the air bag from expanding when heated and causing the semen to overflow to the root of the penis during ejaculation.

8. The condom should not be unfolded in advance, but should be unfolded on the head of the erect penis downward from the glans.

9. Only water-based lubricants can be used with condoms. Vaseline, liquid paraffin, facial oil, cooking oil, etc. can increase the brittleness of condoms in a short period of time and accelerate their rupture.

10. If semen enters the vagina, use emergency contraception immediately.