The day before yesterday I received a crying phone call from a good friend. The content was basically telling me: Her best friend seemed to be having an affair with her boyfriend, and she didn’t know whether to pretend to turn a blind eye or break up with him directly.

I asked back: "Why did you break up with him? Maybe the responsibility lies with your most trusted best friend." She shouted: "Impossible. She is my best friend. Do you know what a best friend is? Best friends are best friends, they know each other better than they know themselves." Then she hung up the phone angrily.

I want to say, why is it impossible? Nothing is impossible in this world. The reason why we can become best friends is probably because we have the same hobbies, interests, similar habits, and similar tastes, so what you like may not necessarily be what she won’t like. And she is your best friend. Naturally, you know all the secrets and understand the other party very well. Naturally, it is not uncommon for best friends to become mistresses.

However, when problems arise, many women blindly blame men for their lack of willpower, without ever thinking about the role their best friends play in this. This is not advisable.

As a woman myself, I would like to make 3 suggestions for my female compatriots:

1. 1 meter, double crisis of love and friendship.

Many people always regard their best friends as another version of themselves. I will be the first to tell her when I am happy, and go to her to comfort me when I am sad. Naturally, all the joys, sorrows and joys in the relationship are shared with my best friends.

Let me ask you, when a person whispers in your ear countless times, and the protagonist of countless whispers in your ear is the same person, people will become curious. This is a common problem for all people.

Maybe your best friend was not interested in him at all at first, and just paid attention to your boyfriend out of curiosity. Then after you mentioned it every day, the curiosity turned into addiction. If he doesn’t listen to you for a day, he will feel Something seems to be missing. Then you gradually become interested in your boyfriend. This is the situation within one meter. It is not self-serving to be too close.

Because you and your best friend have similar tastes, and your best friend is interested in him. When love meets friendship, the only result will naturally be that your friendship is vulnerable.

Two, 2 meters, my husband’s confidant is swaying.

Women are relatively vain and always want to prove their own charm, but a large number of people tend to start from those around them. Therefore, you can’t be too careless when it comes to your besties.

There are no permanent friends, women are fickle, and no one knows what she is going to do next. Don't trust a person too much. You must know that even relatives whose blood is thicker than water may betray you at any time. Whether it's your best friend seducing your husband or your husband falling in love with your best friend, this is something you can't bear. Within 2 meters, love is in danger and friendship is wavering.

Three, 3 meters, with red and blue faces on both sides.

For the person you decide to spend your life with, you must not let your best friend get too close. The reason why we can become best friends is because we have experienced many things together, maybe we have cried, maybe we have made trouble, and maybe we have laughed together. So why not let your best friend get close to your husband?

Firstly, because women are born weak and cannot withstand betrayal; secondly, because best friends are the result of long-term companionship, and it is rare to find someone who can talk to oneself; thirdly, only if there is a road to love. Even sweeter, the most important thing for a woman is to find an important partner.

So it’s better to be gentlemen with your best friends. You can share your life, your joys and sorrows, but you can never share your feelings. Three meters away, there will be your most peaceful presence.

Want a friendship that will never go bad? Then let us shout: My dear bestie, please stay three meters away from my man.