Many men have the so-called "virginity plot". If they have sex with a girl for the first time but don't see it, they will feel very disadvantaged.

What is the hymen

Many people know about the hymen, but they don’t know what it is. The hymen is actually not a membrane, but composed of mucosal tissue. Its inner and outer sides are covered by squamous epithelium, and the middle layer contains connective tissue, blood vessels and nerve endings. The amount of connective tissue determines the thickness of the hymen. Thicker hymens are more elastic and less likely to break, while thinner hymens are easier to tear.

Many men have the so-called "virginity plot". If they have sex with a girl for the first time but don't see it, they will feel very disadvantaged. So will a woman definitely become popular on her first night?

Do girls definitely get "hot" on their first night?

Most women will not bleed at all during first night, or only a few drops.

Because in fact, the hymen will also naturally rupture due to strenuous fitness exercises, horse riding, cycling, dancing, masturbation, trauma, labor, etc., and the bleeding and pain may be slight and unnoticed.

The rupture of the hymen most often occurs when having sex for the first time. When it ruptures, women will experience sudden severe pain, accompanied by a small amount of bleeding. Generally, the bleeding can stop on its own without special treatment. But there are also some women whose hymen has good elasticity and a certain degree of expansion, and remains intact without bleeding after sex. According to Dr. published in the British Medical Journal in 1998. Sara Patterson-Brown's survey report shows that 63% of women did not bleed during or after their first love. Therefore, the lack of bleeding does not mean that they are not virgins.

Women need to pay attention to these things after their first night

1. Prevent inflammation of the damaged hymen.

Although, modern society has become quite open about sex. But there are still many women who want to spend their most precious time on their wedding night. On the wedding night, after sex, the hymen ruptures. After the hymen ruptures, there will be some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding. You should wipe it with sterilized gauze or cotton wool. It is best to wait 2-3 days before having sex to prevent wound inflammation. If your hymen is ruptured, bleeding a lot, and the pain is unbearable, you should seek medical attention.

Sometimes, because a woman’s hymen is thick or the hole in the hymen is too small, or the man has rough sexual intercourse, heavy bleeding may occur after the hymen is torn. The most severe cases not only cause large tears in the hymen, but also cause lacerations on the walls of the labia minora, leading to massive bleeding.

2. Treat premature ejaculation correctly.

If it is a man's first sexual intercourse, it is common for him to ejaculate prematurely due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement, resulting in sexual intercourse failure. When faced with this situation, you should forgive him instead of complaining. Men don't have to worry, it doesn't mean premature ejaculation. With the growth of sexual knowledge and accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, both parties will cooperate tacitly and return to normal quickly.

3. Pay attention to external genital hygiene.

Smegma in men and vaginal secretions in women increase. If not cleaned, it is very unhygienic and will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women. Therefore, both parties should wash their vulva with warm water and neutral soap to ensure a more hygienic and healthy sexual life.