Sex is a process that everyone can enjoy, but many female friends have various psychological problems when sex comes. Experts will analyze for you today what kind of psychological dynamics women have during sex. Don't think that as long as the other person is passionate and you work hard to tease, the two of you can enjoy sex to your heart's content. In fact, a woman who likes to be kissed and caressed does not necessarily mean that she can enjoy sexual relations with each other.

You may have never experienced how much pressure she put on before unbuttoning. Therefore, if you can understand more about her feelings before taking off her clothes, I believe your relationship will definitely become closer!

Pressure 1: Inferiority about body shape

The pressure to unbutton the buttons. The first pressure women face before having sex is that they worry about being in poor shape, not being able to satisfy their sexual partners, and even destroying the original relationship. But in real life, there are not many people who can be as beautiful as celebrities, so you must build confidence in your body and accept yourself.

Solution: For women’s anxiety and pressure, men must give positive comments and encouragement. Men must understand that sex is not only about physical and sensual desires, but also about emotional communication: if you are not satisfied with your body, you can share your feelings with women and compare your feelings to relieve the pressure caused by appearance.

Pressure 2: Fear of sexual intercourse

The pressure caused by expectations "Sex is not beautiful at all, only uncomfortable." This is a topic often mentioned by many handkerchiefs when they talk about boudoir secrets. Due to the lack of sexual education, many people’s sexual knowledge comes from movies, TV, or novels. In those worlds, sex is beautiful, but in fact, not everyone’s experience is this way; therefore, when people spread word of mouth, they will say that sex is not only unromantic, but even painful.

Some people think that sexual intercourse is just a routine thing, or even just to satisfy men. With this concept, women will naturally feel fear and disgust when they want to go to bed with their sexual partners, and of course they will not have satisfactory and pleasurable sexual intercourse.

Another similar situation is aversion to sexual organs.

In the manga "Reiko Shiratori", the heroine Reiko Shiratori has a first-class face and figure. She also has beautiful fantasies about falling in love and having sex, but she feels that her sexual organs are extremely ugly. She is completely unworthy of her most beautiful appearance, so she is disillusioned with sex. Although the plot is funny, it vividly conveys the conflicting views of young women on sexual intercourse. This belief that sexual organs are ugly, just like the belief that sexual intercourse is painful, prevents many women from enjoying sex calmly.

Solution: If women’s preconceived notions or stereotypes about sex are deeply ingrained, they will still cause psychological barriers. At this time, the other half's consideration and understanding, as well as communication with both parties, become the key to solving the problem. To relieve women's fears and expectations about sex, men must understand what women expect from sex, so that women can disarm and forget about their doubts about sex. Accepting women's guidance and always asking the woman how she feels can also make the two of them happy. After sex, there is endless lingering.

In fact, the problem of women beautifying sex cannot be completely solved by men. Women must also be responsible. With the opening up of society, books about sex can now be separated into a separate area in bookstores. Women who want to have orgasms cannot just wait passively for men to bring about orgasms, or blame men for being inconsiderate. Instead, they must enrich their sexual knowledge. , understand women’s physical and psychological needs, and understand what real sex is, so that you can find endless fun in it.