What harm does premarital sex do to us?
For women, premarital sex directly leads to disharmony after marriage. Because no matter how open a man's psychology is, most men hope that their wives will have as few sexual experiences as possible before marriage. After marriage, some women will miss the sexual experience they had with their ex-boyfriend before marriage if their sex life with their husbands is not passionate enough. This is a hidden killer of marriage, and they may unknowingly engage in psychological derailment and even start to develop extramarital affairs. There are also some women who are disliked, neglected or even abandoned by their husbands after marriage because they had had premarital sex.
For men, premarital sex directly leads to the inability to find an ideal virgin for marriage. Many marriageable men complain that it is difficult to find a virgin. In fact, every man who has had premarital sex is a contributor to this result. To put it bluntly, if every man can realize this sentence, he may be able to stop the situation: when you are sleeping with someone else's future wife, someone else is also sleeping with your future wife.
In fact, apart from venting lust, premarital sex does no good to men. Some men experience passion before marriage, but find it difficult to achieve passion during sex in marriage. Some men are always worried about their sexual ability after marriage after being accused by their ex-girlfriends of not being good enough in bed. Some men discover after marriage that their wives' sexual coordination ability exceeds theirs, and they feel depressed thinking that this is the result of another man's training.
Premarital sex, in the final analysis, is an emotional overdraft. For all the men and women who have experienced premarital sex, who has not had a heart-wrenching experience? For most people, the body and emotions are invested at the same time, but the person who has sex before marriage is not the person after marriage.
After experiencing short-term physical pleasure, premarital sex brings us only regret, pain, and regret. If premarital sex could be avoided, there would be fewer infatuated men and women in the world. Scientists once investigated the happiness index of many couples and found that men and women who had more sexual experiences before marriage had lower happiness after marriage.