A woman who has never experienced an orgasm is imperfect. Someone once described an orgasm like this, "It feels like flying to the sky." This shows that the pleasure of female orgasm is very intense. For women who have never experienced orgasm, they should learn more about female genitalia and master the correct methods. Let’s take a look at the pleasure of female orgasm.

The "brief death" of orgasm

This is indeed a question that confuses many couples and there is no standard answer. To figure it out, we have to start from the beginning.

"Short Death" Regarding the physiological mechanism of orgasm, classic books describe it this way: Orgasm is the shortest stage in the sexual response process, lasting only a few seconds. It releases the energy of sexual desire through involuntary muscle spasms, thereby obtaining wave-like pleasure. The most erotic organ in women is the clitoral glans, followed by the clitoral body, labia minora, and the outer third of the vagina.

Feeling like you are floating during orgasm

In her sexology report, the famous sexologist Haidt described the feeling of female orgasm as follows: "My body feels suspended, full of power, a rushing flame, swallowing everything fiercely, It was so wonderful that it was almost unbearable and extremely ecstatic. "I felt extremely excited - my breathing was rapid - and at the same time my head became light, as if I was in a dream world, the sound was distant and time seemed to stand still. ”

Yes, a woman's orgasm begins with a feeling called "suspension". At that moment she seems to be hanging in mid-air, usually for 1-3 seconds. This "suspension" is equivalent to the "sense of inevitability" that men experience before orgasm (the feeling they have when they are unable to suppress ejaculation). As the clitoris is stimulated continuously and rhythmically, extremely sensitive nerves send impulses to the spinal cord, where they are immediately redirected back to the orgasmic muscles in the pelvic area.

Orgasmic reactions of different women

No two women react exactly the same during this stage of orgasm, even though their bodies undergo similar physiological changes. Some women are very calm; some women moan or scream; some arch their backs or bite things next to them, such as arms, pillows, etc. When consciousness begins to return - which only takes a few seconds - almost all the women feel warmth, first in their pelvis and then throughout their bodies.

The Art of Making Love

Women having multiple orgasms during sex is not a sign of sexual perversion, nor does it mean they are "hypersexual", "animalistic" or "unfeminine". The survey found that some women admitted that they had a psychological burden of guilt. It turned out that they were worried that having this feeling would stain the purity and sanctity of marriage. The question of experiencing orgasm is a question about a couple's temperament, sexual maturity, preferences and choices, and the art of making love.

Hypersexual woman

A young woman who was married for the first time frowned and said that her husband was a very gentle and charming man, and every time he had sex, he was very successful. But lately I have been agitated by my own abnormality. Because every time her husband "finished his duties", he would breathe next to her with infinite comfort and happiness, and she hoped that he would continue to stay in her body and lean over her. She felt that there was still an endless flow of energy in her body. The torrent is roaring, I hope my husband can continue to do it again. For this reason, she wondered if she had hypersexuality and felt that she had become a shameless and lustful woman.

Women have “multiple orgasms”

During sex, after a woman contracts her last contracture, her body rapidly loses sexual tension. Masters and Johnson call this phase "elimination." If they do not subside immediately, but return to the plateau, and can be repeatedly stimulated from the plateau to orgasm, this phenomenon is "multiple orgasms", and every woman has this potential.

The reason a woman has the ability to have multiple orgasms is that there are a large number of intricate blood vessels in her pelvis, and the contracture of one orgasm can rarely drain all the accumulated blood. It can be said that after the first orgasm, a woman is still full of sexual motivation and can continue to contract. Without a lot of stimulation, she can raise the tension to the climax again and again. In fact, the intensity of any orgasm she experiences depends on how engorged the veins in her pelvis are.

A woman reaches her peak when she climaxes

Sometimes the amount of blood congestion is small, and the orgasm is low; sometimes the amount of blood congestion is large, and the orgasm reaches its peak. It is at times like this that a woman is very likely to experience multiple orgasms. Sometimes due to anatomical differences, such as an underdeveloped venous network in some women, these women have difficulty reaching orgasm. The problem seemed to go away after they gave birth to their first child. Indeed, for many women who experienced orgasm before pregnancy, orgasm comes more easily after childbirth, sometimes with multiple orgasms during the first time they have sex. This is called the "pregnancy effect." This may be related to the increased energy and increase in the number of pelvic veins during pregnancy.

Women need to be released by orgasm

If the venous congestion gradually accumulated during the sexual excitement and plateau periods is not released by orgasm, women will have irritability, a sense of failure in lovemaking, and even severe back pain. For example, many women will experience low back pain during menstruation when their sexual desire rises but they are unable to have sex. Women who have multiple orgasms often need 3-6 orgasms to completely relax their body.

A perfect sex life is inseparable from orgasm. If you have not experienced orgasm yet, you must change yourself, create a good sex life environment, and face it with a correct mentality. I believe that through your efforts, you will definitely be able to achieve it. Orgasm.