She wants her husband to think of her first in everything

Men and women are jealous of completely different things. Men are jealous of potential sexual rivals, and women are jealous of the time their husbands are not spending with her. Regardless of whether my husband is chatting with his buddies or playing golf during these times. She wants to feel that she comes first in his life.

If the husband always doesn’t get home until eight or nine o’clock in the evening, the wife can’t help but nag: “This makes me feel that my children and I are not important at all.” Sometimes even if he is at home, she feels All that remains at home is his shell. One sunny autumn day, she and her children were playing outside, while he stayed inside and watched TV. "I felt rejected."

Most couples only spend about 20 minutes talking face-to-face each week. Especially when they have children. A happy couple who has been married for 25 years has found that to build a good marital relationship, it is not only the quality of time that matters, but also the quantity of time.

She hopes that her husband can take the initiative to do housework

Her husband is envied by many girlfriends. Is it because her husband is particularly handsome or successful? No, it's because he shares the housework. "If I cook, he washes the dishes. When I wash the clothes, he is responsible for drying them." My husband feels proud when he mentions these things. What's even better is that he's not doing this to please her. "We are one," he said. A wife needs to feel that her marriage is a cooperative relationship. Men's attitude is often that they are doing her housework to do her a favor, and those dirty dishes are her business and have nothing to do with him.

Who cleans up children's toys and bathes them seems like a piece of cake. But psychologists surveyed 950 married people and found that housework is one of the three issues most likely to cause conflicts (the first one is money). Another motivating factor for husbands is that if a man can share the responsibilities of housework and child-rearing, he will have a better marital relationship and a satisfying sex life.

She needs emotional intimacy

Axin and Li are busy with their own affairs all day long. He works as a photographer and she takes care of her two young children. Their busy lives a few years ago took a toll on the close relationship they once had.

When they went to bed at night they actually looked like two strangers. Staying connected during the day makes a difference. "We talk on the phone. Sometimes it's just for a while, but I feel like we've spent some time together. I just want to hear his voice," Lee said. Without the early stages of conversation, the wife may feel stressed and distant. , they will resist intimacy.

She doesn’t want gifts like sexy lingerie and kitchen supplies

Why do gifts that don’t seem like a big deal cause big trouble between couples? Women consider the meaning of the gift. The husband often gives his wife a new book by her favorite author, conveying the message: "I'm listening when you talk, and I want to make you happy." But a toaster oven or sexy lingerie make her feel like a headache cow. The husband seemed to be saying: "I don't know and I don't care what you like, so I just have to make myself happy."

Men complained: "If she wants me to give her something special, "Why didn't she tell me something as a birthday gift?" At the same time, the woman was thinking, "If I had to tell you, I would feel less like a woman, because it means you don't think about me at all." Her husband, who had put up with it for several years, gave her a dinner knife as a gift. Later he finally understood how important the gift was to her. "Now if he sees something I admire, he remembers it and surprises me on my birthday six months later. It makes me feel how much he loves me."

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