The word "pure man" came out of Shenyang's mouth like a girl when she was young, which made many women suddenly feel that they were not at ease. Let's leave aside the seemingly stalwart male stars and movie stars and let the women who struggle at home and in the workplace tell us what it's likeMenare the real pure men in their hearts. The editor’s hands can fly airplanes and change diapers Ken Takakura has aged, the muscular man has changed his career and became the mayor, and the "good men" who dominate the screen are all so white and pink that they can express milk. When little Shenyang with a flowery hairpin shouted "We are pure men!" to add alcohol to the fire, all the female compatriots who were still alive could no longer sit still - if this continues, the great Y chromosome will destroy the entire army. Overthrown! What is a pure man like? It’s hard to define in appearance: How many beards on your chin? How many packs of cigarettes do you smoke a day? How many miles can the fragrance float after taking off the socks? The formulation of such standards is a huge systematic project. Even if all the criteria are met, the purity of this man cannot be determined. The reality we usually encounter is that what is wrapped in the golden helmet and steel armor is still a weak soul, a man who has no sense of responsibility and no responsibility. Even if he is trained as a Transformer, he will not be able to survive under the fire of a woman EyeThere is still a soft-shelled egg inside the golden eye. A man's purity does not rely on muscles, strength, or wealth. In many cases, it is achieved lightly amidst the petite fragility of women and children. Therefore, Stephen Chow was the most manly when he sang Kiss, Baby, and Jacky Cheung was the most manly when he was selling Wyeth Goldbaby. Even a tough man like Schwarzenegger is smart. Hollywood doesn't often ask him to save the earth like a SUPERMAN, but from time to time a hero saves a beauty or a father saves his son. In the movie about him rescuing his young son, when little Shiva was kidnapped by bad guys, the sparks from this steely man's eyes were extremely sexy. Serving his wife and children does not mean that a man is separated from the national economic production and hides in a small house to buy food. It means that he has a deep understanding and even humanistic care for women and children and the so-called household chores, which means that he is not only a man's Besides ambition, there is also soft love in the heart. There may be some metaphysics in saying this, but translated into the language of the people, it means that when he crawls into the house as tired as a dog after a long day of work, he will not feel that the full-time wife at home cleans the house and takes care of the children. It is a blessing; when a wife has both hands and feet, she still cannot take care of the children. During dinner, he resolutely gave up football and computer games to play one-two-three games with his children. When his wife and children went out, she took the lead in picking up her bag and carrying the children on her back, without letting her silk dress wrinkle at all... like this Men, purity is like 99.99 pure gold. An intellectual and pleasant best friend of mine once described her disappointment like this: One day she went out shopping with her one-year-old child. When she packed a large bag and pushed a stroller, she waited desperately at the door leading to the underground garage. In front of the elevator, an elite-looking man in the car immediately pressed the door button at a speed that broke her heart. That tiny movement made her suddenly feel disillusioned with the entire opposite-sex world. The pure man I was lucky enough to meet was when I was visiting a theme park. Among my companions was a foreigner who was carrying a several-month-old baby on his chest and a bag as big as a hill on his back. Walking beside him was his petite and lovely Chinese wife, as light as a swallow. I heard from a friend that the big boy-like man was a pilot. He stayed with his wife a few months ago when she had a difficult delivery. After the child was born, he felt that his wife was working too hard. In addition to going to work and taking care of all the housework, she even had to go out without a break. Shoulder carry. In the middle of the sentence, the mixed-race baby started crying. The man immediately put him down and skillfully changed him into a diaper. All the women collectively looked at the Chinese wife with envy and jealousy. And I suddenly felt that he was a real man, and he didn’t need anything else, just a pair of hands that could fly a plane and change diapers. (Bandu Zhaizhu)

"Old Mu" is not stupid at all. "Old Mu" is fifteen years older than me. It was because of his words "I want to learn to be a carpenter and make you the most comfortable chair in the world." "I was so moved that I fell in love with him wholeheartedly. True to his word, he resigned and returned to the countryside to learn carpentry from his grandfather. After a while, he picked me up too. Watching him drawing ink lines, sawing wood, and shaving wood, each move slowly taking shape, I secretly admired this man. It was rainy in the south, so he made me an oil-paper umbrella, found tung oil, and applied it carefully. We seem to have returned to the old-style love and romance. I sat on that out-of-print love chair, feeling reassured. At that time, I thought, it would be nice to live a simple life with such an old man, ordinary but full of affection. After getting married, I went to the north, and my whole person was revealed in front of you, very considerate. Sometimes he works overtime very late, and every time he waits for me to come back before serving dinner, and he also cooks porridge for me in different ways. Even like coaxing a child, he sprinkled a circle of dried radish in my bowl to tempt me to drink more. Tolerant and peaceful most of the time. Of course, when it comes to pots and pans, life is so fragmented that there will inevitably be bumps. When "Old Mu" gets angry, he always stays silent, eats without thinking, and falls asleep when he goes to bed. When he wakes up the next day, it seems as if he doesn't remember anything. I asked him about it later and he smiled. He said something hurtful and sad when he was angry. When he calmed down and thought about it, he realized that it was not just trivial. When I smacked his words, I felt that there was something thrilling in this man's reticence. He always stubbornly sticks to some habits. For example, if I wear a new dress, he will definitely let me pose a few times in front of him, and then praise me without hesitation, which makes me feel happy; for example When he goes out to drive and gets out of the car, he will definitely run down and open the door for me first, and then put his hands on the roof of the car to prevent me from touching my head; for example, when he goes out to socialize and drink, he feels that he is almost drunk, so he doesn't touch a drop. ,no sooner said than done. So I have always felt at ease with him. As long as I have "Lao Mu" at home, if the sky falls, he will hold me up. Later, my girlfriend Xiao Su told me that living with an old man like "Lao Mu" was stable and practical, but not romantic and lacked excitement. I laughed. Although "Lao Mu" looked plain and steady on the outside, he was full of romantic feelings in his heart. The last time I celebrated my birthday, when I went home and opened the door, he jumped out and hugged me and wished me a happy birthday. The room had already been decorated and filled with heart-shaped candles. The table is full of his specialty dishes, hot and sour fish, Kung Pao chicken, preserved egg and lean meat porridge... The cake is filled with test tubes filled with red wine. After I finished drinking and eating in a daze, "Old Mu" said that he should do another small show to liven up the atmosphere, so he pulled me out of the window. Unexpectedly, he also invited a bunch of brothers from the band to perform live and sang several love songs to me. At that time, I felt that I was the happiest person in the world. That's how it is when I'm with "Lao Mu". Most of the time I'm in tune, regular, traditional, retro, and occasionally out of tune. If there are pure men in this world, "Lao Mu" should be one of them. I always like to call him "Lao Mu" because of that chair; he likes to call me "Xiao Bao" because I am his treasure.

Looking up, it makes people feel a little bit sad that the hero is at the end of his life. Being able to be called a "man" does not mean that you have certain physical characteristics. This is a very technical job that cannot be done by ordinary people. In fact, I have a very heroic complex. For example, even now that I am a mature woman, I still daydream about taking a time machine back to ancient times and having some unforgettable stories with certain heroes, such as the emperors of the Tang Dynasty, the ancestors of the Tang Dynasty, the ancestors of the Qin Dynasty, the emperors of the Han Dynasty, and the geniuses of the Han Dynasty. Genghis Khan, it's a pity that these heroes are still a little bit different from "men". The reason why heroes become heroes is because of their great spirit. ="#0000ff">If you have a child, just throw it. If you should sacrifice your little wife, just give it away. Think about Tang Xuanzong's death of Yang Yuhuan in order to survive. No matter how you think about it, you feel cold and inhumane. And a "pure man" should have some iron-blooded tenderness, some chivalrous west wind, should be old-fashioned and warm-hearted, should be bold and courageous, and should be compassionate. Maybe he will lose his country or miss important events because of this tenderness and compassion. , but it can still make people sigh and admire when they think of it, make men ashamed, and make women fascinated. For example, the King of Chu, such as Dorgon, such as Wu Sangui, such as the Emperor Shunzhi who became a monk for his concubines, love of beauty is more important than country. Anyway, I think that no matter whether you are a good person or a bad person in terms of ideology, no matter how miserable the world is and how evil you do, as long as you are nice to women, you are a "man" and a good man. If you are not good to women, no matter how rich and powerful you are, I will not care about you. I don’t want to see you. This is a typical idiot’s thinking of love first. Viewers should not imitate it, otherwise you will be responsible for the consequences. For us ordinary people, "man" refers to a person with a good temper. My mother-in-law often says that no matter how bad your father (my father-in-law, the child’s grandfather) has been to me in this life, there is one good thing about him, which is to honor your grandma (my mother-in-law’s mother, my husband’s grandma... is a bit talkative). My grandma lived with her father-in-law and mother-in-law at that time. My husband recalled that the thing he remembered most was that my grandma could not move and her stool was dry. My father-in-law used his hands to dig it out bit by bit without a trace of disgust on his face. I don’t think it’s surprising if a man is so filial to his mother, but he treats his mother-in-law like his own mother. This is so admirable. No matter how bad his temper is, this alone is enough to show that the old man is kind and kind. True and pure character. Nowadays, my father-in-law is old. If someone steps on his foot, he will say you stepped on my hand. When getting soy sauce, he often says he is getting jealous. When eating rice, he often says he is eating noodles. When he makes a mistake, he laughs to himself and says, "I have no brain." What I think of in my mind is noodles, but when I say it in my mouth, it turns into rice. In short, the big categories are good, the limb category will not be confused with the seasoning category, and the seasoning category will not be confused with the staple food category. One time he was hospitalized and refused to let me or his daughter urinate. He would rather hold it in and wait for his mother-in-law or my husband. This summer, my son was temporarily unable to go to his place because he was ill. My father-in-law wanted to take photos of his grandson every day. The husband then went to pick them up to live at home, but the father-in-law said nothing and said that it would be inconvenient for my daughter-in-law to live with you in the summer, so you should go alone, old lady. In the end, like a dragonfly touching water, it came and then left. My husband sometimes complains that his father-in-law's integrity has offended many people. Otherwise, he would have been a big leader based on his qualifications, and he would have a bright future. I know that although he is joking, there is always some regret. In fact, it's great to be upright. It's rare to see such people nowadays. We are guarding a rare species. Lin Zhengying's "Zhong Kui Marries His Sister" was being played on TV, and I suddenly realized that Zhong Kui in the opera

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