What do men want most from women?

1. Give him more respect

Women should not have power struggles with men in the family. You might as well give up family sovereignty to men, give your husband more self-esteem, and let him be an upright man in front of others, at home and outside. Let him feel that he is a man all the time, proud and glorious. Never let your heroic husband become short-tempered and become a "doormat" or "a loser." Men are the top of a woman's head and the backbone of the family. This position cannot be replaced by women. Therefore, a good woman should always give her husband more self-esteem, so that her husband can straighten his back and be a great man.

2. Give him more trust

The big one is that men have their own careers, and the small one is that men have to support their families. For the sake of home, they have to work constantly outside, and they have to deal with all kinds of people of different genders, different ages, and different identities.

As a wife, you must fully trust your husband. You don’t have to be suspicious of which woman your husband has spoken to. You don’t have to worry about why he never comes home. If he says he is busy, you just believe that he is true. Don't doubt that he is lying to you. Even if you call him and hear that he is in a high-end hotel where he is singing and dancing, you have to firmly believe that he is just socializing normally and not looking for something fancy. As a wife, you should not be suspicious, let alone accuse your husband. You must firmly believe that your husband is just having fun outside, and he will always love you in the end.

3. Give him more tolerance

For you to be tolerant, it is mostly because your husband has shortcomings, mistakes, or has done something sorry for you. For me, this tolerance is easier said than done. Because if you want to be tolerant, you must first be calm and rational.

Women are mostly emotional. If something goes wrong, they can't control their feelings and show off their capriciousness and temper. In addition, a woman's belly is not broad enough. Whenever her husband feels sorry for her, she thinks that she is the most unfortunate person in the world, the biggest victim, and the most painful person. For this reason, they insist on seeking justice for themselves because of their grievances, and even make trouble even more serious. Little do they know that doing so will only force the husband to embark on a ruthless path.

He who knows the current affairs is a hero. Even if your husband has really done something sorry for you, you must think calmly, weigh the pros and cons, and control the degree of dispute with your husband. The so-called needle is hidden in the cotton, and softness is used to overcome hardness. As a wife, you might as well give your husband a little more forgiveness and tolerance. Your tolerance will move him and make him feel guilty. Only guilt can atone; only gratitude can repay.

4. Give him more care

Caring for a man is not just about giving him plenty of food and clothing, the most important thing is to care about his inner world. To fully understand what your husband needs and what he really likes. Giving in to what others like does not mean blindly accommodating, but allowing the husband to truly realize his wishes and values.

If a woman never understands her husband in her life, she is truly a sad woman.

If you are a woman, you say what your husband wants to say, do what your husband wants to do, and you let him get whatever your husband wants. I think my husband will never go out to find satisfaction.

Communications between people are mainly heart-to-heart communication, especially between husband and wife. Mental connection depends not only on the tacit understanding between two people, but more importantly, on the woman's insight into the man's inner world. To be prophetic, a woman needs keen observation, careful understanding and timely spiritual collision.

5. Give him more understanding

Men also have their own hardships and difficulties. In particular, men play an important role in the family in carrying on the family line and honoring their ancestors. They are bound to have more responsibility than women. Responsibilities and obligations. As a wife, you must learn to understand your husband. When a woman marries a man, you must remember that you are not only marrying him as a single person, but also the entire background behind this man. You must take the initiative to regard yourself as an important member of this big family, fulfill your responsibilities seriously, and do not care about personal gains and losses. In fact, everyone in the same family gets the same thing, but once it is lost, it is the loss of the entire family.

To understand your husband is to give him a stepping stone to overcome obstacles on the road; to understand your husband is to give him an umbrella to protect him from the wind and rain. To understand your husband is to give him more sympathy; to give him more pity; to give him more support.