Nowadays, cohabitation before marriage is the norm. If two people "relate on the premise of marriage", then cohabitation is equivalent to a trial marriage. Such cohabitation is related to future happiness. Generally speaking, if two people break up or divorce, the common reasons are "incompatible personalities" and "no common language". These two can actually be known through many details. When living together, the most important thing to do is to pay attention to some details to avoid "marrying the wrong person" in the future.

1. Both parents

If his parents still treat him as a child, I hope you will coax him as much as he does, and he also enjoys the treatment of being a son, but yours Motherhood is not that strong, and there will be a lot of friction in the future; if both parents don't get along well, it will be difficult to achieve even superficial harmony, and it will become a problem; if you don't like his parents, or he can't stand your parents, it will also will become a hidden danger to future happiness.

2. How to spend your days off

If you like to sleep in on your days off, but he prefers to get up early to clean the house, and he will have to quarrel with you. A quarrel is inevitable. Only parents can tolerate the friction caused by the difference in waking up time; on the other hand, if the other person is indecisive and can't decide what to do together on weekends, or on the contrary, always makes rough decisions about what to do, it will cause unhappiness. .

But this is easier to solve. Both parties can set a rule. For example, Saturday is the girl's birthday and Sunday is the boy's birthday. On the girl's birthday, girls should be given priority and they should listen to girls in everything. vice versa.

3. Whether a consensus can be reached in the discussion about children

Be sure to discuss this topic in depth and repeatedly before marriage, so as to know whether the other party's ideas are consistent with your own general direction. For example, whether one wants children and the other does not want children; one wants cramming education, the other wants to develop personality, etc.

4. How to use money

One saves and the other wastes. For example, when receiving the utility bill every month, the party who may have saved will complain:

5. Household affairs

In fact, it not only includes the question of who should do how much housework, but also some trivial matters that need to be paid attention to: For example, one person likes to throw things around, and the clothes hangers are almost the same distance from each other; one person likes to keep everything, and the other person likes to keep everything. Dispose of a magazine as rubbish after reading it; even details as small as squeezing out toothpaste add up to something big. Such details often become the trigger for a big quarrel.

Other details of life that need to be paid attention to include: TV remote control rights; diet (noise while eating; whether you drink too much; whether you continue to eat or throw away the overnight dishes...); especially those who are buying cars now. More and more, a new question arises: When you are driving, does he always provide guidance from the side (long-winded)? Does he always want you to drive his route? It seems that men who have learned to remain silent internally are becoming more and more rare these days.

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