Sexual mental health in couples' life is mainly reflected in two aspects: First, both couples, especially newlyweds, may have different requirements and understandings of sexual life due to various reasons, which is very normal. . Each other should understand, respect, cooperate with and gradually adapt to each other, and should not ignore each other's feelings and psychological endurance, act too hastily, and impose things on others. Secondly, you must pay attention to maintaining a good mood and emotional state, and maintain the integrity of your personality in your married life. This is very important to maintain the subject's healthy psychology and good personality.

In fact, many contents in sexual life also reflect people's cultural upbringing, ideological quality, and psychological quality. In the sexual life of couples, any behavior that leads to and strengthens the formation and development of the subject's abnormal psychology, although it is likely not harmful to the third party and society, reflects the unhealthy psychological requirements and habits of the subject. This bad mentality should be corrected by constantly cultivating sentiments, improving self-cultivation, and cultivating lofty beliefs.

Many reasons may hinder healthy psychosexual development. For example, excessive narcissism, irritable personality traits, long-term suppressed psychological desires that need to be vented, potential masochistic and sadistic desires, bad friends, the influence of pornographic culture, etc. Some of these factors may act as subconscious minds and play a role in unhealthy behaviors. It works under the influence of inducements; some may act as inducements to activate potential adverse psychological factors and externalize them into human behavior in different forms.

Not paying attention to sexual mental health will lead to many adverse consequences: it can destroy the relationship between the couple, make one party avoid and resist sexual life, and no longer want to gradually adapt to the other party. It is possible that the female party will develop sexual frigidity, and the male party will become sexually apathetic. If one party suffers from premature ejaculation and impotence, it may cause the entire personality characteristics to change, produce abnormal psychology, and even produce more serious consequences.