Society is changing rapidly, giving sex and love a different look. Sometimes it feels like love is becoming more and more free, but at the same time it feels like love is becoming more and more difficult. People are becoming more open to sex, and sex Life is getting less and less. The truth may require us to know more about the psychology of sexual life to explain it.

So, what cool facts about gender psychology you don’t know? Take a look!

First, men mostly use dating apps for hookups

There has always been a saying about dating apps that men use dating apps to hook up, while women use dating apps out of boredom. Psychological research shows that there are mainly several types of people with different purposes, such as hooking up, hooking up, To seek intimacy, to feel good about themselves, or to kill boring time, research has found that men use dating apps to hook up, while women use dating apps to feel good about themselves.

Second, it is really easy for men to misunderstand that women are sending sexual dates to them

Holding hands while walking, kissing on the street, and having an appointment at home at night are all relatively normal social ways. Whether you can accurately interpret the other person's purpose is very important in communication. Research has found that men are more likely to have misunderstandings when it comes to sexual appointments. In the context of the opposite sex, in many cases men misjudge women's true purpose, while women's judgment is more accurate. Under normal circumstances, they can always accurately understand what men want.

Third, about half of people are thinking about others during sex

A survey shows that at least half of men think about others when having sex, and many think about close friends or partners during sex. The people who appear most frequently in sexual dreams generally have had sexual relations with the dreamer himself. More than half of men and women will dream about their early lovers. Some people think this is infidelity, while others think this is just a way to enjoy sex. It may seem like a normal dream, but if you dream about the same person every time, it may be a sign of a deeper problem. In addition, it should be noted that if the sexual dream is closer and better to the current feeling, but makes the sexual body feel alienated, then the sexual dream may just be a way to escape from certain things.

Fourth, people who have more sex have higher incomes

Sex not only relieves stress, the oxytocin released during sex can reduce pain and help improve immunity and hormones. Research has found that older people who have a regular sex life not only have a good mental state, but also perform well in aspects such as verbal expression and visual recognition, which shows that sex life helps the cognitive ability of the elderly. Another survey found that there is a certain relationship between the frequency of sexual life and income. People who have sex four times a week have higher incomes, of course, compared to people who have sex less frequently per week.

In short, the long-term life of husband and wife gradually reduces their passion, while responsibilities and obligations are more important, which makes sex life more boring and affects the relationship between husband and wife. After understanding the above psychology, We also understand why there are so many extramarital affairs, so we should improve the sex life of couples, so as to help maintain the relationship between husband and wife.