Nowadays, when it comes to falling in love, many girls like to find older men. They believe that older men are mature and stable and have a stable source of income. Old man, is he really that good? What can an old man give you and what can't he give you? It's better to find out clearly before falling into it.

Like Seaweed in "Snail House" falling in love with an old man?

These days, there are old women who earnestly teach the younger generation to "prevent swine flu in the morning and old men at night", but there are some people who are happy to provoke old men. There are news reports that female college students want to marry a divorced man in their 50s just to have a house, a car and savings.

It seems that swine flu is easy to prevent, but it is not easy to prevent old men. As long as you exercise more and get vaccinated, swine flu will probably not pose a life threat; but for older men, it is often difficult to prevent it.

The older a man gets, the more mature and charming he becomes. These common sense of life accumulated through experience are usually very charming in the eyes of unexperienced women, so it is easy for them to start to ignite the flame of admiration and then love.

Most old men have successful careers, own houses, cars and savings. Although money is not everything, nothing is impossible without money. Compared with a young and sunny but poor young man compared with an old man with wealth, the old man will undoubtedly be more attractive. Besides, it’s hard to find a job now. If you marry a man who owns a house, a car and security, you don’t have to worry about being exposed to wind and sun, not having enough to eat, and turning into a yellow-faced woman who rushes for life too early.

In addition, old men have a sense of responsibility. "Responsibility", what a fertile word! What woman doesn’t like a responsible and responsible man? Old men have learned to think rationally about life and are more willing to take responsibility. Contribute to society, support parents, educate children, make families happy, make life sweet, and make love pure... Listen to the words of a female college student: "He loves me as much as he takes care of a child. I feel very comfortable with him." , I don’t have to worry about anything, he will arrange it well.” A man who is mature and stable, loves women like taking care of children, and has a house and a car in the right way, is very consistent with happiness no matter how you look at it. The elements of marriage...

Is it really so beautiful to marry an old man?

We conducted a small-scale survey among women in the 1980s who married older men. They got their wish and married and lived with older men who were about 10 years older than themselves. Is life really perfect and without regrets? Are old men worth loving? Unexpectedly, the results of the investigation caused complaints and bitterness from many young wives. Sisters and sisters, there are 10 major misunderstandings about marrying an old man. See it clearly before you think twice.

Myth 1: Old men must be tolerant?

Respondent Ku Shui: Is there any mistake? He is as stubborn as a cow and never bows his head first. I often turn around and tolerate him.

Angelina (25 years old): When I first decided to marry my old man, the first image that came to my mind was that of a Lolita-like willful person who does whatever he wants. I am 12 years older, so of course he would let me go. But this is not the case. After every quarrel, I would sit on the sofa and watch TV with my lips pouted, hoping that he would come out of the study and coax me.

But every time after the quarrel, he would stay alone in front of the computer to read his files, continue to do his things, and ignore me, thinking that I was just throwing a childish tantrum. You will be fine if you know how to do it. Every time, I was asked to bow my head to him first and tolerate his deep-rooted stubbornness for more than 30 years. And every little mistake I made would be criticized endlessly by him in an old-fashioned way. I think I always have One day there will be an uprising.

Myth 2: Older men must be more mature?

Respondent Ku Shui: No way! The man is more childish than his young wife.

Senna (23 years old): My husband is 10 years older than me. Logically speaking, he should be mature and sensible. However, because he is an only child and grew up in the pampering of his parents and sisters, he does whatever he wants. Because I'm used to it, even after getting married, I'm still extremely naive, with simple thoughts, sometimes I can't turn around, and I don't understand the ways of the world. He likes to watch football. Whenever there is a football match that conflicts with the program I like to watch, he will not only refuse to let me, but will also act coquettishly and grab the TV remote control.

Ask him to do some cleaning, and he will bargain with you for a long time. If you have to wipe your face to get angry with him, he will admit his mistake with a playful smile and do as you say. Sometimes you can get angry with him. You have been angry for a long time and even got mad to death. He doesn’t even know where he is in the room. You still play with him. Suddenly you raise your head and ask: Hey, my wife, you are so weird today. Why are you so weird? People stand on the balcony for so long? Are you too full after eating? One sentence made people laugh and cry.

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Myth 3: Men must take care of others?

Respondent Ku Shui: Come on, God testifies that I have always taken care of him.

Echo (24 years old): My husband is 34 years old. We have been together for nearly two years from the time we started living together to getting married. In the past two years, I have taken care of him in everything from daily life to food, clothing, housing and transportation.

He never takes the initiative to buy groceries early after get off work. He insists on crossing his legs at home and surfing the Internet. When I get off work, he rushes to buy groceries and go back to cook. After eating, he throws the bowl and goes to see television. Sometimes he insists on washing the dishes and he will do it. After three times, five times and two times, it will be done in 5 minutes. All the dishes and chopsticks are still dripping and feel greasy. I don't like it, so I have to do it myself. trip.

As soon as something is not at hand, he will immediately call his wife at the top of his voice, "Honey, where is my ashtray?" Wife, where are my socks? Wife, where is the book I was reading yesterday? ...In fact, those things that he yelled that he couldn't find were most likely on the table in front of him, but he was used to you taking care of them and was too lazy to bend down to take a look.

Myth 4: Old men must not be bothered?

Respondent Ku Shui:: The older he gets, the more he becomes more carefree. Behind his sweet words and glib tone, I don’t know which words are sincere and which words he habitually says to all girls.

Sansan (23 years old): The first time I fell in love was because my first boyfriend of three years fell in love with someone else. Later I met my husband who was 10 years older than me, so I married him quickly. , because he thinks that if he can eat this young grass like me, he will calm down in the future and will not be like my ex-boyfriend.

Every time I ask my husband if he loves me, he will say smoothly, baby, you are the one I love most. It's so smooth that one suspects that these words are familiar by heart due to habit. He believed that he was very popular with women, and he was always at ease among the flowers and grass. He could catch a handful of confidante like crucian carp crossing the river.

He has rich experience among women, and has countless romances on his fingers. Why do you think men nowadays become more popular as they get older? To him now, I am his precious tender grass, but what about after two years? What about after 3 years? Young grass sprouts up one after another, and everyone stares at the old man with burning eyes, treating the old man like a sweet steamed bun, and you are simply unable to guard against it.

Myth 5: Old men must be very delicate?

Respondent Ku Shui: Don’t think that all old men are Tony Leung! Wrinkles, belly... not to mention This article comes from adult.6kmall.com and is published by netizens. This site only quotes it for reference. It does not mean that this site agrees with the views of the article. If you believe that the content and intellectual property rights of this article infringe upon your interests, please contact us.