Don’t get me wrong, I am not a housewife, but I think that to be a perfect woman is to do this well. But now I look back and see, are the married girlfriends around me always focusing on men? One premise is that they all have their own jobs, which cannot be called careers, but they still take their work seriously. It is inevitable that their work will be affected by trivial matters at home, but they do not actively give up their pursuit of work. I think they are not as dependent on their husbands as I thought. Maybe their husband's salary card allows them to manage the household with more peace of mind, but they also spend their own money very generously on their children, husband, and even themselves. They will be happy when their husbands accompany them. Without their husbands, they will go shopping, take their children out to play, and go shopping in the supermarket when they have time. If they don't have the strength to carry heavy objects, they will be beaten. If they are tired of raising children alone, they will ask their parents and family for help.

So, why should I do this? Why do I think that only little women who surround men are the happiest? Thinking of Zhang Ailing’s words, she bought every nail in her house. She has never enjoyed Hu Lancheng's care, so she has a deep regret. Women like to be pampered and dependent on a man. If she had never experienced this, she would feel that she was very pitiful and had never enjoyed love. However, I personally feel more and more that relying on someone is not necessarily a good feeling. Whether you are gentle or not really has nothing to do with whether you are weak or whether a man is strong. Gentleness is equally important to men and women. Gentleness is a kind of consideration and care.

Being independent is actually a kind of happiness. Women who are dependent on others and put their happiness and pain on others are actually depressed. Because their self will be buried in the expectations and needs of others. I once read a story about what women want most, and the answer I found was surprising: to control your own destiny. This kind of need is somewhat soft when it comes to men, but it is so profound when it comes to women.

When I received these words from my friend, I felt completely liberated. I no longer want to think hard about how to get a man's lifelong love and care, compare myself with those seemingly happy women, and desperately change myself to find this ending. If a man insists on making others pay too much to satisfy himself, I really don’t know if we can spend a lifetime with such a person.

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