Have you ever had such an experience? You and he were enjoying the passion and lingering love in bed. Suddenly the phone rang, and your mother's "Hello" made him jump from the bed to the sofa. He was really frightened. I jumped a lot and couldn't recover for a long time. Although men always show that they have the natural ability to be fearless in the face of danger and will not panic in the face of anything, but men are also human beings, and they will sometimes tremble. Dr. Mike Schiller, a sexologist in Chicago, said: "When something threatens their self-esteem, men will panic and fear, and sex is the foundation for men to establish and maintain self-esteem." So during sex, if a man suddenly If you feel panicked and overwhelmed, you must be doing something wrong. So, what usually triggers a man’s sexual panic button, and how can you avoid this embarrassing moment?

I’m afraid you won’t respond. Sex is the most emotionally and physically intimate relationship between lovers. Communication is a dialogue between the spirit and the body at the same time. When making love, men always like to hear a few words of encouragement, or hear and see your clear response, whether it is your voice or body movements. If you keep silent and let him sweat profusely, as if you are leaving him in the sun, he will feel that your silence is a kind of protest, dissatisfaction or carelessness. Peter, a 30-year-old writer, said: "Sometimes my girlfriend and I suddenly become silent while having sex. I think I must have done something wrong. So I start to think wildly and don't understand where I went wrong, which makes me completely confused. Not in the mood anymore. "Some men say that when a woman's body no longer moves with their rhythm, they feel scared, like swimming desperately in an unknown depth of the sea. Mike, a 27-year-old teacher, said: "Sometimes we choose a good posture and feel completely integrated with each other without reservation, but she suddenly stops moving. I feel very strange and just want to call it a day." Do you believe it? Sometimes it's just your neglect that makes your man lose interest in an instant. Dr. Schiller said: "Deep in the heart of a man is always worried about the woman who cannot satisfy him. If he cannot understand your reaction in time, he will immediately doubt himself. The best way is to truly express your feelings. If you Like, just let out a happy murmur or tap him on the shoulder. If shouting isn't your style, just sway to his rhythm, like dancing a waltz at his pace. The rotation will be the source of his motivation. ”

Why prepare so many contraceptives? Buying dozens of food and toilet paper from the supermarket proves that you can survive, but don’t carry so many contraceptives. A home should at least be a relatively stable place. Jack, 24, said: "When I first met her, everything went smoothly. Until one time I asked her if she had any condoms. She took out dozens of condoms of various brands from the drawer of the bedside table and asked me Like the texture, the smell and the size. I almost fainted. It's not a big deal to have a few condoms on hand, but it's enough to open a brothel like hers. "It's not that only men should prepare these things, it's just that you should be careful about keeping your inventory. . From a man’s perspective, “If I see her with a small box with some protective measures inside, I will think that she is very responsible for herself. On the contrary, if I see her with a big box, I will think of how many men she has been with.” Together?"

No matter what men say about menstrual phobia, they will lose their feelings when they see blood. Mark, a 25-year-old welder, said: "One time when I was having sex with her, I noticed that she was bleeding. She had just had her menstruation. It seemed like I had been hit hard and I couldn't stand it anymore." Dr. Schiller said: " Many men think blood is unclean and harmful. If you don't know how he will react, it is best to tell him in advance: 'Dear, I just had my period, do you think it will be a hindrance?'" He will definitely be very grateful to you. Being straightforward also avoids possible friction.

Having heard about your past, you have many things to share while lying in bed: telling stories, getting massages, and eating ice cream. But don't tell him how great your past boyfriend was in bed. Jerry, a 30-year-old scientist, said: "Once I was with my girlfriend, and she told me that her ex-boyfriend looked very sexy, and she told me in detail, even where there was a hemorrhoid. Why should I know this? What? Later, every time I had sex with her, another shadow would appear in my mind. I always felt that other men were stronger than me and could please her better. "You should talk to him like a good friend or a parent. It is enough to let him know that you have been in love before. As for the details, just keep them in your stomach.

Don’t let him touch your vital parts. Most men like to kiss a woman’s body, including the most private parts. If you refuse him, it will only arouse his suspicion. Jason, a 30-year-old filmmaker, said: "Every time I tried to get close to her key parts, she always pushed me back. I was very hurt." Peggy explained: "It's not surprising, men like to do things that are novel to women. When a woman refuses to accept it, a man will feel that she is actually still keeping her most precious things from him and is unwilling to give herself completely to him. "Whether you are embarrassed or not in the mood, you have to choose the best. way to communicate with him. Don't push him aside or refuse him outright, try touching him passionately and naturally guide him to have sex the way you like. Do you always find an excuse to hide in the bathroom to touch up your makeup when you are on a date? Do you know what men think about this? Mitch, a 29-year-old graduate student said: "The first time I went on a date with her, she ran to the bathroom. I was outside After waiting for a long time, I even finished reading a magazine, but she still hadn't come out. I started to wonder what she was doing in there. Did she fall? Another 15 minutes passed before she came back, and nothing seemed to happen from then on. Everything about me feels wrong from now on." The only way to avoid letting his mind wander is if you're in the bathroom getting dressed or getting ready, don't take it too far. And it's better to tell him what you're doing.

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