A harmonious sex life is crucial for couples to enjoy the pleasure brought by sex and increase the intimacy between husband and wife. However, the quality of sexual life is affected because one party has many misunderstandings about sex. I hope you don't have these misunderstandings.

What are the misunderstandings about sex?

1. Wearing a double-layer condom is safer

Many men think that wearing a double condom can ensure 100% no pregnancy. In fact, this is wrong. Because the rubber rubs against each other, it can cause rupture, and sperm can quickly enter the body and lead to female pregnancy.

2. A strong feeling is an orgasm

When women reach orgasm, they will experience intense pleasure, such as trembling limbs, rapid breathing and accelerated heartbeat, continuous contraction of pelvic muscles, or temporary confusion. But everyone’s body is different, and their ability to respond to sex varies in many ways. Even the same person has different orgasmic responses in different places, periods and positions. As long as a woman feels happy and comfortable, it means she has reached orgasm.

3. Use baby oil as a lubricant

The ingredients in baby oil are indeed not very harmful to the body, but they cannot be used as lubricants. Because the oil contained in condoms can cause damage or breakage, increasing the risk of unintended pregnancy. In addition, oily ingredients cannot dissolve in the skin and can increase women's discomfort. In addition, oil may also adhere to the vaginal wall, affecting vaginal secretion and cleanliness. Therefore, try not to use petroleum jelly-based oil lubricants like baby oil. You can choose water-based lubricants.

4. Women’s sex life is not tiring

Some people think that men consume a lot of physical energy during sex, while women do less activity, so they don’t feel tired. In fact, women are in a passive state during sex, and they are even more tired than men. If a woman does not feel tired, it means she has not yet reached orgasm. When a woman reaches orgasm, certain physical and psychological changes will occur, such as increased heartbeat or muscle tension throughout the body, which can consume a large amount of calories.

5. The longer the sexual life, the better

Many couples think that the longer the sexual life, the better. In fact, this is wrong, because female sexual behavior has a time limit. Within an appropriate period of time, male stimulation will increase the level of excitement. The longer the time, the less and less the level of excitement will become. Research has found that women’s sexual intercourse can generally be completed within 10 to 15 minutes. It does not mean that the longer the time, the more satisfied they will be. If the time is too long, both husband and wife will feel tired, which is not conducive to the pleasure of sexual life.

Warm reminder

Couples should not fall into the above misunderstandings about sex life and learn more common sense about sex. As long as there is no need for reproduction, contraceptive measures should be taken and the number of abortions should be reduced.