1. Brings great psychological pressure to the woman

The occurrence of premarital sex is sometimes initiated by the woman, and more often the man demands that the woman cater to or cannot resist it. However, the psychological state before and after is very different. It causes psychological pressure on the woman such as fear, inferiority, conflict, etc. Come. The survey found that 27.3% of people were afraid of getting pregnant after having sex, 21.3% were very regretful, and 21% were afraid of damaging their reputation. When undergoing abortion, 48.4% were afraid of the pain of the operation, 17.3% were afraid to tell their parents, 13% did not care, 62.3% were afraid of sequelae after the operation, 20.7% were afraid that it would be difficult to find another partner after a breakup, and 17% did not care.

2. Cause serious impact on the woman’s health

If you want to conceive without wanting to have a baby, the remedy is abortion. For those who have sex before marriage, there are three adverse consequences of abortion: First, the body cannot recover normally. In order not to let others know, some young women do not rest after the operation but go to work or study immediately, which seriously affects the recovery of their health and even leads to heavy bleeding; secondly, it is easy to damage the reproductive organs and cause accidents. Some young people do not dare to go to the hospital for abortion, so they go to those quack doctors, who perform the surgery under extremely unscientific conditions, causing great damage to their genitals. Some even die, and some are humiliated by quack doctors with poor quality. Both physically and mentally were devastated; third, it caused many complications. Medical research and clinical data show that abortion can cause: scanty menstruation, amenorrhea, frigidity, infertility, and subsequent pregnancy can easily lead to miscarriage, endometriosis, inflammation of the reproductive organs, placenta previa, and placenta accreta. , uterine perforation, postpartum hemorrhage, and even cervical cancer.

3. Cause the development trend of the love relationship that is not conducive to the woman

When premarital sex has not occurred, the two parties in love are in a relationship of mutual equality and free choice. But after it occurs, the situation is different: First, the attraction between the two parties gradually weakens than in the past. I originally thought that the relationship between the sexes was very mysterious, but now it has become "just like that". The brilliance and charm of the past are no longer eye-catching and full of strength; secondly, the woman's chances of making another choice have diminished. It turns out that the man is very accommodating to the woman. After the woman committed herself to him, he thought that "she can no longer live without me" and "I am the only one who belongs to me", so he began to treat the woman casually and dominate her at will. On the contrary, because the woman has given her virginity to him and "is already his", but she is also worried that the man will change his original intention and is afraid of being abandoned, so she repeatedly accommodates and tolerates the man, even if she finds that he has major shortcomings. Now that things have come to this, we have no choice but to get married, which has delayed a life-long event. The survey shows that after sexual intercourse, 10.7% of women want to take revenge on the man, and 21.3% of women regret it but cannot get rid of the man. This is the reason; third, the man begins to be suspicious of the woman. Engels once said: "Sex is exclusive." This is true for women, and men are no exception. Men always hope that their girlfriends will only trust themselves and be open to them. Once they have sex with her, they will start to doubt the woman, "Will she do the same to others?" ? "If the woman has dated several partners in the past, this suspicion will increase, which may lead to the termination of the relationship or disharmony in married life.

4. Casting a cloud over the wedding

A wedding is one of the happiest events in life, but if you have had sex before marriage or the bride is pregnant, such a wedding will lose the joy it deserves and will be cast into a dark cloud. As far as newlyweds are concerned, double-talking is nothing new and is just a formality; people around you will also comment and look down on it, thinking it is "indecent". Although some things in traditional concepts are harsh, it is not easy to suddenly reverse the "national conditions" and abandon traditional culture.

5. Causes a lot of unhappiness in married life

Premarital sex is often carried out in a state of fear and "sense of guilt" for fear of being discovered by others. In the absence of a good pregnancy and living environment, it is not only difficult for both parties to experience sexual pleasure. Instead, it leaves a painful sexual experience, which can easily cause sexual dysfunction in one of the couple, such as frigidity, impotence, etc., making the sexual life of the couple difficult to achieve harmony. There is no legal guarantee for premarital sex. If a woman suffers from being abandoned, she will hold a grudge against the man. After marriage, if you complain about this to your husband, and the husband is aggrieved, he will find a "heartbroken man" to ask for justice, causing disputes, illegal accidents, and even getting burned, leading to family misfortune. Premarital sex is currently showing a trend of increasing numbers and younger and younger people. It has become one of the social issues of widespread concern around the world. In the past ten years, according to large-scale surveys at home and abroad, the degree of social recognition of premarital sex is not all allowed in foreign countries. The proportion is between 60-70%. Although it has been loosened in China, the proportion is only 30.5%.

6. The sweetness of the wedding night is forever lost

A wedding night is enchanting. Both men and women have received the wonderful blessings from relatives and friends. All their sexual behaviors not only meet the needs of the emotional development of the two people, follow their natural desires, but are also recognized by society and protected by the law. At that time, you and his spirit and body were united, which was fresh, mysterious, and always worth remembering. Someone said: "This is an exciting and fascinating moment." At such a moment, all the last veils about men and women will be unveiled, and all mysterious legends about men and women will be revealed. confirmed. It's just a secret, so we have to be careful. So that the memory of the wedding night will always be engraved in the monument of each other's hearts. The sacred wedding night will also greatly evoke the sense of mission and responsibility of both men and women, allowing them to understand their responsibilities and obligations in future life and lay the foundation for building a stable and harmonious family in the future. This is the sacred "wedding night" The most important mission.

However, for both parties who have premarital sex, the "wedding night" has been lost forever. "Living together" has no sense of novelty or mystery to them. Marriage has become routine for them, and has even become dispensable and useless.

The cohabitation relationship lays the foundation for protecting the woman's legitimate rights and interests in the future - you must know that cohabitation before marriage is voluntary. No one will force you with a knife, and it will not be recognized by society or protected by the law. If your legitimate interests are violated in the future, we can only sympathize with you, but cannot help you.

You must know that what society and the law recognize and protect is his legal wife. Those men and women who have sex before marriage are sneaky and have torn off the last layer of veil between men and women very hastily, but there is no condition for you to taste the sweetness of love carefully. Their sexual desires come and go in a hurry, leaving them with nothing but some raw excitement and a heavy sense of guilt.

7. It will cause many conflicts and disputes

Since premarital sex may result in abandonment, pregnancy out of wedlock, humiliation, resentment, revenge, exposure, punishment and many other consequences, this often leads to certain accidents.