Sex is a very beautiful thing for people to enjoy life. However, there are many people in life who are not harmonious in dealing with sexual issues between couples and suffer mental torture. The reason? This is because they have violated some taboos about sexual activities between couples in family life. So in family life, what do couples fear when having sex?

First, fear, sexual suspicion, and causing trouble

Liu Jun is the business manager of a company. He is young and handsome, and is good at public relations. He is resourceful and capable of doing things. The company often sends him on business trips, which makes his wife worry a lot, fearing that his handsome face will be seduced by other women outside. Therefore, his wife took the following proactive "measures" against him: on the one hand, whenever Liu was about to go on a business trip, he always took the initiative to express her love before the business trip. The first intention was to express his true love and bind Liu Jun with his affection; I wanted to "feed" Liu Jun before going out, just in case he acted on a whim and went off the rails. On the other hand, whenever Mr. Liu comes back from a business trip, he is even more enthusiastic. He often can’t wait to have a heart-to-heart time with Mr. Liu. The first reason is that a little separation is better than a newlywed, because of the “sexual interest”; the second reason is that it can be “tested”. Whether her husband has failed her outside the home, although this method is not scientific and is just a feeling. If Liu Jun did not perform well when he came back, she would wonder in her heart: Did her husband have an affair while away?

Once, it was already midnight when Liu Jun returned because she missed her train, and the traveling for days was too much. I was tired, and after a simple wash I wanted to sleep. But his wife still had to go through her sex test procedures. Liu Jun unintentionally lost his wife's interest, so he forced himself to have sex. It was obvious that he was not energetic enough, which led to the final failure. Liu's wife was displeased, and the suspicion that had been hidden in her heart for a long time suddenly turned into jealousy and burst into flames. Seeing that his wife was not considerate at all and actually suspected that he was having an affair, Liu Jun suddenly became furious when he thought that he was not working so hard for this family. For a moment, the two of them were going back and forth, quarreling and arguing.

Afterwards, the two fell into a cold war. They looked at each other coldly for a long time, and the warmth of the family was gone. Liu Jun's job still had to be paid, but everything had changed, and the marriage building was in danger.

Comment: As a wife, you should trust your husband and your husband’s sexual morality. This is also a concrete manifestation of self-confidence. If there is no reason to doubt the husband's behavior, it will only cause unreasonable stimulation and psychological harm to him, thus causing the gap between husband and wife. Moreover, mutual trust between husband and wife is the minimum requirement for a marriage relationship and the foundation of love. If the foundation is shaken, everything else will become meaningless and the marriage will face disintegration.

Second fear: Sexual jokes go too far

Girl Ayan has a cheerful personality and likes to joke. On their wedding night, after she undressed and went to bed with her groom, A-xiang, her eyes were slightly closed and her face was flushed. She was eager to welcome the soul-crushing moment of happiness. However, she never thought that her husband A-xiang's thing was really unsatisfactory and about to explode. , the first time sex failed like this. Her first expectation suddenly came to nothing, and naturally she felt a little dissatisfied. But seeing her husband Axiang panting and looking embarrassed that he had done something wrong, she suddenly felt funny, "I didn't expect that a man like you would be so careless in doing this." Level." The joke made Axiang feel so nervous that he was still embarrassed. His face was flushed, and he suddenly felt short of breath and wanted to get under the bed. Later, every time they had sex, poor Axiang would unconsciously think of what she had said. She was always nervous and often defeated. After a long time, she really seemed powerless and suffered from severe premature ejaculation. .

Actually, as an intellectual woman with a cheerful personality, Ayan understands that her husband is too nervous when he suffers from premature ejaculation. However, she did not expect that such a joke would cause such great mental pressure and serious consequences to her husband. Her married life has left a lingering shadow for a long time, and she really regrets it. Later, through the counseling and treatment of a psychiatrist and Ayan's tenderness and consideration, her husband Axiang finally regained his glory.

Comment: A wife should protect her husband’s sexual self-esteem, and be particularly careful not to overdo her sexual jokes. Although they do not intend to hurt their husbands, sometimes they inadvertently hurt their sexual self-esteem, which is absolutely unacceptable. Men's sexual psychology is so fragile, especially men's sexual self-esteem. A slight injury will cause unimaginable fatal injuries to them.

Three fears: sex should not be too far-fetched

Xiaoqiang has made a fortune in business in recent years. In order to prevent "men from becoming bad when they have money", my wife Xiaomei takes good care of her and takes great care of her, especially in the sexual life of husband and wife. She does not want to "sex smuggle" her husband because she cannot satisfy her sexually. "Leave excuses behind. Therefore, although Xiaomei was a little intolerable to Xiaoqiang's frequent requests for sex, she still supported it; sometimes she even tried to show her devotion to Xiaoqiang's favor, but when Xiaoqiang reached the peak of sexual pleasure, she was Physically and mentally exhausted, forced to smile.

Once, Xiaoqiang wanted to have sex while drunk, and she gently let him do it as usual. Perhaps because he was drunk, Xiaoqiang continued to have sex for a long time, but he still felt unsatisfied. He paused and started again, and so on for several rounds. Xiaomei was a little reluctant and didn't have much sexual desire. The strong discomfort and mental pain in her vagina finally made her angry and she resolutely refused him to invade again. From then on, Xiaomei felt a little frightened when she thought of that lovemaking. She no longer had sex with Xiaoqiang as she did before, and the original "harmony" between the couple no longer existed.

Comment: In reality, no matter how well-coordinated a couple is in their sexual life, there will be sexual differences of varying degrees. For example, one party has a strong sexual desire and wants to have sex frequently, while the other party wants to have sex once every few weeks. It is not advisable to exchange the humiliation of one party for the happiness of the other party. Scientifically and reasonably adjusting this sexual difference requires both husband and wife to be considerate of each other and to constantly explore and summarize in long-term sexual life practice.

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