I have long heard this saying: 99% of cats are called Mimi, 99% of men are lustful, and the remaining one may be a prude... Looking at ancient and modern times Many heroes, emperors and generals at home and abroad have perished and lost their lives because of lust. As the saying goes: "A hero has a hard time with a beautiful woman." Which man can guarantee that he will not be overwhelmed by the beauty of a beautiful woman? Which man can withstand the temptation of beauty? "Ten men have nine lusts", which really shows the erotic nature of men. It is precisely because of men's lust that women all over the world are in bloom and men all over the world are proud of themselves. Especially now that society is open and desires and individuality are prevalent, it is true that "the east wind blows, the drums of war beat, lustful affairs are not crimes." It is the dream of most married men to have some excitement and enjoy erotica outside of marriage. Once they have the opportunity, they can drink a few taels of wine to strengthen their courage and use their personal money to have an affair outside of marriage. The lustful nature of men really makes women worry. If they are not careful, the "sexual husband" at home will sleep with another woman. So, how can a married woman control her husband's "lustful" nature and help her husband resist the erotic temptations outside of marriage? First, we must insist on not being Xianglin’s wife. After a woman gets married, she discovers that her husband has a lot of problems, and she becomes like a mother-in-law, like Xianglin's wife, who likes to nag. If you nag about big things, you will also nag about small things; if you nag about bad things, you will also nag about good things; if you nag about nothing, you will nag even more when there is something going on, which makes a man restless. But there is only one person in the family, so the man has nowhere to hide or hide. He can accept it in one year, tolerate it in two years, cannot bear it in three years, and runs away in four years. Therefore, if you want men to stop running away, women should not be Xianglin’s wives. A man works hard outside, has been busy and tired for a day, and when he comes home, if a woman nags like Mrs. Xianglin, or if her nagging is full of the smell of gunpowder, then the home that is supposed to relax the body and mind becomes a cold battlefield. In fact, men most need to rely on women's warmth to relax themselves, and most need a family relationship to nourish their tired bodies and minds. If men's subconscious needs are not satisfied for a long time, other women may enter the man's inner world.

Second, we must insist on not being a yellow-faced woman. Women are animals that live in emotional illusions, but they are also very practical animals. Therefore, women during love show their charming side, but once they get married, they easily become casual and let the wind and frost of the years pass over their faces and their hair is messy. Her clothes are wrinkled and loose, she wears pajamas on the streets and slippers when traveling, she is nosy, and she knows how to curse. She has the image of a yellow-faced woman, with no charm or attraction at all. Of course, a woman's youth cannot last forever, but basic grooming and proper dressing are always necessary, and a basic image of self-cultivation is still needed. Marriage is by no means the watershed for a woman to become "yellow". If you want a man to not change his heart, a woman must first not change her "face". How can a man have extraneous thoughts when he has a lovely wife at home?

Third, insist on affirmation and praise. Men love to be sarcastic and women love to be picky. This is really a taboo between couples. For husbands and wives to be harmonious, "affirmation" is the magic weapon and "praise" is the secret recipe. Don't deny, use more affirmation, less criticism and more praise. No matter how bad a person is, there are advantages, not to mention the man you choose. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, not just before marriage, but also after marriage. Look more at the advantages, and men should praise them. Worship even. Men all have a hero complex in their bones and want to be admired by women, so it is not difficult to conquer a man. Praise him, worship him, and he will surrender under your skirt. When a man is successful, he needs a woman's praise and adoration; when a man is frustrated, he needs a woman's affirmation and encouragement. In this way, a man will always be your "baggage" and will never be left behind.

The fourth is to persist in tolerance and consideration. A man is like a big boy. No matter how successful he is or how powerful he is in the workplace, he is still fragile inside and needs a woman's consideration and tolerance. There are indeed many erotic temptations out there, but a gentle, considerate, tolerant and generous wife can not only detect clues about her husband's inner fluctuations, but also melt and hold her husband's heart with tenderness and sweetness. A man's lustful heart is not terrible, but what is terrible is that Women themselves have contributed to the situation. Many women who think they are very smart think that as long as they keep an eye on and manage their men, everything will be fine, so the so-called "wife control" came into being. Men have to report their whereabouts to women, and men have to ask women for money. On the surface, everything about men is under the control of women, but it is actually counterproductive. If a woman is tolerant, gives her husband full freedom, and is the noble person behind her husband, this is the smart way to capture a man's heart. The man is indeed a bit mean, and his rebellious psychology is at work. The more you control him, the more he runs away, thinking that the outside world is wonderful. In fact, if you let him go out and see, it turns out that it is better to be around him.

Men are power animals and sexual beings. They always want something new and exciting, but not all men are bad. When a man is seduced by eroticism, it is the wife who pushes her husband to the forefront of temptation, and other women take advantage of it. The best way to keep your husband away from erotic temptation is for a woman to be herself. If she catches her husband's heart, she will be vulnerable to all temptations. Of course, the key to whether a man can control his lust and resist the temptation of eroticism is himself. It is hopeless for such a man to be in a state of bliss even though his beloved wife is at home.

This article comes from adult.6kmall.com and is published by netizens. This site only quotes it for reference. It does not mean that this site agrees with the views of the article. If you believe that the content and intellectual property rights of this article infringe upon your interests, please contact us.