The development of condoms has evolved from practicality and beauty to refinement of functions, from simple and smooth male-style ones to various forms with particles, threads, colors, fluorescence, etc. on the surface, and even "condoms" specially designed to promote female orgasm. G-spot” set. For those of you who long for "happiness", don't think of "condoms" as a tiger descending from the mountain. In fact, using "condoms" reasonably and skillfully can create many more romantic stories.

1. Turn embarrassment into sexy foreplay

When an intimate relationship is at its peak, if it suddenly stops and you take out the condoms prepared in your pocket, take off your clothes and remove the packaging... it will really be a disgrace. Many people will feel that they are too clumsy at this time to put on this soft "raincoat", or they think that they are very horny, and they feel very embarrassed when they have to insert such a mechanical step when it is time to get to the topic. Ridiculous and helpless. Sometimes after this pause, the emotions cannot be connected, and the result will also affect the quality of sexual happiness this time.

In fact, if you do it properly, condoms can be an important part of wonderful foreplay. Sex education experts suggest that it is better to turn this activity of wearing a "raincoat" into an interesting episode and let your female partner put it on.

First, you need to confirm that the top of the "condom" is upward; then, gently pinch the airbag at the top to remove the air, and put the "condom" on the bottom of his "little brother" smoothly, and don't forget to give him the "condom" "Little brother" some gentle caressing to squeeze out the air bubbles in the "condom" to ensure that the "condom" will not break easily when you have sex. In addition, you can also try to put a few drops of water-soluble lubricant on his "little brother" first, and massage him lightly with both hands, so that he will be so excited that he forgets that he is preparing a "full set" of weapons. Of course be sure to be careful with your nails, otherwise you may inadvertently win the bid.

2. Turn trouble into natural flirting

Many people complain that wearing a "raincoat" doesn't feel good, that they don't feel intimate enough, or that they don't feel "manly" enough. In fact, this is just a minor trouble in "sex." The intimate contact between partners and the contact of sexual organs are only part of it. We can use it to divert our attention and make the "raincoat" feel comfortable.

There are various types of "condoms" on the market at present, including scented, granular, threaded, and special-shaped ones. You can prepare more to choose the type that suits you. You can also prepare some ordinary "condoms" before intimacy. For entertainment use in the play. Put the "condom" on the toothbrush and tease each other between partners; put the smallest "condom" on each finger to make it look like a five-finger glove, and then use this special glove to start exploring each other's bodies, and You can put a "condom" on your feet to cause trouble... During sex, let your husband put it on unconsciously in a relaxed atmosphere and start the romantic process.

Such "sex games" often have unexpected results, especially for couples who have been married for many years. They may have begun to get tired of the monotonous sex life, but they have not completely lost their confidence in sex. Easy and clever games can effectively help them regain their passion.

3. Turn regrets into safety for yourself

Human beings are flesh and blood and inevitably have physical discomforts, such as gynecological diseases in women, pregnancy, semen allergies in men, etc., or occasional ED in men. At this time, "condoms" become the best gift in life. In addition to ensuring safety, it is also an expression of "love" for your significant other. This kind of thoughtfulness is warmer and more practical than roses.

How to use the erotic massage stick

Use step one.

Place AA batteries into the battery holder as shown in the picture and close the battery back cover.

Use step two.

After turning on the power switch, gently touch the female vulva with the front end of the massage stick (the electric dildo will automatically rotate), allowing the vagina to naturally secrete love juice, or it can be used with lubricant.

Use step three.

If the vaginal lubrication is sufficient, you can perform thrusting and rotating movements.

Use step four.

If the angle is adjusted, the vibrator next to the electric dildo can stimulate the sensitive nerve area near the anus.

Middle-aged people should not resist sex toys

Young people are bold and avant-garde, trendy and fashionable, and fun has become an indispensable part of their sex life, so they are easy to accept sex toys. Some even give male and female simulation devices, sexy underwear and contraceptive products as gifts to their friends.

But not everyone is as open-minded as young people. Mrs. Wang has been married for 10 years, and her sex life has been consistent for ten years, with fixed times and fixed positions. Her husband wanted to change the boring sex life and adjust the interest of it, so he bought his wife a set of sexy underwear. And suggested that she watch a sex album. Who knew that the couple had a big quarrel because of this that night. Mrs. Wang insisted that most women would not watch pornographic movies, let alone wear such disgusting clothes, only those bad women would do this.

Li Jihong said that sex toys are like condiments for sex, adding a little color and teasing desire. As long as both parties are willing, using sex toys reasonably and safely can improve the quality of sex. Why not? In fact, singles, divorced people, people who have been separated for a long time, people with sexual dysfunction, unharmonious sex life, and people with disabilities can all use sex toys to obtain "sexual happiness".

Scientific use of sex toys

Ms. Lin has always been curious about adult products. She bought a massage stick online not long ago and tried it. It felt good. She told her close friends that with this, she would no longer have to find a boyfriend.

In this regard, Ma Xiaonian believes that sex products are not a panacea. They are only auxiliary products that add icing on the cake when necessary. They cannot replace people's emotional investment and psychological needs. Therefore, it is still important to establish a happy marriage and a harmonious sex life. And because sex toys are highly stimulating, they should not be used too frequently, otherwise they will affect normal sexual physiological functions.

Will sex toys become a third party? Relevant surveys show that if a man accidentally discovers a vibrator in his girlfriend's closet, he will be unhappy and feel that "their girlfriend's words of disdain for them are not strong enough." Ms. Chen was also surprised and sad when she discovered that her boyfriend was using sex toys similar to female genitalia. Therefore, if a couple wants to use sex toys, it is best if both parties are willing to do so.

It is worth reminding that if you have any sexual dysfunction or sexual problems, you should first consult a specialist for treatment. If you use sex appliances casually, the result may be more harm than good.