When a man falls in love with a woman, he will change. He will become stronger and more temperamental, or he will become fragile and sad. This is love, it can sometimes determine a person's life and death.

Although girls are very reserved when expressing love, as boys, there are also times when they are shy. In this way, some girls receive "love signals" but are not sure, so they will have questions like: Is he secretly in love with me? Psychologists interpret for you: 20 signs that he is secretly in love with you.

1 "Same as you"

One time she asked me: "What kind of girlfriend do you want in the future?" I knew she was testing me, so I replied: "Someone as tall as you, as heavy as you, with a mouth as small as you, and a face as small as yours." You are as round as you are.”

She interrupted me: "How many are there like this?" "One is enough. I only love you, believe me!" At this point, it was clear. Although she complained that I was talkative, she smiled the most happily that day. She thought she had finally elicited what was in my heart, but in fact I didn't think so.

2 Analogy

One night I was chatting at her house, and while we were talking, she suddenly became silent. Then she stared at me and said with a smile: "The tone of your voice is the same as when my dad talks to my mom." I couldn't help but feel excited.

3 The meaning of delicious food

In fact, she doesn't know how to cook at all, but she talked to me about all kinds of delicious food and kept saying that she would cook it for me herself. She ended up cooking a plate of burnt steak frites, which failed to conquer my appetite but touched my heart.

4 Knowledge of borrowing books

She often comes to borrow books from me. What’s interesting is that even though she has already borrowed books, she still borrows them as if they are new. She also asks me with great interest how the books are. Later I asked her: "Why can't I borrow a book? I borrowed a book several times." But she plausibly said: "I did it on purpose, otherwise you would really think I like your book!"< /p>

5 steps to press

"A girl wants me to have sex." I said. She was very nervous and waited eagerly for the next step. I changed the subject: "But I declined." She smiled and felt very relaxed. I took advantage of the victory and said, "I just want to go see it with you." As a result, we went holding hands that day.

6Distance and Love

We have been dating for a long time, but since neither of us has said a word of love, I am not sure about our relationship with him. One day we went out to eat. We used to sit opposite each other, but that time I deliberately sat next to him. A subtle change, but it narrowed the distance between the two parties. Naturally, he was very clear about my feelings.

He was particularly excited that day and talked a lot. The closer distance seemed to increase his courage. His hands also climbed to my shoulders, and he leaned over to whisper, while I buried my head in his arms. Our love has come to this day, thanks to the change of distance.

7Stand-in couple

She is very nice to me, but it’s hard to guess a girl’s thoughts and she always feels a little distant. Later, I specially found an old classmate to accompany me for a walk. Of course she was also a girl. When she appeared, we pretended to be very close. She really believed it, almost burst into tears, turned around and ran away. I immediately chased her, grabbed her and said, "Don't be angry, I was testing you. Now I know, I did this because I like you." She burst into laughter. This is how our dating started.

8 Borrow a casket and return a pearl

In novels, the love between the hero and heroine often begins with borrowing a book. I didn't expect that this happened to me too. Every time he came to me, he would borrow a book, and then he would keep it and return it to me very carefully. Later he put a note in the book, "I like you."

9 Hold hands and look at each other

In fact, I didn't understand the art of the Five Elements, but I pretended to be a charlatan, grabbed her hand, and said, "I'm here to read your fortune," and started talking nonsense. Then I stretched out my hand to show her, "Please pay attention to my palm prints and your own palm prints." As I said that, I put my palms together with hers in a serious manner.

"Do you know what this is called?" I pretended to be serious, and then said, "This is called heart to heart."

10Love House and Crow

I got to know it first, and then I got to know her. She often took the puppy for walks in the park at night, and then he and I became good friends, and then she and I also became good friends.

One day when we were sitting on the bench to rest, I patted the puppy and said to it; "Tell your master that you still need a male master to take care of you."

11 wordless love letters

That method of suggestion was popular in the 1980s, but I didn't understand it at the time. One day, I received a strange letter with a stamp on it upside down. I recognized his handwriting on the envelope, but the envelope was empty. Perhaps because he didn't receive a reply, he finally couldn't help but come to me and bring a stack of thick white paper, "This time you don't have to excuse yourself because you don't have manuscript paper."

12 Divination

I like to use playing cards to tell other people's fortunes, so there are countless friends who come to me to seek luck and wealth, but I just don't tell her fortunes. I just tell her, "Your destiny is destined." Naturally, she is not very satisfied. Later, I told her: "My destiny is also determined by fate. We are destined." As a result, she did not believe in destiny, but she agreed with my prediction.

13Who is stupider than whom

She always calls me stupid because I always step on her feet when we dance. But I think she is stupider than me. Eating is much easier than dancing, but she keeps stepping on my feet under the table. Now that I think about it, I am still stupid.

14 Big fight

She is called the "heroine" because all the men around her have suffered from her physical pain. I was the only exception. She was polite to me and obeyed my advice. Later, people no longer called her "heroine" because she suddenly became polite to the men around her. I was the only exception and was often beaten by her "only".

15The role of photos

I had a crush on her during my sophomore year, but I didn't know if she felt the same way I did. So, I took a photo of her and enlarged it, and put it on my desk. When she came to play, I made her sit down at the table, and then I excused myself to wash apples.

When she was looking through the books and periodicals on the table, she naturally saw the photo of herself below. She was surprised, but actually very happy, I could tell. At this time, I came over to apologize and said, "I'm sorry. I just did it if I liked it. If you're not happy, I'll take it off right away." But she hurriedly said, "No, no, it's fine. In fact, I'm at home. There’s something better, I’ll bring it to you tomorrow!”

16 Falling is learned

One time when I was walking in the park, I wanted to test the progress of my relationship with him, so I made an ouch and pretended to fall, and he hugged me instinctively. I beat his chest and said coquettishly: "You are bad, you are bad!" But he hugged him tighter and said, "There are worse things." This was the first time he kissed me, and the emotion was natural and natural. After taking a step forward, I felt relieved.

17Give me a ride

He stood at the door of the company every day and watched me ride away before he left. Almost weatherproof. But every time he glanced at me and made me panic, but he refused to speak. He was a coward! Later, I couldn't help it anymore and went up and said, "Would you give me a ride?" He agreed hastily, and couldn't even hide his excitement.

18 Flower Language

On Valentine's Day, February 14th, she called me and asked: "Do you know what three roses mean?" I said, "Of course, the flower language is 'I love you.'" She was silent for a while, and then started to blame me: "Since you know , why don’t you send me a copy? Is the postman still on the way?”

19 Romantic Acts

People say that people who engage in art are the most romantic, but he does nothing but paint all day long, which makes me wonder if I am just being sentimental. He dispelled my doubts with a painting: the beautiful desert with long smoke, the setting sun outside the mountains, and he held my hand and we went on the journey together.

20 False Alarm

I'm ashamed to say that she was the one who pierced the window paper. We had dinner together, and she made an exception and picked up the wine glass. After three rounds of drinking, she revealed to me: "There is a man chasing me." I immediately became anxious, "You must think twice before you act, and don't be greedy." "She is quite good." I became even more anxious, "Is it possible? Haven’t you noticed that the man dangling in front of you is excellent?”

She smiled: "That man is you."

"A woman's heart is like a needle in the sea." Little do you know that a boy who secretly has a crush on you will also spend a lot of time to convey his love to you. A warm reminder from a psychologist: Have you "read" his "secret code"?

Take stock of the psychological rules of men chasing women

First impression only takes 0.2 seconds

Men always like to look at beautiful women, and they dare to look at them even when their wives are around. Can they use their brains when they see a beautiful woman? Well, scientists tell us, not really. When you see a beautiful woman on the street, it only takes 0.2 seconds for your brain to tell you whether this girl is your type before your body has time to react. If the answer is yes, then there will be a series of physiological reactions, such as accelerated heartbeat and increased testosterone... because the "sexual need" area in the male brain is 2.5 times larger than that in women.

Smiling doesn’t work on women

Research by Canadian psychology professor Alex Bell found that smiling does not attract girls. On the contrary, it is easier to impress them when you pose in a rebellious or meditative manner. Researchers found 1,084 heterosexual men and women and asked them to vote for 100 men and women in four positions. They are happy, proud, ashamed and expressionless. It turns out that men like women who smile, while women like men who look proud.

It's easiest to get a date on Wednesday night

Three science students in New York had nothing to do, so they collected the data of all users on Facebook and established a huge "openness" database, including people's descriptions of their sexual openness, case descriptions, etc. When these things are put together, a data chart is obtained. The chart shows that Wednesday night has the highest success rate, about 30% higher than Sunday night, which has the lowest success rate.

Women generally make a decision after 6 dates

A British survey involving 1,500 men and 1,500 women showed that 20% of men believe in love at first sight, while only 10% of women believe in love at first sight. Most women need six dates before they make a real decision. Men mainly look at looks when looking for a partner, while women consider it more.

Mantras go a long way

Research by James Baker, a professor of psychology at the University of Texas, found that if the frequency of a certain word in your mantra is similar to that of a certain girl, the chances of the two of you falling in love will also be greatly increased. The experimental team found 40 pairs of men and women for speed dating in the experiment. The results show that men and women who use certain verbs with similar frequency will have a better first impression and are more likely to hold hands. Because the consistency of language usage habits will make each other more willing to listen to each other.

75% of women refuse to marry the unemployed

Would a girl want to marry an unlucky guy who doesn't have a job? The answer is NO! A survey by Forbes magazine showed that 91% of women said they got married because of love and had nothing to do with money. But in another question in this questionnaire, only 25% of women expressed their willingness to marry an unemployed person.

Five living habits reveal men’s psychological secrets

1. Find out what sports he likes

Most young men have a few sports that they like. Men’s preferences for sports actually reflect their inner world. Men who like individual sports such as running and swimming prefer to be alone and are more independent in character; while men who like team sports such as football, basketball, rugby, etc. indicate that they have a very strong sense of competition and like to compete with others in all aspects of life. People around them compete to win; and those who don't like sports are generally better at thinking and have very sensitive minds.

2. See how long he has been dating his friends

The length of time a person spends with friends can often reflect a man's emotional loyalty. If a man is still dating his childhood playmate, it means that he is very loyal to his relationship. However, although this type of man is loyal to his feelings, his psychology is not easy to change, so it may take a long time and energy to capture the heart of this type of man. If his circle of friends is very broad and his friends come from all aspects of life, it means that this type of man has particularly strong communication skills and can easily adapt to new environments.

3. See if he uses cash or credit card

The way you pay can also reveal a man's character. If a man likes to swipe his credit card, it means that he is confident and can achieve his financial goals. Men who pay in cash are generally more independent, and the chance of this type of man being fickle is less. If a man always does not store credit cards or cash in his wallet, it means that this man likes to rely on others and hopes to be taken care of by others.

4. Look at his communication style

Nowadays, the communication industry is very developed, and people have many ways to communicate. Some people like to make phone calls, some like to send text messages, and some people like to send emails. Men use different communication tools and have different personalities. If he likes to talk on the phone, it means that he is not afraid of being intimate with you, but he prefers to do things step by step; if he likes to send instant messages, it means that he hopes to get your attention and determines whether you are always waiting by the speed of your messages. Him; if he likes to send emails, it means that he is a more mature and difficult person to deal with, because when writing emails, you can choose your words carefully, giving them enough time to cover themselves up.

5. Watch his favorite TV shows

Most women are easily addicted to TV dramas, but some men also like to watch TV dramas one after another. Such men actually like to use humor and entertainment to relieve the pressure in life, so that he will not regard you as pressure. An outlet. But it is difficult for you to discuss serious topics with this type of man. If a man likes to watch legal programs, it means that he is good at analysis and thinking. This type of men enjoys the sense of accomplishment after solving problems, so they will be happy to help you solve some problems in life.