Twelve categories of top-notch wives have many flaws. It would be strange if a man married you but didn’t cheat on you.
There is a saying that "no gold is pure, and no one is perfect." I believe that the vast majority of female compatriots have one or more of these 12 problems to a greater or lesser extent, so for the sake of the one you love If you can be happy and happy, why not consciously correct yourself from now on? Be careful that he will regret it after marrying you...
Married men, if you are married to a woman with one or more problems, then take a look at what kind of person you are marrying? Is it too late to correct it? Of course, we have to admit that some problems are innate in our bones and cannot be changed no matter how hard you work yourself to death. As the saying goes, "the bones grow into the flesh," or "if you are not a donkey at one year old, you will be a donkey foal when you are old," or "you will see your age at three years old," etc. This is the truth.
The first type: a woman whose ambition is always greater than her love.
The terrifying desire for power and dominance swelled in her heart, just like Nala and Wu Zetian, who wanted the "phoenix" above the "dragon". If you accidentally let her enter your company, she will not cooperate wholeheartedly with you and be your right-hand man just because you are hers. Instead, she will wholeheartedly control the lifeblood of the company and gain absolute control over the company. Otherwise, she will Food is not pleasant to the taste. She will go out of her way to put obstacles in your way. And once she obtains the decision-making power of the company, she can change the clouds and rain with her hands, and even your spending and behavior are within her control. By then, if you continue to laugh at yourself for "letting the wolf into the house," I'm afraid the situation is over and it will be too late to regret it.
The second type: women who constantly create scandals and cuckold men.
This kind of woman is not single-minded by nature. She is keen on dressing up, flirting and being romantic everywhere. Wherever you go, your first goal is to attract men’s attention. She regards men's praise as the highest honor and reward, and will never stop trying to avoid being in the limelight and creating a "sensational effect". As her man, you are always under the "attention" of others, and you are always a "vulnerable" group that is sympathized with.
The third type: Look for women who are compatible with your classmates or friends.
This kind of woman is born with insufficient cultivation and low moral standards. He has no self-esteem, and he doesn’t know how to respect what he loves. In order to show off her charm to you, she seeks out acquaintances of yours to flirt with or even cheat on you. If you are not careful, you will be forced to face the embarrassment of being "shared with your wife" by a classmate or friend, and you will be unable to hold your head up or stand up as a man for the rest of your life.
The fourth type: a woman who specializes in exposing her man's shortcomings in front of others, leaving you without even a fig leaf.
This kind of woman is like a resentful woman, whose "suffering is so great and her hatred is so deep" that it's hard to write in words. You will never distinguish between inside and outside, and you will want to "complain" when you catch someone. You can't wait to put all your stains from five hundred years ago on display in the sun. Even your sexual history and scandals must be vividly "depicted" to outsiders, and The more your acquaintances are present, the stronger her desire to express herself will be, and the more "complete" she will expose you. She does this just to use your "unbearableness" to prove how "virtuous" and "tolerant" she is. Who knows, this will make your man lose face, feel ashamed, and ruin his image.
Type 5: The woman who will always be in front of you.
These days, equality between men and women is advocated, but some women go too far. In marriage, it usually shows that her words are the supreme "imperial edict". She alone makes the final decision on big and small matters, and you are just a deaf ear - a "fashion". What's more, she will treat her slaves like a master. Call you here and there and drink you. Public occasions and in front of friends are no exception.
Type 6: Suspicious women.
This kind of woman is a bit neurotic. She is used to the "regularities" of your life, such as what time you get off work and when you come home every day, how long you will walk on the road, etc. If something is delayed occasionally and you don't arrive home or keep an appointment on time, she will use her rich imagination and become suspicious. , and even put some unfounded charges on you. No matter how you explain it, you can't clear her suspicions. Sometimes she even hires someone or herself to follow and "reconnaissance" you, making you feel like you are walking on thin ice or facing an abyss every day, and you are in panic all day long.
Type 7: A narrow-minded, petty woman.
This kind of woman is intolerant, and she can't even tolerate your past relationships or old lovers. Once she has grasped your "situation", she will be very upset. Whenever there is any disturbance, she will not hesitate to use your "history" to make trouble, and even go to your class or leader to make a fuss, causing you to Gray-headed. You will always have the feeling of being "grabbed by the pigtails" or "tailed" by others.
Type 8: A woman who is ignorant and ignorant.
Such a woman can only work in the kitchen, but never in the hall. Otherwise, in public places, or when your distinguished guests come to your home to drink together at the same table, she will definitely surprise you and make you sweat in three words. You might make your guests think that you married a caveman from thousands of years ago.
Type 9: A woman who makes cooing regardless of the occasion.
In front of the one you love, a woman's occasional "whispering" will add a kind of interest. Because many men don't mind the woman they like acting coquettishly towards them, and even think that women who can act coquettishly understand emotions better. However, if this woman starts flirting with you regardless of the occasion or priority, for example, at a class reunion. Sometimes, she wants to show your deep love as a couple in front of your female classmates or old sweethearts. She puts her arms around your neck and kisses you as if there is no one around, while whispering some sensual words. Or when you meet her while you are performing official duties, she He rushes forward crazily, flirts with you in an exaggerated way, and ignores the existence of your companions and superiors, which will make you and everyone present sweat!
Category 10: A woman who speaks in a loud voice even in a Western restaurant and shows "soaring arrogance".
This kind of woman is bold by nature, likes to exchange glasses with men at the wine table, call each other brothers, and is used to making loud noises. Therefore, even if she walks into a quiet and elegant Western restaurant, she does not pay attention to the atmosphere and occasion, and still feels like she is alone. You speak loudly and laugh loudly without even realizing it, but you have already attracted everyone's attention, which will make those around you feel embarrassed.
Type 11: Women who look down on your parents, relatives and friends.
She may love you very much, but she is full of criticism or even "hostility" towards your parents, relatives or friends around you. This can reflect her bad heart. If you choose her, it means that you have to face family and friends. , alienation between classmates. This will make you lose more than you gain and be full of disappointment.
Type 12: A woman who has no sense of responsibility and often runs away from home.
This kind of woman has no real job, is too lazy to do housework, and has no concept of caring for her husband and raising children. She dresses herself up every day, ostentatiously walks through the market, or goes to play mahjong or go to shopping malls. She doesn’t know where her life goals are, and she is slightly unhappy. If he gets his way, he will slam the door and run away from home, or go back to his parents' house or to the houses of other relatives and friends, or even hide with other men on the pretext of being stuck in anger.