Among the many factors that lead to loss of sexual desire, many factors are caused by man-made factors. Therefore, couples must learn to self-examine or check each other’s reasons for loss of sexual desire.

1. Husband and wife relationship: A good relationship between husband and wife will produce sexual desire and promote a harmonious sexual life, and a close sexual life will in turn promote the relationship between husband and wife. Therefore, couples must not make love just for the sake of sex. They must understand that love produces sex and sex promotes love.

2. Emotions When a person has a good attitude, he will often have the desire for sexual intercourse; if he is in a bad mood, his sexual desire will easily decrease. When your spouse is in a bad mood, you must first eliminate his or her bad mood and do not force her to share a room. Otherwise, not only will the spouse not be able to arouse sexual pleasure, but it will also lead to sexual indifference and affect the relationship between the couple.

3. The influence of the biological clock: When a person is at the peak of the biological clock, the sexual desire is relatively strong; if the biological clock is at a low period, the sexual desire will decrease.

4. Living situation means that difficulty in living will affect the generation and satisfaction of sexual desire, and sexual disharmony such as impotence, premature ejaculation, and apathy may also occur. Crowded living will also affect the normal sexual and psychological development of the next generation.

5. Addiction to tobacco and alcohol. Long-term addiction to tobacco and alcohol will not only affect sexual function and reduce sexual desire, but also the harmful substances in tobacco and alcohol will affect the eugenics of the next generation through three channels. The first is that harmful substances directly affect the quality and quantity of sperm and egg cells; the second is that harmful substances dissolve in semen and cause damage to fertilized eggs and early regeneration; the third is that harmful substances directly affect androgens secretion, which reduces sexual desire and affects the quality of fertilized eggs.

6. Effects of Drugs: Long-term or large-scale use of certain drugs can affect sexual function, reduce sexual desire, cause impotence in men, and apathy in women.

7. Sensory stimulation: Continuous stimulation of sensory organs such as vision, smell, hearing, and skin touch can increase sexual desire.

8. Seasonal factors Generally speaking, spring is the courtship season; warm bedding in winter makes it easier for couples to lie close to each other, which easily arouses sexual desire; in autumn, the temperature is moderate and the desire for courtship is also strong; only midsummer , the heat is unstoppable, sweating profusely, and sexual desire often weakens.

9. Male sexual desire reaches its peak after puberty. Sexual desire begins to decrease at the age of 30-40. From the age of 50, it weakens significantly. However, sexual ability can be maintained until the age of 70-80, but sexual desire only decreases. has not disappeared. Women's sexual desire does not reach its climax until the age of 30-40, gradually decreases after menopause, and decreases significantly after the age of 60.

10. Health status: Only with a healthy body and abundant energy can you have strong sexual desire; poor health makes it difficult to arouse sexual desire, and many diseases can affect sexual desire.

After one party suffers from loss of sexual desire, the other party should not blame the other party, but should provide comfort. The couple should first look for the cause themselves, and then go to the hospital for help if they cannot find it.