The biggest expectation of the woman after marriage is to teach the husband and be a competent wife and mother. But thinking about it, doing it is another matter. Then refer to the following 10 principles, and it will not be difficult for you to gather thousands of loves in one body.

Principle 1: Be absolutely gentle

It is said that heroes have a hard time with beauty, but God cannot allow every woman in the world to have the beauty of a sunken fish or a geese, and the appearance of a flower that is shy of the moon, so if you If it is not beautiful, it must first be gentle. As an extremely good wife, being gentle is of course the top priority.

When he comes back from get off work and has not entered the door, you have to take his bag and put his slippers towards him. Then make him a cup of tea and peel an apple (preferably cut into pieces). (Into a movie), if he is in a good mood and wants to chat with you for a while, you must not say: "Hey, hubby, I still have to do laundry and cook, so we can talk later."

You have to sit down quickly, communicate with him in a soft voice, and listen to him talk about his "heroic deeds" while showing admiration; if he is in a bad mood and gets angry with you, don't say: "Hi "Why are you yelling? What can you do at home? Show off your skills outside!"

If you want to be a good wife, the most important thing to do at this time is to sit down with him and say compassionately. : "My dear, don't be angry. Look at who has pissed off such a good-tempered husband in our family. There must be something wrong with this person!" Guaranteed that he couldn't get angry no matter how hard he tried.

Who said heroes have trouble with beauty? In fact, women’s gentleness is what men fear and love the most. When he is tired, you give him a beating; when he is in pain, you rub it for him; when he is hot, you fan him; when he is thirsty, you give him a glass of water; when he smiles, you feel happy in your heart; When he cries, you have to hold him in your arms like a child.

In short, a gentle woman should think about her husband, regard his joys and sorrows as her own, and then put her own aside for the time being! Just imagine, if you are really soft to the core, then your husband will still stay by your side obediently and cannot be driven away even if you want!

Principle 2: Pay absolute attention to your own image

God did not give you a beautiful face or a devil-like figure, but he also did not allow you to ruin yourself at will. I often see married women who don’t pay any attention to their dress.

She doesn’t even wear a bra when she goes to work. When asked by curious people, she looked surprised: “I’m already married and don’t want to find a husband anymore, so why do I dress up like this? It’s so convenient to go home and breastfeed the baby!” There are definitely not a few women like this who think that after marrying their husbands, they don’t need to put on makeup for anyone else. In fact, it is still needed, and it is very needed.

Which husband would like a wife who can wear a set of pajamas all over the world? I often see some women wearing pajamas even when shopping for groceries or shopping. This is really unacceptable! Didn’t you say that? Women are born not only to dress themselves up, but also to dress up in men's world. How can you just fool around with this top priority just because you are married?

A good wife should know how to put on light makeup and heavy makeup, and know what clothes to wear for certain occasions. It doesn’t matter if she is not beautiful, but she must be dignified and decent! Don’t wear a pair of travel shoes under a ladylike skirt, a pair of high heels under sports pants, don’t wear stockings that have been stripped off, and pay attention to the “scenery” of your armpits under a suspender top. If you often displease your husband, undermine him, and disgrace him, you will forget about your reputation as a good wife, and even your marriage will be a red flag for you.

Principle 3: Absolutely nourish your husband’s stomach

I don’t know who came up with it: to take care of your husband, you must first take care of his stomach. As a result, there are far more “sisters-in-law” than “uncles” buying vegetables in the vegetable market. But let’s not say whether this is true or philosophical. In short, it is correct to follow it accurately. A good wife must not say coquettishly: "Husband, hurry up and cook, I'm starving!"

In fact, many men are thinking in their hearts: Why should I marry a wife, not just for me? Are you here for cooking and laundry? I just don't dare to say it. Therefore, don’t make your husband murmur in his heart just for a few meals, it’s not worth it.

You have to study the recipes carefully and know the "Three Hundred Kitchen Tips" by heart. You have to think over and over again about what soup and ingredients, how to mix each dish, how much MSG and salt to add. , practice again and again until you are perfect, until your cooking skills are almost ready to go to the "Manchu-Han Banquet" on the central stage. Naturally, your husband will not sneak into a restaurant and let you eat at home alone every day. !

Principle 4: Never compare your husband with other people’s husbands

Men hate it most when their wives take him out for sex, and when doing so, they don’t forget to compare other people’s husbands with themselves. The most intolerable thing is for my wife to say: "Look at you, what kind of virtue do you have! You only know how to do such a trivial housework. If someone else's husband makes tens of thousands a year, you are the most incompetent!"

If Her husband can also earn tens of thousands, but she will say: "Oh! You only know about money, money, money. Someone's husband always takes her to play and go for a walk. Have you ever accompanied me?" If it happens that her husband has been with her, she will say: "Oh, please help me with some housework. I'm exhausted. You'd better just sit on the sofa and watch TV. So-and-so's husband is a model." , not like you!"

It seems that all the men in the world are good, but the one next to you is the worst. A good wife would never do this. She would not compare her husband with others. Even if she really compared her husband, she would say something like this: "So-and-so's husband is capable, but he is not as considerate as you. It's still you." Best, my dear!" This comparison makes my husband feel very comfortable!

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Principle 5: Never be too smart in front of your husband, sometimes he prefers you to be dumber

When a man feels that the woman around him is inferior to him in every way When he does something, he will have a sense of accomplishment and feel that this woman is being conquered by his omniscience. Everyone knows that men like to conquer women.

So, when he says there are only two kinds of people in the world, you must not say three. When he says the capital of the United Kingdom is New York, you must not say London. You must admire it with great admiration. Said: "Ah, you know so much, this...I don't know much about this!" If the computer system is broken, you ask him to fix it, even if he doesn't know how to do it, but you can make perfect with practice, so you don't have to fix it, you have to Give him more of the things you can easily do, and say at the right time: "Husband, you are really good at it, why can't I?"

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