Tricks to prevent your husband from cheating. As the quality of human life continues to improve, people are becoming increasingly dissatisfied with their various needs. Especially in terms of marriage, "cheating" incidents are becoming more and more common. More ordinary, how should a woman keep her man?

1. It is better to perfect yourself than to think randomly

Women’s meticulousness, seriousness, and sensitivity give them advantages over men in some aspects. But on the other hand, women also have shortcomings such as narrow-mindedness, suspicion, paranoia, perfectionism, and emotional vulnerability.

Case: Rong'er accidentally discovered a diary of her husband's past when she was moving, and learned some things between her husband and his lover. From then on, she interrogated her husband every day about what was going on, and She also read the diary many times and memorized it by heart. Wherever she went, she would recall whether her husband had been here with others in the past, what he had done, etc.

This caused her great pain. She could not sleep all night long and had no intention of working during the day. Their children are all in elementary school. Rong'er doesn't want to divorce her husband, but she can't forgive her husband either. They torture each other like this, causing her husband great pain.

Analysis: Although many women do not have such extreme behaviors as mentioned above, they are still prone to doubting the loyalty of their husbands or boyfriends and spend a lot of energy on random thoughts. Not only do they lack trust in each other, they also lack self-confidence. I often ask them, life’s time is limited, how much time do we take to truly consider our own life, work and entertainment? Is it worth spending so much time thinking about irrelevant people and things? Some people will suddenly realize after hearing this, and feel that they should pay more attention to their own growth. Instead of watching their husbands like a thief and torturing themselves until they are mentally damaged and haggard in appearance, they should pay more attention to improving their own qualities and perfecting themselves.

Comment: It is often difficult to judge people, and it is most important to grasp yourself. Only confident and self-loving women are attractive!

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2. Unable to dedicate yourself to the point of losing yourself

Half of a person's character is due to heredity, and the other half is due to acquired environmental influence and education. When women grow up, their parents unconsciously give them too much protection. It seems that girls should be more delicate than boys, and men should help women. The result is that women are more dependent than men.

After getting married, many women focus their main energy on their husbands and children. They think that it is enough for their husbands to struggle outside. The husband is noble and the wife is honored, so they do not seek to make progress, and gradually become alienated from the outside world. When her husband's career developed and her children grew up, she became redundant, unattractive in the eyes of others, and felt very inferior herself.

The motherhood in women makes them willing to selflessly dedicate themselves, but women do not consider their own growth, career and hobbies at all, and their dedication is quickly emptied, and finally they lose themselves. Even if the family is very wealthy, women should have their own career and space, because women's self-confidence comes from self-reliance.

Case: Qin Fei became a full-time housewife after she got married. Her main daily tasks were housework, shopping, etc. Her husband is busy with work and has no time to take care of her loneliness, and her friends all have to go to work, so no one can accompany her for recreation. Qin Fei becomes more and more depressed, wondering why she has become a yellow-faced woman? Later, with the help of a psychiatrist, Qin Fei became a SOHO woman. She was both leisurely and busy all day long. She no longer had time to pay attention to her husband’s phone calls and facial expressions. As a result, her husband often paid attention to her whereabouts and appreciated her. new life.

Comment: Some people compare women to a book or a school, but if there is no fresh content, what is the appeal? Therefore, while women care about their families, they should also pay more attention to their career development and personality cultivation to enrich their lives.

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3. Women’s happiness comes from themselves

Women are rich in emotions and prone to sentimentality, so who should a woman’s happiness come from? Many women complain that their husbands do not love her enough, are not romantic, considerate, and understanding towards her, and they feel very troubled.

Case: Xiaoyu’s husband used to be very caring to her. He often sent her small gifts and cards, and he also exchanged love letters frequently, which made her feel very happy. But after a few years of marriage, her husband became more and more busy with work and became more and more indifferent to her. He even forgot their wedding anniversary and her birthday, which made her particularly sad. Does her husband not love her anymore? Or do you love something else? She begins to doubt whether there is everlasting love.

Analysis: In fact, the relationship between the couple is not static, but develops and changes, from romance to reality, from flowers to fruits. In the past, my husband often sent cards, but now he has to think about earning a house and a car for the family. In the first three years of marriage, the two were in the infatuation stage, and then entered the attachment stage. Women should consider creating their own happiness instead of waiting for others to give them happiness, and they should not become emotional beggars. Women can have their own social interactions, go shopping, exercise, travel, and learn new skills to make their lives more valuable, make them happier, and make their husbands happy too.

Comments: Remember! Women's happiness comes from themselves.

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4. Don’t isolate your husband with love

No matter how you go out, women are still more concerned about the family than men, and are more controlled by the family. The relationship between a woman and her parents-in-law is more difficult than the relationship between a husband and his parents-in-law, because some women are very sensitive and pay too much attention to their own feelings. In fact, if women care more about other people's feelings, many relationships can go well. Many people unconsciously only think about their own needs and hobbies and are unwilling to consider the needs of others, especially those who grew up being cared for by everyone.

Case: Lin Ling has only been married for more than a year. The relationship between husband and wife has always been very good, and her husband is recognized by everyone as a good gentleman. Recently, my mother-in-law moved to live with them from another place. My husband is a very filial son. Because he is very busy at work, he hopes that his wife can take more care of his mother. But Lin Ling had always lived with her husband's favor, and now that there was another person in the family to share her husband's love, she suddenly felt psychologically unbalanced, and naturally she acted out of character towards the old lady. She only thinks about how she is ignored by her husband and how she wants to fight for it, but she does not consider her husband's needs and feelings at all.

Analysis: In fact, as long as she is good to his mother, he will definitely love her more in return. Some smart and virtuous wives are particularly kind to the children of their husbands' ex-wives. As a result, they get twice the result with half the effort and win double the love of their husbands and children. But some people don't think of this.

Comment: The idiom says "love the house and the bird", which should be very suitable for use in the life of couples. Competing with your husband's close family members may eventually overturn the balance of his love.

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