Husband and wife, as two people who support each other throughout their lives, it is not easy to be together. It requires a lot of fate. When it comes to emotional issues between couples, different people may have vastly different feelings. This is because some people's marital relationships become more stable because of marriage, while some people gradually move to the edge of fragmentation precisely because of marriage.

So, how should we "scientifically drive" our marriage after marriage? How should we make our marriages truly harmonious? Take a look at these tips for couples to get along with each other that the editor has prepared for you:

1. If you don’t give it to the “mistress”, you will get it

Many people think that the so-called "mistress" will appear after marriage. In fact, this is not the case. Mistresses can be said to be everywhere. Whether before marriage or after marriage, both husband and wife will have their own life circles, and it is inevitable to make friends.

However, you should be cautious when making friends of the opposite sex, and be cautious when interacting. It is best to make friends of the opposite sex with the knowledge of the other party. Friends of the opposite sex who obviously have a good impression of you or even have bad intentions towards you should take the initiative to distance themselves, handle emotional disputes with reason, and avoid A third party interferes in your marriage life and affects the relationship between the couple.

2. “Surprises” are everywhere

"If you love her, give her sexual happiness; if you love her, give her a surprise of love." This is a sexual concept we have always had, and it is also one of the tips for couples to get along scientifically.

Everyone likes surprises. Creating something unexpected from time to time is an emotional stimulant and is conducive to the improvement of the couple's relationship. Therefore, in addition to busy life, you should create more romantic "surprises" for each other, such as hiding it from the other person. , sending flowers to the company, buying something that the other party wants to get, creating an activity for the couple that the other party is not prepared for but likes very much, etc., can all make unexpected surprises arise spontaneously, thus bursting out a strong feeling in the surprise. The flower of emotion sets off a joyful wave of love.

3. Have enough time for sex

Don't ignore the existence of sex for a long time because of your own time problems. Sex is the spice of love, and we really can't ignore it.

In the fast-paced modern society, everyone is very busy at work. Many people are too busy with official duties to take care of the love life of the couple. As a result, the couple often cannot eat or sleep together, which affects the two people. The consolidation and development of feelings. Therefore, no matter how busy you are at work, you still have to make clever arrangements and squeeze out time for the two of you to live together and fall in love together.

4. Be cautious about household chores

Many people think that material things will not interfere with our love, but do you know? Many emotionally broken families are often caused gradually by financial crises.

In some families, money belongs to one party. If the financial affairs cannot be disclosed, family conflicts will also arise when one party's financial requirements are not met. These are all worthy of vigilance. Therefore, husband and wife should manage finances together, adhere to the principle of living within their means, be diligent and thrifty, and be careful with their budgets. Always keep some flexible funds on hand in case of unforeseen circumstances. In this way, you can prevent financial crises before they happen and avoid emotional crises before they happen.

Wives should boldly talk about sex with their husbands

Wives, don't restrain your sexual desire. Tell your husband boldly about your needs and his mistakes, so that you can achieve sexual happiness.

Tell me about your sexual desire cycle

Women's sexual desire cycles are different from men's, and it's possible that a man wants to have sex with a woman but doesn't feel it. In this situation, women can easily force themselves, while men will "go with the flow." Therefore, women must know their sexual desire cycle. Generally, women have two peak areas in each 28-day menstrual cycle, one is within two or three days before menstruation, and the other is 8 to 9 days after menstruation. Within days, there are about 14 days between two peak areas. This period of time is full of women’s sexual expectations, and they should tell the man to let him know when she is in a state, so as to achieve the effect of consensual sex.

State your sexual needs

Sex is not "voluntary labor" for women for men. It is an intimate behavior between husband and wife based on mutual demands. During the sexual life process, including the preparation stage and after the end, every wife has a variety of experiences, including the experience of feeling satisfied, euphoric and happy, but also the experience of dissatisfaction, disappointment, disgust and even pain.

These experiences should be communicated and communicated with the husband, and he should take the initiative to tell him. Of course, you also need to pay attention to strategy in how you speak, which is also an art. The principle is to say what you are most satisfied with first and praise more. When your husband is happy, tell him what you don't like very much and how you should improve it in the future. Don't blame him, let alone be sarcastic or sarcastic.

Say "no" to sex life in special times

There are many special periods in a woman's life, such as menstruation, pregnancy, etc. During these periods, women are unable to have sex, while men's sexual desire is high. Therefore, women should reject men reasonably and say "no" to sex. The wife should take the initiative to clarify the truth to her husband, and she will usually gain his understanding. Smart wives tell their husbands about their menstrual cycles. This not only takes into account the sexual pleasure between husband and wife, but also serves as a message for the husband to do more housework and be more considerate of himself. Some wives cleverly mark the dates of their menstruation and menstruation on their calendars so that their husbands can know them at a glance.

4 tips to make sex never boring after marriage

1. Desire

Not all sex is initiated by men. In fact, women's initiative often makes sex more exciting. You can have a close relationship with her, or kiss her passionately.

Put the tip of your tongue into her mouth and ask her to do the same. This trick can make each other feel better. No matter how hungry you are at this time, don't rush to hit the hole; the 120,000-year-old mood is enough to make sex reach its peak.

2. Hug

Food and clothing will never make us tired. This is because hugs bring not only physical warmth, but also the same feeling in the soul. In addition, you can improve the quality of sex through caressing, starting from her secondary sensitive zones, such as the inside of the auricles and the back of the neck, and then gradually moving to super sensitive zones, such as the inner thighs and sexual organs. The gentler the movements, the better the sensation. She will also get more and more into the situation. Of course, you can also ask her to put her hands on your sexy belt and flirt with each other.

3. Greetings

You can never have too many nice words. When she wants you to encourage her, don’t hesitate to say sweet words. The other person will be delighted by the praise! In addition to "I love you", you can also say some specific words such as "You are so sexy"; if you can't find any suitable words, then breathe out to make sex more exciting. The belief that you care about her at all times during the process can make sex more exciting.

4. Tongue kiss

Use your tongue to scrub her whole body thoroughly, especially her nipples, clitoris and labia minora. Some women's senses are very sensitive, and they feel extremely sensitive when they lightly touch the roots behind the ears, toes or fingers. To improve the quality of sex, both men and women need to spend time developing each other's erogenous zones, using Tongue "carpet search". People who have tried "Swiss-Shu Le" will realize: the skin is the largest sexual organ of the human body!