As society provides more and more job opportunities for women and the emergence of female leaders in various fields, the sense of crisis among these outstanding female gentlemen has become more and more serious. Men, when you face a wife who attracts the attention of countless men, and when you can't help but feel uneasy and worried, what should you think and do? ​​Crisis wife NO.1: Leave your smiling face to men other than your husband

In 2003, I was admitted to the civil service, and my wife Yanzi opened a cafe. When it first opened, she was as busy as a spinning top, working in the store from morning to night all day long. When I got home, I was so tired that even if I spoke a few words, I looked exhausted. I understand her hard work, and I am also moved by the hardships she faced in starting a business. I always silently endured her neglect alone. However, now that two years have passed, the coffee shop has long been on track, business is good, and management and other issues do not require her to do it herself. She still spends more time outside and less time at home, even on weekends. . As a husband, I am very puzzled by her behavior.

One night, I stopped by a cafe while buying late-night snacks for my son. It was that night that I realized how full of life the wife of a cafe owner was. As soon as I walked in, I saw her sitting in front of a big table, surrounded by a group of men, talking excitedly. I found a dark corner to sit down, and watched her chatting and laughing with a group of strange men from a distance. Looking at her smiling face through the dim light, I suddenly felt a particularly uncomfortable and strange feeling. Which one is my wife, the energetic woman with a bright smile or the cold-faced woman who comes home every day?

After sitting for more than ten minutes, she noticed me, so she came over to say hello and explained to me that they were all regular customers of the store. I couldn't help but said: "It seems that I am not as good as your guests." She immediately leaned over sensitively, forced out a tired smile and said: "You are still jealous." I felt even more uneasy, feeling that she Guilty.

Later, I often used excuses to go to coffee shops and found that she often sat with strange men and talked and laughed. After paying attention, I couldn't seem to tell which one she was particularly close to. I feel so useless. My wife's happiness and smile are reserved for men other than her husband. I can only bear the feeling.

◆The "sure-kill strategy" to resolve the crisis:

1. Faced with a wife who is hot on the outside but cold on the inside, the first thing a man should do is not to find out which man she is closer to. Some, but give yourself confidence, and never deny yourself by seeing her lively side. When a man is confident, his mind will be broad.

2. A wife who likes to interact with strangers usually has a cheerful personality. If her husband makes her feel dull, over time the two of them will not be able to talk to each other. Occasionally have a date alone with your wife; or put a sprig of her favorite lily on the pillow when she comes home late; make more jokes when she is angry. Make fun of life and your charm will come back.

3. Understand your wife and silently support her work. Finding a rare book on business management or collecting some latest information on foreign coffee shops will make your wife moved by your attentiveness and care.

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Mrs. Crisis NO.2: Getting “good” with a man in my husband’s circle

My friend A Feng likes my wife Fanfan me I’ve felt it for a long time. That day Afeng said he would come to my house for dinner. I was working overtime so I asked him to go home first and help Fanfan cook. However, when I went home and opened the door, I saw Afeng and Fanfan sitting on the sofa talking, Fanfan laughing like a child. Suddenly I had the illusion that I had inadvertently broken into someone else's house, feeling unnecessary and at a loss.

Since then I have had a little knot in my heart. But Fanfan didn't notice my emotions at all, and he always mentioned Afeng in front of me regardless of nothing. Last week was Fanfan's birthday, and I suddenly received a text message from Afeng, asking if my sister-in-law had a birthday these days. I immediately wrote him angrily and said it didn't happen! That night, after I celebrated Fanfan's birthday, I fell asleep. In fact, I would rather believe that there is nothing between them, but when I carefully recall every detail of the three of us together, it seems full of flaws. Why is Afeng still thinking about her birthday? Why does she always mention Afeng? She looked particularly charming when Afeng was around. The more I thought about it, the more uneasy I became. I couldn't help but hugged Fanfan tightly. She woke up and said coquettishly: "What are you doing? You have to go to work tomorrow." I refused to listen. Maybe at this time, only sex could make me feel at ease and make me believe that she and I were the best and could not be replaced by anyone.

◆The "sure-kill strategy" to resolve the crisis:

1. Harmonious sex is certainly the best healing tool between husband and wife, but men with a sense of crisis must not look for a sense of security in marriage solely through sex. Women have sex out of emotion, and for the wife, this is exactly unsafe behavior.

2. Although being quiet is a man's virtue, instead of making random guesses, it is better to find the right opportunity to make insinuations and hint that the boundaries between wife, lover and friends should be clear. If your wife still doesn't understand, you might as well find a situation where the three of you get along, use some body language towards your wife, hug her and kiss her as if no one else is watching, and show in a high-profile manner that your lover is your lover and your friend is your friend.

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Mrs. Crisis NO.3: She is about to become my "boss"

My wife and I seem to be on the same starting line Two rabbits on the Internet - they graduated from the same university and were admitted to a scientific research institute at the same time, got married and had children. But starting from the year before last, I slowly discovered that we are no longer on the same level. After getting married and having children, my wife did not transfer all her energy to her husband and children like many women who sacrificed their career for the sake of family. Instead, she continued to work hard. In an office filled with men, she quickly stood out. Although I worked hard to produce results and publish papers, I was never appreciated by my leaders.

At the end of 2005, my wife was promoted two levels in a row with a scientific research project that won the National Excellence Award, and her salary was increased by two levels. When all my colleagues saw me, they congratulated me on finding a good wife, but I was not happy at all. Whenever I think about having to call my wife "boss" in the workplace from now on, I feel as depressed as a mountain weighing on me, making me breathless.

Recently, my wife often travels on business to participate in training or lectures in other places. Although she truthfully tells me where she is going and what arrangements she has every time, I always feel uncomfortable. What makes me even more unbearable is that she doesn't seem to care about me as much as she used to. Once she was on a business trip for three days and didn't even get a call.

Slowly, I began to strike a balance by hitting my wife. I said she looked ugly no matter what she wore. When a friend gave her lipstick, I said you don't look like a scientific researcher with your lips so red. She got a double salary at the end of the year. I think you guys are probably the taller ones. My wife always smiles tolerantly. It is impossible for a woman to be tolerant when she loves a man. I wish she would keep fussing with me endlessly, like a petulant child, like she used to. That kind of hysterical look bothered me at the time, but now that I think about it, I find it is the most beautiful gesture of a woman. At least I can be sure that she only loves me when she does this.

◆The "sure-kill strategy" to resolve the crisis:

1. If a woman does well in her career, she will inevitably attract the admiring looks of other men. Men must first face this fact and This fact should be accepted with extraordinary magnanimity. Remember, it is a man's blessing to marry a capable and motivated wife.

2. Sometimes the same efforts may not necessarily yield the same results. Opportunity is a very important part in determining success. If the actual working environment is not suitable for your development, you can consider changing to another department. A fresh position is likely to be fertile ground for your progress.

3. Play the "family card" from time to time: When your wife is on a business trip, several phone calls a day are annoying, but one phone call a day is heartwarming.

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